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Q: 14-f

am i a slut??????????
1. i get wasted
2. im no where near being a virgin
3. i have let people take advantage of me
4. i am either going to be a playboy bunny or a stripper somewhere....

do these make me a slut??????????? bacause everyone thinks i amm...and i kind of dont want them to
I'm sorry honey but you make yourself look like a slut.. You're doing everything you shouldn't be.. I have one solution for you & his name is JESUS! Trust me Hun, he is the only one who can help you and never let you down.. Just be smart about these decisions you're making.. because you know they are wrong! Does your mom approve of this? You should never do anything that you wouldn't do in front of your mom because that means you know it's wrong!

Q: 14/f
he's 16/m
we've been going out since october 13th..
things have been great
no fights, no drama, nothing
but this past week, i found out he smokes
i've told him before i have zero respect for those who smoke
because my dad died of lung cancer
from smoking
i told him i cared for him too much to see him kill himself like this
and since then
he's been so rude to me
he told me he only smokes when he's at work, on his break
so every time he goes on his break,
he'll text me and say "i'm on break guess what i'm doing?"
and of course i'll say "smoking."
and he aggrivates me on purpose...
i like him so much and i don't want to let him go
he's an amazing boyfriend
but i don't appreciate him being so mean to me
and also, he works with this girl, amanda
she's always saying how much she wants to do him and stuff
and he just texted me a few minutes ago
saying "i have good news"
so i said.. "what?"
and he said "amanda's going to indy with me after i get off!"
(his brother's in the hospital and he's supposed to go see him)


i don't know what to do here
he's never been so mean to me
it's like ever since i found out he smoked,
he's been in a bad mood
please help me
i don't know what to do..
Well if you really like him you can try to talk to him. If you don't appreciate what's going on let him go. I know it's going to be hard but you can try. Especially since he might be cheating on you. I'm not trying to put you down but form girl to girl i think you should try to let him go. But if you don't think you can let him go then sit down one day and reason with him. Tell him about how you were hurt by your father and how you don't want that to happen again. Maybe if he really cares he'll put every word you say into consideration.

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