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My name is Mellie (Mel to anyone who knows me) and I'm 15 years old (a freshman-going-on-sophomore in high school).
A lot of people tell me I'm a really outgoing person, and I'm sometimes embarrassed to agree. :) I have some of the best friends a girl could ask for, and have had an amazing boyfriend since January 1, 2009.
I've been through a lot and learned from my mistakes, and I hope that I can help other people by sharing what I've learned.
Don't hesitate to ask about ANYTHING.
I'm here!

-Mel.
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I know this guy and we hang out prolly once a week sometimes twice and I think he likes me but im not sure. He likes to tease me alot and he stands behind me alot and starts playing my hair or pats me on the head and when I ask y he starts talking to sum1 else. And also hes always staring at my lips when I talk, nonstop sometimes he stops looking at them and makes eye contact then goes back to my lips. Also he's always asking me who I like and naming guys and then asking if I would make out with them. What does this mean?? (link)
Sorry if i repeat anything that has already been said..
He's showing all the signs... I'm pretty sure he likes you!! It sounds like he's flirting with you a lot.
Since he always asks you who you like/who you would make out with, try doing the same thing!!
Tell me how it goes!!

- Mel. :)


please help me...
ok i have been on and off with this guy austin for almost six years..i love him i do..but he doesnt treat me like i know i should be treated..sometimes he even just makes me feel shitty about myself sometimes though..he makes me feel reall good...we have been through more good times and bad times..than anyone i know...also..his family is my family..they adore me..and i feel the same about them...it that makes it harder....and everytime we break up..it never fails..i go back to him.. because i cant stand the sight of him and someone else...
but theres this justin guy that has just recently come into my life..and we have become extremely close over the last 5 or 6 months..give or take a few...but he makes me feel so good...hes so sweet..hes so good to me.he treats me like way too good i feel like..he makes me feel reall good about myself...and makes me happy...but yet so does austin..sometimes...but anyway...justin has me on this pedestle..and i dont feel like i belong there..or deserve to be there...he looks at me like no one has..ever looked at me...but i cant shake this thing that i have for austin..and i hate seeing him with anyone else...im just so confused..i dont want to hurt anyone..but i also dont want to hurt myself anymore...i really really love them both..and cant picture myself without either one...
please write me back asap. (link)
I'm kind of going through the same thing...
JUSTIN!! He obviously makes you feel the way a girl should feel, and even though you've been with Austin for a long time, you and Justin might have something really special. I say that you see how things go with Justin, but you said it yourself: you and Austin always end up together.
So if Justin doesn't work out, Austin might just be waiting.


hey okay you just answered my question ....but something new has come up! okayy this girl was my friend all through grade 8 and now this year were aquantances because were in differint classes she went out with the guy i like for a day (lol) so i told her i liked him when i started liking him..but now she likes him again and she knows i like him but im not suppose to know about her liking him and the reason why they broke up was because she could only see him as a freind and nothing else but now that she likes him idk whats gunna happen...i really like this guy and i really want him to like me back but the girl that likes him now always talks to him in class and i never do so.....i really really need help!
thanks
loveboys (link)
Hey girl!! I know what you're goin through. I went through the same thing last year with my bestfriend and my best guy friend.
If your friend doesn't think you know that she likes him, tell her that you like him ! That way she can't get mad at you for liking him because you 'don't know' how she feels


When a guy goes to second base and is feeling your boobs, is he getting something out of it or doing it for you? (link)
They most definitely do, maybe more then girls do. Most guys find it really entertaining and cool, and something to do with their hands while they're kissing..? But it's not completely... Unsatisfying for girls either.


hey you answered my quistion about how do i go and talk to him.. okayy well i texted him last night and it went realyl well but i think on monday im gunna go talk to him in person which is really scary so what tips of flirting can you give me because i dont just wanna through myself at him i just wanna flirt strong enough to get the point across (link)
I'm so sorry I didn't answer earlier then this!!!!
Okay it depends on what you texted him about. If it had to do with schoolwork or something, ask him about how he did on a certain assignment in that class, and make jokes about the teacher or the class (students in the class, etc.), and just really respond to him (I hope this is making sense.) haha like if he makes a joke, laugh! I know it's REALLY scary to talk to them in person, but guys love when girls make an effort to talk to them because they're just as nervous as you!
I don't wanna sound like a creeper or anything haha but it might be easier and faster if we texted about it..? Whatever you want girl, hope I helped!!


okayy so i really like this guy but im really really scared to talk to him so what are some tip on how to go up and talk to him with confidence and what do i talk about so it doesnt get awkard... thanks

loveboys (link)
Easy!! I love boy problems! :) hahaha
You can seriously talk to guys about anything. Don't be a creep or anything, but maybe find out about his favorite sports teams and show some interest in that category. Or if you have classes together, ask him about a homework assignment, work with him on a project... Find a decent way to show him your talents and strengths!!! (ex. If you're smart, help him... If you're athletic, challenge him to a game in a sport you excel at.)
Hope I helped, let me know how it goes and if you need anymore help!!!

-- Mellie




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