|
|
|
|
|
Q: okay so theres this reallyyyyy hot kid whos ive been obsessed about for like ever and now im finally friends with him. one problem, i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for almost 6 months. btw im in 10th and theyre in 11th. umm and i really llike my bf but idk now im kinda feeling like restrained and i cant do anything if you know what i mean, cause this really hot kid thats im now friends with i think likes me. so idk what to dooooo! someone please help me
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
on piece of advice,
never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
stick with your boyfriend, and if your feeling restrained tell him more space, and im sure he will give it to you.
hope i helped
C:
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: So my boyfriend's depression basically came back recently after being mostly gone for several years. Today I was talking to him and he sort of lashed out, and I didn't know how to take it. It made most of today sort of awkward, and he seemed to think I was mad at/going to leave him (neither of which are true.)
We didn't talk much today though, because I was mostly trying to think of what to do. Trying to make him feel better like I do when he's just sad didn't help, and so I couldn't figure out how to help at all. I was a little hurt about what he said earlier, but I'm okay now.
After thinking about it and reading up on depression, now I just want to help. What can you do to help someone when they're feeling that down? Is there anything else you can do?
Any advice would help, thanks.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Well i have battled depression myself, its a complicated feeling that can happen from almost anything and anyone. I would say since your his girlfriend, its easyer to talk to you that on of his guy friends, but its still hard to talk about being depressed. How you should start out, is by telling him your with him, and whatever happens your going to be there, and also that your not mad, and even though you dont know the feeling, that dosen't mean you can't be there for emotional support. Thats what someone needs, not really the lectures and crowds, but a supporting person who they know they can trust and just lean on them, knowing its all eventually going to be ok. Reading up on this is a really smart thing to do also, to know the signs of anything else like if you see any signs of suiside. Dont smother him because right now are the times he just want to be alone and sulk, but just remind him that your always there, & one thing... whatevers ment to be will always find its way, one amazing quote that can mean a lot.
hope i helped
C:
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: I am 26 years old female...My boyfriend is a great guy the best boyfriend ever when he is SOBER....when he drinks hes a different person...hes mean to me and throws me around when i dont wanna deal with him....he has never hit me but he gets real rough with me and hits the door or will smash something...I'm scared i dont know what to do...he always says im the mean one or i hurt him but when hes on top of me i have to push him away he pins me down...i have talked to him about this but i really dont know what to do...i just got a place with him just 3 months ago and now i feel trapped...what should i do...does this happen to anyone else...how can i help him?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Okay, I may be 12 years younger than you.. but i am wise beyond my years, I had the same experence.. except with my mom. I was 8 and she had a boyfriend who was a really incredbly nice guy.. when he was sober.When he got drunk he threw me and my mom, around leaving me scars and my mom bruses. One night when he got drunk, { i was there} he came home, he ended up getting mad saying that i was always mean to him and treating him like a piece of dirt, my mom interviened, long story short he tryed to kill her, but failed, he broke her neck, tramatized me and her and let me lifeless and with a broken leg, arm, and rib bone. My mom was ALMOST parlized from the neck down, he is in prison for 4 years and this has been that 3rd year he gets out next year. Little things can turn into something that can always be forever leaving you into something you may not live through. If you are scared and feel traped.. sit down tell him how you feel and if that dosen't work, please before its too late.. end the relationship. For me that experence i was luckey to have lived through.. its a blessing, but you never know what will happen next. So get out and move on before he either kills you.. or hurts you for a lifetime.. Good Luck and hope i helped you.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Golden_Girl_800~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Q: 13/F
Okay, I just starting going out with my amazing boyfriend, (who just happens to be my best friend's ex, but she knows and she's not mad)and we went to the movies last night, and had an incredible night. We kissed, we told each other we loved each other, and pretty much everything else. He tried to make out with me the whole movie, but after I got my point across that I wasn't going to make-out with him the whole movie, he finally stopped, and we just held hands, cuddled, and flirted. I thought he was going to stop liking me because I didn't want to continue as far as he wanted me to, but he called me after our date, and we only talked for a few minutes. Now, here's the thing: I told my best friend (his ex) about our date, and all she could tell me was that everything he said and did was only a game to try to get in my pants. I believe her, but I really like him. (I would never give in to having sex with him, though) So, is there any advice anyone could give me on how to deal with this whole situation?
Thanks so much!
P.S. And he's definitely not as perverted as he seems, he's actually very nice.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Hey okay. I totally understand where your coming from.. im 14 i just turned 14 and i know that some boys can do that. I'm sure that many of your b/f's wanted 2 get into your pants. Just say No. I actaually beleive in NO sex until marrage and i am staying true to that and if you just do not want to have sex with him.. tell him no. If he keeps trying.. i suggest breaking up with him, cause just a little can lead to a lot, guyes are a lot stronger in the muscle department {well some of them } and he can do many things to you that can hurt you even if he {seems really nice} I am not telling you break up with him... just sit down with him.. tell him how you feel about making out and sex.. and maybe he really will understand and take things your speed. You need to let him know fermly and strongly that you are not ready for sex and you need time 2 make out all the time with him. Just let him no.. some guyes can be pretty understanding. Good luck and hope i helped!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Golden_Girl_800~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Info
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Member Since: November 4, 2006 Answers: 8 Last Update: April 24, 2008 Visitors: 2448
Main Categories:
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
);">