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Some may call me a witch, but the good kind.
I believe in peace but, I think war is necessarily in a few extreme cases.
I believe in the unnatural or at least believe that it could exist.
I believe that there is no one way to heal. That you can heal with drugs and/ or alternative methods.
I want to help people, and I will always be truthful with my answers.
If you think I'm wrong that fine, but I'm sticking to my opinions.
Thanks for reading my profile :)
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I wanted to tell you privately about the strange things that have happen. I really appreciate your advice. I never thought of it being a ghost. It makes perfect sense. I'm doing great now. Thought I should tell you. No episodes since 2000. I healthy, have my own house, and a nice close nit family. I have a new puppy. i have fish and a turtle. I'm trying to enjoy my life. A lot of the these things started was around 1996, July 12. A chain of events happen, after a particular dinner party. Coming soon to a theater near you. Just kidding. I told you it was strange. thank you for listening to my story. I'm very new to this sight so bear with me. Thanks... :) (link)
Thanks! I'm new to.
I'm glad your doing well :)


I was told by my grandma and mother. But they both died in 97' and 1999. Now it seems like everyone I know have an impact to there lives as well. I was told it was a coincidence. You wouldn't even imagine, things that have happened. Maybe I can look up a few names in my family. Mildred Hart, Cecilia Hart. Quinn is my grand fathers last name on my moms side. Mostly my daughters friend are committing suicide. My niece that live with me, her dad hung himself a few years ago. Temporary insanity. (link)
I'm sorry to hear that. If you are willing to tell me, I am willing to listen to the things that have happened to you and your family. No matter how strange or hard it is. I'm beginning to think it may not be a curse, but a ghost instead.





I believe in an afterlfe. We are electro- biochemical beings and our "soul" exists after this hellish life(for the majority). I was fortunate enough to briefly encounter the other side and i truly believe it is there for all if they so will it. At this point I am willing to relinquish this biological life. Putting it bluntly...life on this fucking plane sucks....I'm outta here. Wheres the exit door and how hard is it to open it. (link)
Life sucks sometimes. It can be painful, sad, unbearable, lonely, upsetting and hard. But you have to remember that life can be just the opposite.
Sometimes I go through periods in my life where I feel depressed, where I will feel like life is a curse and know matter what I do the pain will just come back. So whats the point of living? Well you will have to answer that for yourself, but for me it's those moments of accomplishment, joy, and love. Like when I had a hard time righting a paper and my teacher complimented me on it, or when I played with little kids who go on the most amazing adventures with there imagination, or when I'm really upset about something and a friend gives me a hug. If your life is so unbearable that you can't find something to live for, keep trying but keep your goals realistic. Don't give yourself more then you can chew.
As for the craving for "heaven" or the "afterlife" be careful what you do about it. I know the idea of living in a place like that can be appealing. The beauty, the calmness, the safety, the genteelness, or whatever other feeling you associate with it. But killing yourself or going insane trying to find it again is harmful, not only to yourself, but others. Like when someone dies, even if someone who had no friends or family, its like a chain affect, first your family, then your friends, then your neighbors, then anyone else that have even seen you or that knows your name will greave or be scared.
I hope that you find something to live for and find some way to fill that craving for the afterlife with something on earth. Maybe make a collection of things you like and look at them when you feel this way, go on an adventure, do something fun, find beauty that's around you, invite or make new friends, and/or talk to a therapist. Whatever it is, enjoy it. :)


A long time ago I was told there was a family curse. It was a big joke. But now I believe it. My daughter comes to me everyday something horrible that happened to someone she know. One girl had a seizure drove into a retention pond and drown. Another friend was run over a train. Another friend was run over by a train. That's just with in a year. I have like a million stories like this. We come from a very old Irish family. The crest is a elephant with noses up. I don't know what to do. But like everything was again me and my family. Now it is friends and family dieing or having freak accidents. My other part of life are going pretty good. Does the curse work off of negative energy. We are happy having things planned like parties. It is only my sister me and my niece. That is our family parties. Xmas too just us 4. My mom died and my grandma died. My uncle took the inheritance and went to Arizona. I'm a trouble maker. If something isn't right I will voice my concern. My new years resolution was not to let anyone walk all over me. That goes for family curses as well... (link)
I think that you should look into the curse and find out more about it. Who told you it? Maybe they could share some history about it so that you could know possible where it originated from. Take into account how it feels and where and when it typically happens. I do not think it's necessary to spend money on trying to get rid of it, unless something pops out at you or feels right. I believe that curses can exist, even though I haven't encountered them myself, and hope that yours clears up.




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