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Hey ya'll yea so my name is Katie and I'm 16 years old but I'll be 17 in like less then 2 months!!! :-) I love in North Carolina and I just love it so much! I just love anything to do with Dance and Theatre. Oh yea and I just love my friends a lot I would do anything for them and they mean the world to me! Yeah Im a true southern girl and I just love the south so much and I'll probably live down here my whole life. I love giving advice, usually all my friends come to me for advice so I thought if I'm good with them, then why not try out you guys :-)




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My bf and I started going out a few days ago. Thing is, I am not the most pretty person. In fact, I reaally lack in the beauty department. I am bigger than my bf PLUS I am ugly. I have already heard of assholes staring at my boyfriend and snickering and whatnot. It sucks how these people could possibly break apart a relationship with potential. I mean, who wants to go through this critisism and crap like that? Any tips on how to survive the first few 'judgement' days (or maybe weeks) as a couple? I dont want him to break up with me over something so stupid as this.

who cares what people think....people like that have nothing better to do with their lives so they go around trying to ruin everyone elses. All you really can do is just ignore them and then soon enough someone else will start dating and they'll forget all about you and your bf. Dont break up with him over somthing stupid like that, its totally not worth it if you really like him. Hope I helped :-D

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hey! ok well heres the deal...
the very end of september my b/f broke up with me. we live a long ways away (hence this is why he broke up with me) so last night he was finally on msn and that was the first time talking to him since. (well besides the kinda mean but true thoughts email i wrote to him after i got his email about him breaking it off.) so he still wants to be friends.(well call him R) so at first i was kinda still mean to R but i was really getting tired of being mean...b/c i still like him. so then we started getting along. now R thinks of me as his friend...well at least its not ex g/f but i wish it could still be g/f. i know that he doesnt have a g/f right now, but i know nothing would work out between us again b/c of the distance in our cities. i just wanna know how he still feels about me, b/c if it was just a distance issue, then he might still feel something. how can i find out if he likes me and just tell him how i feel w/o being embarassed??? xoxo thanx!!
please no smart answers:(not in the mood

I'm sure if he still talks to you and considers you as a friend then he still has somthing for you. All you really can do to find out if he still cares for you like that is to ask him. I know you'll be a little embarassed but we all get embarassed sometimes :-) Hope I helped, if you need anything else i'll be here

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ok...there is this guy that ill call "Jake"...i like him but im scared i might never get to see him again...there is a chance that i could get to see him on wednesday...should i get his # to keep in touch..or should i forget about him and go for someone else...and another thing is...i met him when i went to this thing because i was depressed...he was in there for doing cocaine and marijuana...i dont mind about the marijuana but i hate coke heads...hes been free of it for over a month now..should i forget about his past and move on with the future?

I think you should get his number if not that maybe his screen name or something. It never hurts to try, and if all goes wrong it's not like you have to see him all the time. So I would get his number and keep in touch. Hope I helped!

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I still have major feelings for my ex boyfriend.. he was my first love/ and first person. But we broke up and now he's going out with his girl who's really close with him ( i hate her ). He told me that he wanted to stop talking to me. (but you kinda have to know him to realise what he accualy means, its so confusing, but he says that stuff and doesnt mean it.. he just says that -pretty sure). So i havent talked to him in like 5 days and OMG i really want to so bad, but im not. So my question is- is this the right thing with not talking to him?.. maybe he will miss me or realise some things.. is it for the best? what do i do.. thanks so much..

I know how you feel, because I still do have feelings for my ex boyfriend also. The thing is he likes this other girl and it bothers me to see that he says he loves her and stuff. But what I think is that I just want him to be happy, and if hes happy with her then thats fine. We really dont talk that much anymore and sometimes I give him a hug at school, but nothing out of the ordinary. I thought that ignoring him and practicly taking him out of my life would make me get over him but it only made me want him back even more. So I dont talk to him all the time just like somtimes and when we do its not like a long conversation but its good and makes me feel better about things. Try writing poetry, thats what I do. Hang out with friends a lot and just have fun. It will get things off your mind. I hope I helped and if you need anymore help just email me... Jmshorty07@yahoo.com

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I was searching random columnist and I came across your column, I haven't seen you give any advice yet, so I decided to ask you. Okay, well here goes... my boyfriend still lives with his mom, he's a senior in high school, but he's 18.(I'm a freshman, 14) Well because of work his mom is moving about 3 hours away, and he has a choice whether he wants to stay or go. He told me it was up to me whether he stayed, and if I want him to stay than he will. The hard thing about my decision is his sister passed away about 3 months ago, and I don't want his mom to move and him to stay, because then it'll be like she's losing him too. I don't know what to choose. Do you think it's true that if you love someone let them go, and if they come back it's meant to be? I don't know what to choose, I love him sooo much, and we were even thinking that when I turn 18, he'll be 22, and we'll be able to get married if we're together that long, we've already been together for about 7 months. It's really hard I don't want him to leave his mom, but then I don't want him to leave me. If you were in that situation, which would you choose?

I dont see why he's putting all the pressure on you, but if I was you I would let him go with his mom since she would be all alone. Talk to him all the time and make random trips to see each other. And if all that works out maybe yall would still be together and yall could wait until your 18 to get married. Im sorry if I couldn't help that much, I tried.

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