Expression is what I live for. I pass the time on the computer, but I enjoy doing music-related things, such as going to concerts and hiding myself under thousands of downloads. Sometimes I write reviews for Ambitious-Outsiders and make T-Shirts and draw little pictures of things. Well, this is my column, I like talking so ask me something. It will give me something to do, and who knows, maybe I will help.
Gender: Female
Location: Los Angeles, CA
Occupation: Oppressed Academic Slave
Age: 14
AIM: WeirdBarOfSoap
Member Since: May 10, 2005
Answers: 34
Last Update: February 2, 2006
Visitors: 3953
Main Categories:
Love Life
Random Weirdos
Music
View All
|
| |
Something really bad happened to me when I was a senior in highschool with a guy. I thought that I had put it behind me and had moved on, but the thing is my tenth year reunion is coming up next summer and I'm terrified of running into him again.
I still get nightmares of what happened. Well he was really popular and I was a nerd. He found out I liked him and basically made sure I would be either humiliated or uncomfortable around him. He never once talked to me but he would wait for me to walk down the hall and then make out with his beautiful and popular girlfriend just to see my reaction. He would laugh whenever he caught me blushing, and would come right up to one of his friends whose locker was next to mine just to see me skirm. At my prom he walked right up to my best friend and hit on her and ignored me. He also treated me like this my first year of university because his girlfriend went to the same school as me. The last time I saw him was at the bar when I was 19. I walked up to him to tell him it was my birthday and he just ignored me and walked away.
Well the reunion is coming up and if he's going to be there I know I'm not going to have a good time, it will just drag up all these memories. The worst part is that I never told any of my highschool friends about this because they all liked him and thought he was a great guy, and I didnt want it to get out. It would just make me look bad and he would deny it anyways.
How should I act at the reuinion if he is there? (link)
|
hes probably fat and balding now
don't worry.
|
my boyfriend told me, i have the curiousity of a cat but the heart of a saint.
can someone translate it? i have no idea what it means, please. (: thanks loves. (link)
| |
basically it means you're a tease
|
Over the past year I have felt some changes. I notice that I wasn't interested in guys anymore. And after talking to my family and shrink about it, we came to the conclusion.. I'm a lesbian. After admitting this very tough situation to my friends, I sort of lost them. It seems they don't want to be friends b/c they are afraid of the situation, and they don't want to be friends with me. I thought admitting this to my friends was the right thing to do. What should I do.
(link)
| |
Remember that everyone in their younger years has identity crises, so it may just be a phase, if it isn't, go find new friends. Friends who don't tolerate people of diverse qualities aren't worth keeping, and it may be hard, but it shows that you are strong when you can admit truths to yourself and be comfortable with them. I say meet new people, go into the dating scene and all, and you'll find new friends who accept you for who you are! Good luck.
|
|
I'm 13 years old. I recently became pen pals with a guy my age who lives in England, I live in the US. I really like him, but I don't know how to tell him, or if I even should. If he doesn't feel the same way, I don't want to chance our friendship. What do I do? (link)
|
British, eh?
I don't blame you. Brits are sexy. :)
I'd say plan to meet some day, then be with him personally and see how you feel. People can be quite different in writing than in person, believe me. But don't tell him now, it spells trouble for your friendship!
|
Ok, i am in 8th grade and i am a 13 year opld female (just so oyu know the setting) well anyways my problem is that i have never ever ever in my life had a boyfriend. i know you might be sayi wow big deal, but it is. like almost everyone i know has had/haves 1. i feel weid when people go, oh who is you b/f, or who have you gone out with. idk whatto do. i hate feeling this way, is it wrong that i have never had a b/f, nad what can i do to make me feel better bout my self (qith out actually getting a b/f, cuz dont see that happeneing in the near future.
ps: i rate !!! (link)
|
Well, I just recently attained my first boyfriend, and I know exactly how you feel. The answer is, just get out and meet people. Go to local bands' shows or to hangout spots. Get a MySpace or LiveJournal and meet your friends' friends that way. Trust me, you'll meet a lot of guys that way and you're bound to find one that you get along with really well. It happened to me and I'm really happy.
About the confidence part, I have the same thing. I thought getting a boyfriend would help me feel complete and shit, but it didn't. I love him very much and all but the truth of the matter is that it's something inside of you that only you can change. When I figure it out for myself I'll let you know how to do it..:/
|
|
hey i have a question me and this guy are going out and like his family like his parents like arent the fondest of me like she is holding something against me. see me and this other guy went to prom together and the guy im going out with now is obviously pretty bummed about this so his mom is constantly holding this against me and just wont gimmie a 2nd chance! So i plan on writing her a letter. I need some help on what to say to her. Like explaining why i did go. I went because he proved 2 me it was so important and that he wanted to go with me. Well this guys mom (my bf) is obviously protecting her "little baby boy"... well trying. but i cant tell her why i wanted cuz she'd hate me more. So please help! (link)
|
Mama's boy? It's not his fault, she is just overprotective. He is probably 10 billion times more bummed about it than you think he is, having to live with a mom like that. I don't really know what you should put in your letter, but just don't sound arrogant because that will put her on the defensive and that's exactly what we don't want. Just get mushy I guess and complement her beautiful, wonderful son, (I usually condone suck ups but it may work this time if you do it subtly) but at the same time, maybe ask what is it about you that she doesn't seem to like.
It would be even better if you could approach her yourself to actually speak with her, but I guess you know yourself that that would be hard for you if you've already resorted to writing a letter.
|
|