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ook, im in some confused shit right now.. i mean i seriously dont know what to do!! heres the thing.. ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months straight now and its really serious. everyone says were the perfect couple. i met him near the end of my freshman year and we dated through the summer and into our sophmore year. hes such a great guy, i love his parents his two doggies and his adorable little sister! and i think im in love.. ya know! i mean its the perfect situation, i love him and his family and he loves me and my family... what could go wrong right? well about a week, maybe two weeks ago, i saw something very strange about him... im just going to come out and say it... i think hes gay. i cant beleive i didnt see the signs before! hes over at his friend Rob's house every day and one time im not sure but i think i caught them. i went over to Robs house one day around 730 about a week ago and i see my boyfriend walking out and i go up to Robs door pretending i didnt c my boyfriend leave, Robs half naked and his hairs messed up and so was my boyfriends. and im sure as hell they werent wrestling!! what do i do? ive been tryin to think of ways to ask my boyfrind about the situation and his sexuality but i dont know how to put it! help me please!
**dis chick is confused**
wow thats a hard one! ok so when yall are together or something then just slowly bring up the conversation about yalls relationship...ask him if he truely cares about you....and listen to what he has to say...then tell one of you BEST friends that you know you can trust about what you saw and how you think he might be gay and get her to casually bring up the conversation with him and she can get it out of him OR you can get one of your friends to talk to one of his friends about it! if he is gay OR even just By you dont want to be with him...it would be weird if yall were at the mall or soemthing and he checks out a guy! so try to get one of your friends to talk to him or one of his friends! if ya need anything else just ask me! You can always IM me too...ImAgInUsToGeThEr
*CaItLyN*
OMG CAITLYN! i have no idea on what to do...when it comes to guys my friends say i flirt with everyone..i dont think so..i think im juss talkin to them but my friends think otherwise and ill mess around with guys b/c thats juss the way i am..well when it comes down to a guy that i really like then i WONT throw myself at him b/c i want to make sure that he really likes me..so now i dont always go up to him and talk to him liek i did..i want him to come up to me...well he doesnt talk to me now since i dont talk to him..well one of my guy friends that is friends with both me and the guy i like gave me advice that i should talk to him so i did yesterday and after school we kissed..juss a peck though..but the thing is i want him to be the man and come up to talk to me b/c girls arent supposed to wait on boys..its the other way around ( we all know that ;) ) what do i do because i want to make sure hes not using me too because i see him sometimes flirting with other girls and i kinda get jealous but i do the same..i flirt with guys and think he shouldnt get mad at me b/c were not together
HELP ME PLZ U HOTT SEXY MAMI CAITLYN
Well you should prolly ask him why he doesnt come up to you and talk to him! Obviously he likes you since yall kissed which is good! The way to see if he is using you or not is to talk to one of his friends and get them to talk to him and see what he says then get them to tell you what he says! If he doesnt come up to you though then still go up to him! Guys dont always make the first move because they are scared. Now if yall arent together then you cant tell him not to flirt with girls but if yall do get together tell him how you feel and if he truely cares about you then he will stop!
Thanks I know IM HOT!!!
*CaItLyN*
When my b/f puts his arm around my shoulder is it beeter to put my arm around his shoulder or waist
WAIST!!!!!
*CaItLYn*
I am absolutely positively crazy in love with this guy at my school. We flirt like crazy, but i am so not good at making the first move, and i want to be his girlfriend because i think about him all the time and we are perfect for each other. Is there any mild way of hinting you want to go out with someone without actually asking them? Please help!
Signed- Lovesick puppy
Ya there is ways to tell them you like them without actually tellin them. You could always flirt with them all the time and always dress cute. Also this is kinda like the one that gives it away is ask the guy who he likes and if he says no but asks who you like then just be like why should i tell you and just like flirt like that!! hope i helped IM me if ya need me!
*CaItLyN*
Hey it's me yet again with yet another problem.
There's this kid who I have strong feelings for, and we were into each other for the longest time. He just broke up with his girlfriend and he's miserable because he cared about her... gurr it makes me so jealous!
He's ignored me for the past month... just all of a sudden stopped liking me. I care about him SOOO much. Should I be mad for his ingoring me like that and going out with someone else... and just avoid him? Or try, now that he's single... to get his attention again????
