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I'm a 21 year old female, and I sincerely dislike my boyfriend's friends. They all act like douche bags, they treat their girlfriends like dirt (some even cheat on them), and I fail to understand why my boyfriend would want to hang around with guys like this. I would never tell him how I feel on this matter, but it makes me worry that his friends will be a bad influence on him, and it often makes me upset. What can I do about this situation? (link)
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Just be honest. It's hard telling your boyfriend "Hey, I think your friends are butt holes." But, if he respects you and appreciates your honesty he's probably going to be cool about it. I mean, don't just be like "Hey, your friends are douche bags and I don't want you to hang out with them" because that would result in negative things, guys react way differently, it's all a matter of how you word things withh them.
I just had this conversation with my boyfriend last night. I was straight up, I'm like "Baby, your friends....they do very stupid stuff....a lot. And I'm not down with that. I'm not telling you to stop hanging out with them, but I'm telling you how I feel about them. You can interpret and act on that any way you want. I'm just letting it out there". He actually took it very well and said that he would be real and talk with them about the problem. Guys have very simple minds, so you have to honest and straight forward with them.
Just be real girl!
Hope that helped. haha =]
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