Ok i am monkeygirls friend and I really like this guy, but he won't talk to me. please dont just tell me to back off away from him cuz its not that easy.... ok and then there is this other guy i like but I think he may just be using me for sex please help!!
First of all, distance yourself from the guy using you for sex. That is just a bad situation. Occupy your mind with other things, ie friends, books, good movies. In time things will get easier.
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ok, say his guy's name is bob. now bob is 13 and in 7th grade and i am 14 and i am in 8th grade. now bob went out with a girl, say her name was "jane". jane is 14 and in 8thgrade and also a friend of mine, not a good friend, but a friend none the less. so bob and jane went out and jane about 2 weeks later dumps him. bob is really pissed and tells her to shove it and is obviously hurt. i haven't talked to bob since then and i really wanna go out with him. how long should i wait for him to get over the breakup. also once that time has come, how can i let him know my feelings that i wanna go out with him but not have things being awkward if he says no. i really don't want to tell him myself. ohh, and will jane think of me as a traitor if i date him? please tell me what to do. the more intimacy in your answer, the better i'll rate. but i rate good ne ways. please help!!
Talk to him as a friend first, and by being his friend you will know when he's moved on. Talk to your friend too, and see how she would feel about the you dating him, if the time comes.
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15/f. I have liked this guy since last year. And he told me last week that he liked me too. I am not allowed to date until I turn 16, which is in a week or so. The thing that worries me about going out with this guy is that he has done things that I have never done. I've never made out wiht a guy and he has made out with all the girls he's gone out with, and he has fingered a girl. I wouldn't mind making out with him, but getting fingered is not what I want to do. What should i do if he tries to finger me. Thanks in advance.
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It's a pretty good idea to talk these things over with him BEFORE hand. If he has a problem with it, he's not worth it.
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