Maybe what you should do is instead of ignore him or try to get his attention is just start talkin to him more and more and be there for him rite now and let him talk to you then when he is better about his girlfriend dumping him then talk to him about the way you feel for him!
*CaItLYn*
HEY theres this girl that i think is fine and i want to know wat to say to her when i don't even know if she likes me?? should i like also take her somewhere or do something??? What do u think i might have to say to get this girl to say YES!!!!!!! to me????
Write back and good job making the Farmerettes
If you dont know if she likes you then talk to her friends they prolly know or get one of your friends to ask her if she likes you or not....well if you dont know if she likes you or not then invite her somewhere with you and some of your friends and then her and some of her friends like to the movies or something...then you should prolly just talk to her and get to know her a little more and once you feel comfortable then ask her if she likes you..whats the worse thing that can happen she will say no but who cares you might be sad for a little bit but you arent goin to be for long and who knows she might like you back! Dont worry about what she is goin to say for ever because if you wait long enough she might move on and end up not likein you anymore so make sure you make it fast!
*CaItLyN*
so me and this guy have been dating for nearly 7 months all together but we broke up 2 days ago which is totally fine with me and him because were really good friends ya know......but ever since this new guy came to our school ive been drawn to him because he has an adorable smile and some fine muscles and also he is really funny! lol!...and im really starting to like him but tha bad thing is him and my ex are really good friends. i dont know if its too soon to move on from my last boyfriend or would that be totally wrong and make me a horrible person?? what do you think???? write back!
So yall were dating for 7 mounths...and now you like his friend! I think you should atleast wait for a little bit because your ex-boyfriend is probably still getting over you! Dont get me wrong...still flirt and do your useual stuff with the guy you like now so he knows that you like him but wait a while and make sure your ex-boyfriend is okay....you dont want to get in the middle of the friendship..you know how you would feel if someone did that to you!! I hope I helped! IM me if ya need to talk!
*CaItLyN*
Ok..you've had some pretty intense questions...and you gave great advice...but back to the whole kissing thing... It's kinda embarrassing that I haven't kissed a guy before...but to tell ya the truth I never had a boyfriend to kiss...and I would feel ackward telling my first boyfriend that I never had a guy before or never kissed...but how do you think I could tell him..you know in the future...if I ever have one?
Dont be ashamed that you havent kissed a guy before!! Some people dont have their first kiss until they are 17 for example my sister has strong morals and she thought she should wait and kiss a guy when she knew it was supposed to happen!! She kissed her boyfriend when she was 17 years old and that was her first. Who cares if you havent kissed a guy before, if your boyfriend thinks your weird becuase of that then he doesnt really like you!! If you tell him and he says its okay then he probably really likes you and doesnt want to use you! I would just go ahead and tell him if he really like you then he will not care if you havent kissed a guy before!! And dont waste your first kiss on some random guy...make it special!
*CaItLyN*
ok..so im 14 and im a girl..i have never been kissed..i know..gay right? but anyways...i have been waiting for a long time for this one guy and now i finally have him..i want him to be my first kiss..i really really do..but idk when or where to do it..we have been going out for a couple weeks now..is it too soon to kiss or not? and also..idk how to kiss..you know..and all that jazz..can you please give me some advice and maybe some pointers on kissing?!
I answered your other one already so read that one cause im pretty sure its the same question lol!!
*CaItlYn*
hey! im a girl and im 14!..you see..i have never been kissed..i know..gay right? well anyways..i waited for this one guy and now i finally have him! i really really want him to be my first kiss..but idk where or when to do it and we have only been going out for like 3weeks..is it too soon to kiss..or not? also..i have no idea how to kiss..you know..and all that jazz..can you please give me some advice and maybe some kissing tips?!
Yall have been goin out for 3 weeks that is so NOT to early to kiss!! Go ahead and just kiss him. Guys want to be kissed...he is prolly just to scared to kiss you. Go ahead and make the first move!! Now the kissing tips is kinda hard to help ya with becuase its diffrent for everyone! Chances are you already know how to kiss!! Just go for it!! But make sure he knows your goin to kiss him because if he doesnt then it could freak him out so make sure he knows IM me if ya need to talk!
*CaItLyN*