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Heyy every 1! My name is Megan i live in a small town in Massachusetts. I love giving advice to people, but only about the topics that are really interesting. For example lovelife and basically relationships. I don't want to be bored while giving advice. So only for interesting subjects. I have many problems myself in those topics. So I would like some advice as well.

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I'm 16 years old and one of my very good friends recently asked me out. I have known him for a year and the whole time, he had been going out with another girl. He and his old girlfriend had sex often and I'm still a virgin. He says that he won't pressure me into anything..do you think he'll expect me to have sex with him like he did her?

If he truely loves you he will not pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do. Thats all i have to say

Hope i helped :-)

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okay so today...i was talking to the boy i like, online..and he weve liked eachother for a while...and you know we'd kinda flirt and stuff...but yeah it was just friendly i guess. and then the other day he told me that his friend tricked him into saying he loved me and then today he's like, you wanna know something? and im like sure and hes like well today i said i loved you and i wasnt tricked and im like ooo and then my friend talked to him b/c i had to do something and then i came back and talked to him and then i told him i loved him too and he said that i shouldnt say it just because he did and im like i didnt i mean it
so yeah, i know i meant it...but it felt weird telling him that.
so my question is...
how do you know you love someone?
and being 14...is that too young to know what love is?
14/f by the way. thanks..sorry its so long.

That's easy for me. I don't think 14 is to young to be in love. I fell in love at age 11 and now im 14 and me and him are still together. My opinion is that no one is ever to young or old to be in love. You know when your in love when u can't get that 1 special person of your mind, you would do anything for them, you care for them and wouldn't do anything to hurt them, and you don't have words to describe how much you love them. That's how i know i'm in love with my boyfriend. If those things apply to you then your are probably in love.

I hope i helped :-)

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Ok well i started going out with this one guy named jonathan.The thing is dat he knows i like somebody else and i know he likes somebody else.Yes it seems wierd but we told each other that since the beggining.Its like we like each other to but it kind of feels wierd to know he dosent only think of me...i know he probably feels da same way but i dont know.I seriously dont think we are going to last.Although i wish it did=/So if you were in my place what would you do??

Wow that seems really hard. Umm i think you should end the relationship. Its clear you to don't like eachother that much if you both like someone else. I'm sorry im trying to give you good advice but i think im doing a bad job. Yeah i stick with what i just said. End the relationship it's probably not going to last that long. And that's not a good excuse staying together if you just want to be in a relatioinship. I hope i helped in some way.

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hi, okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year now, on and off. and i mean i would do anything for this kid. i`m not saying i`m in love with him, but i might be. and we talk like we have a really serious relationship. but, there is one problem, we barely ever see eachother. school ended for me june 9th, we saw eachother on the last day of school of course, and then about a month ago at this public swimming pool. that`s all we have seen eachother this whole summer. i mean i talk to him everyday, and we try to hang out, but he says that he can`t and tells me why, but i always think that he`s just making up an excuse to just not hang out. i mean he says that either his parents don`t want to take him or something that has to do with his parents. we`re 15 so we can`t drive by ourselves yet. but, he never hangs out with girls he goes out with i guess, and it really is because of his parents. but i still have that thought in my mind thinking he just doesn`t want to see me. how can we hang out more ? and do you think he just doesn`t even wanna hang out with me..?

Ok i'm not tryin to be mean but i have a friend and i can never see her only during school which is not till september. And that is because my parents dont like her. I'm sorry to say but they might not feel right about you. If that's not the case ask him straight out "Do you want to see me or not!" If that doesnt work then i dont know i would wait till school.

Hope I helped a lil bit! :-{

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Summer is what i've always loved about my life, but now it's the worse, see i need school. yeah i know this sounds crazy but i do. see i have this friend, he's my best friend and i've known him since i can remember. His name is J.C., and he's now all i can think about. People used to always ask if we were bfs and gfs but we always said no. we tell everyone that we're like brother's and sister's to eachother, but people think that we're secretly dating, but we're not. well it was the truth. even though we acted like it. we would always sit by eachother and tell eachother everything. We would make up nick names for eachother, not gushy ones though. We even told eachother that we are the best friends anyone couls ever have. I've known him ever since i could remember. Well everytime i hear stuff or see couples or hear sappy sounds, BOOM he pops up in my mind and down comes a frown. I'm hoping he's in my homeroom this year, and i don't what to do if he's not. What should i do if he's not? Am i in love? Does he love me? Do i like him? Does he like me?

Please help.

It could be love. He could just like you as a friend though. I had a huge crush on my bestfriend for 3 years then when he found out he felt uncomfortable around me. Then i liked another guy that I was good friends with he acted like he liked me, but when i broke up with my boyfriend i ask him out and he said no. So don't be so sure he really likes you. You might be in love or it's just a little crush on your friend. Don't ask him out flirt a little, but not to much to the point when he feels uncomfortable. If he really likes you he will ask you out well he should. Just try avoiding telling how you feel because you could lose a really good friend.

I really hope I helped. But it was a tuff 1. :-)

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Hey guys. I'm pretty pissed off. This guy I like hung out with this other guy that lives next to me, and they both came to my house and dumped a bag of mulch on my porch, just for a joke I'm guessing. Anyways, I'm kind of mad he would do that because my family has aenough porblems without him messing around with our yard. I;m just asking..is it ok to be mad? Or should I just be like oh right haha good joke? Will he think that I get mad over the stupidest things? please help.

Hey,
What a jerk! Who does that, oh wait aparently a stupid baby like him. My opinion is you have every right to be mad. First of all he had no right to do that, unless you did anything to make them do that. But, don't worry to much about it they are just really immature.

I hope i helped!:-)

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okay . i have been in love with this one kid since the beggining of 7th grade and i am now going into 9th grade . we`ve gone out a few times before and then we broke up each time before a week . and last summer we loved eachother and were going to go out with eachother and we hung out every single day . the most i`ve done with him is makeout. and recently we`ve been hanging out with eachother and my 3 other best friends. but i reaslly do love him and he likes me he told me that but sometimes he doesn`t act like he likes me hes kinda rude sometimes but then he`ll tell me that he loves me. i dont waht to do. please help♥i`m in love with this kid

Well, if he has been rude then maybe you should not go out with him. I totally know how you feel my ex-boyfriend used to insult me then he would be like " I love you " so eventually i broke up with him. So just don't go out with him unless you really LOVE him.

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