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Well... my name is Eden, I go to North Mesquite High School, and I'll be graduating in 2007. My boyfriend Bryan and I have been together for almost a year, and ummm... I guess that's it really. I like getting out of the house, and hanging out with friends. I tend to hate most people because they're dumbasses and have dumbass personalities, so if your question is unpurposely retarded you'll get a sarcastic anwser.

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okay so I've been dating this guy for like well 2 weeks and i care for him with all my heart! and i think it might even b love! and i kno that he feels the same way i mean he tells me everyday how much he cares for me and stuff so im hoping he means it! well today my best friend just told me a bunch of stuff that i think is totally wrong about my bf like that he does drugs! and that he still is in love with his X! and ive talked to him about all this b4 and he told me that he would never do drugs and he loves me more that n e one! but then again most guys would say that right? so please help me! i dont know who to beleive (link)
Listen you dumb bitch, this is NOT love, real love takes time. This is LUST. I'm not even going to anwser this ridiculous question, because your boyfriend is a dumb fuck too. God I hate some people.


ok me and my bf broke up because he found that i was talking to another boy but that boy really dont mean nothing to me i love my bf so much. anyway he took me back but i no he dont trust me! what can i say to him to get him to belive me? plese help me im so sorry i didnt mean for none of this tohappen
shaiina (link)
First of all...
1) really dont mean nothing
2) i no he dont trust me
3)for none of this

My advice to you is...
you're retarded. Please never have children.


Weird question, but okay.. do you find it normal to like someone alot that you've never met? I think that its normal to an extent- like a celeb.. but what do you think? (link)
Well, yes it's normal. Just don't become obsessed.

Next!


Well i am a girl 14 and i have a boyfriend. Hes serious and everything but i dont like kissing him. it kinda feels weird. but i was out with my friend, whos a lesbian, ane she started getting all touchy feely w/ me...and i kinda got worried..then she was all..do you really like kyle? (my bf's name) and i was like yes i do. and she got really close to me and said, are you sure? and i said uhh..and she kissed me. right there in her living room. i was like totally grossed out at first, then i decided, its better than kissing kyle, and so we started making out, it got hotter by the minuite first just kissing then she was eating me out. it was like heaven. but i dont know how to tell anyone. b/c they'll be all weird if i do tell them. but every night i go over to her house and she just like strips and then helps me and then we get it on. idk what to do! (link)
WOW. That one turned me on a bit... I'm pretty sure you're a lesbian, and that's perfectly fine. Break up with Kyle, and when you tell your friends just remember to leave the sex part out... let it come with time. Whatever feels good. And don't worry about your friends, do what makes YOU happy. If they get weirded out, fuck 'em. It's none of their buisness. I know it's hard, but if your friends don't support you their selfish.


Alright, so there's this guy in my class, that I really really like. I've liked him for a while now, but I've always been too afraid to say anything to him.
The other day in class, kids from other classes were passing around questionaires for data and whatnot. Well, one of them was about sexuality. My friend had told me that she figured he was gay, because, he's got great style, he's got a gentle voice, he's an amazing artist, (I know, I'm stereo typing), and he's just interesting and whatnot. So, I was watching him as he filled the survey out, because I was kinda curious. The first part of the survey was like this:
"What's your sexuality?"
a)Straight
b)Homosexual
c)Bisexual

If you answered a, then continue on to questions 2-10. If you answered b or c, then continue on to 11-16.

11 and 16 were on the back, and he filled it out on the back. I have no problem with him being gay, but it's just that I always seem to fall for gay boys, and it feels like I'll never find a cool, straight, guy.

I personally wouldn't want to date someone who's bisexual, not because I have anything against bisexuals (a couple of my close friends are) but it would be weird dating one, because it's bad enough thinking that a guys comparing you to other girls, but to other guys? That would just be uncomfortable.

Am I being stupid? Should I just forget about him? I really would just like being friends with him, but it's impossible to talk to him because he's so shy. Please help.
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If something is immpossible, you reallly... can't... do it. As for the relationship thing, if you wouldn't want to date a bisexual, then I guess you can't there, and if he's gay, I don't think that would work out.
I'm listing this as the most retarded question EVER.


I was just wondering..... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 4 months now and i know that may not seem like a long time but i really and truely love him. And it may sound weird but i feel like god is telling me that he is the one i am supposed to spend my life with. Can he be the one? Is it true that i can find someone in my junior year of high school? (link)
I hate these questions, because there isn't a yes or no anwser, it all depends on relationship. I'd have to see how you act around each other for myself. As for four months, yes, you MIGHT love him, and as for the junior high thing, I don't know... I doubt it. And God isn't telling you anything, he doesn't care, sorry to say, he doesn't mix in within the affairs of human relationships, sorry. That's not his bag.


how do i tell my boyfriend that i really like him and enjoy being with him but he can be a little to hyper? i know this is really shallow but it kinda annoys me! thanks again!
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Don't be so weird. This isn't that hard, geeze. Good communication is key to a good relationship, talk to him. He may not understand because it's his personality, but at least try talking about it with him when he gets that way, or at another time just tell him he needs to calm his ass down. Just talk, or just stop him from eating so many damn sweets.




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