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I'll try to make this quick. Back in August, I started seeing a guy called RW. I thought he was great at first, but then he turned out to be not so nice. At least that's how I feel. I feel like there's a lot I'd like you to know about RW, but all you really need to know is that I wasn't very happy most of the time I was seeing him. I felt a lot better when I started thinking about breaking it off in September.
Long story short, in September, two guys from my past came back into my life. Their names are Robert and Jude and I've had crushes on them both (Robert in 2010 and 2011 and Jude in 2011). I started seeing them both a little over three weeks ago and simultaneously broke it off with RW.
They both have so many qualities that I just adore. They're both extremely handsome, sweet, good hearted guys that make me feel so good and happy when I'm with them. Jude is so charming I could cry and Robert is so funny and so sweet I can't stand it. They both have a lot of the same qualities I thought RW did, but theirs kindness, sweetness, charm, good looks, and senses of humor are much more my style.
I know it's kind of skeezy to see two guys at the same time, but I was trying to decide between them and now, I'm pretty sure it's gonna be Robert. Now we get to my problem. RW will not go away. I was hoping that the break up would be the end of things, but he keeps showing up everywhere. He showed up at an art walk we went to, a he showed up Saturday when I went to a movie with Robert, he showed up yesterday uninvited to a friend's birthday celebration. He Won't go away. He's not letting go of our relationship.
RW has problems that I didn't know the severity of back in August. He has some kind of mental disorder and a bad drinking issue. He's not above using violence (or at least he doesn't seem to be) and I'm a little worried about what he's capable of. I don't think he'd physically hurt Robert or Jude, but it wouldn't be the first time he'd hurt someone. He can do nothing to me because I've got tons of men in my family and group of friends who'd kick his @$$.
What should I do? I need this guy out of my life and away from me Robert and Jude. (link)
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Stalking is illegal, and police involvement is recommended.
They may either talk to him, watch him, pick him up, or even suggest a restraining order.
And if you're afraid of violence, especially, call your local police department for advice.
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My and my bf had sex with a condom, but after he released in it he took it off should I worry about pregnancy ? (link)
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There is risk any time you have sex. If they didnt spill any nor did the condom pop you will most likely be fine 99%. I wouldn't worry, you are in the clear. If you're really worried you can get an after pill to be sure
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What are some good nicknames for my boyfriend tim?? (link)
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haha, my best friend's boyfriend's name is Tim.
Timmy Boy
Timmy
Timbo
Bumfluff
Cutie
Hun
Babe
Lollipop (if you wanna be sexual)
Popsicle (sexual, again)
Lover
Hunny buns
Tim Tim
Timothy
Steve/George (I forget names so I make names up. Not really relevant but why not, might be fun to call him George... long as he is aware you're doing it on purpose)
Tee
Lil Timmy Boy
Tip Toe TIm
Thomas
Timbit
Tim man
Tin Man
Timi
Timiloi
Timmy the Turtle
T
Timbits
Turbo
Tim the Toolman Taylor
Theodore
Timson
Timothong
Timrang
Big T
Little T
T-man
Mi-T
Ty
Mitt
T-Bag
Timiee (different way of spelling Timmy)
Mr. T
Tater-Tot
T-dawg
Ti
Tilla
T-bone
Timp
Timicali
Timmi tim tim tim
T T
T Mo
Timinator
Timmy Toot Toot
Timwit
I may have had a little too much fun with that...
Enjoy!! :D
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