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i thank she out haven sex while she haven my baby she liying about where she going i know that for a fact but i dont know what to do we broke up for a while right now this is the longest its happen aboyt two weeks now but iwas here first and she was my first we rally be though alot she thing people should have to go though when there in love (link)
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ok well this is what i would do, id first confront her about it but you also have to think, you might not suppose to be right for eachother and i know its hard to hear because i fell in love once and i couldnt stand hearing it. talk to her about the baby and tell you you know shes going places shes not saying she is.hmm and if shes sneaking around wouldnt you not want to be with her cuze then theres no trust in the relationship and its basicly based on trust and honisty. maybe you should just have time apart for a bit, maybe she needs to have a break and think things over. i cant really help you after that im sorry this happend to you. first loves dont always work out =(
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this guy i kno i thought he hated me but evry1s saying that he doesnt i think i like him but i dunno if he likes me?
HELP
~Dani~
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ask him. start talking to him and if he seems kinda mean then let him talk to you
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how do u get a guyy top leave u alone??? (link)
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umm.... ignore him, be mean, tell him to stop bugging you and leave you alone and go bug someone else
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hey... im 12F and i have this boyfriend whos 12 and he's the shy type.. im not really the shy type for wen it comes to my boyfriend..but if hes shy i get shy.. and like i really want to try to loosen him up..but how ?..he was my first boyfriend in 4th grade.. and now im in 7th grade i want to makeout with him..but i dont know if he'll be ready should i askhim or not...? please help.. i dont want to be stuck like this...he isnt really the cuddle boyfriend but he always makes me smile and laugh and hes soo cute..thanks a bunch...
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well you could ask him, but i loosen but just being around someone and getting comfterble which takes a little bit. im not sure how to make him loosen up just try diff things, be alone somewhere where no one will bother you and watch a movie or something, ask him before that tho, kiss him something like that. if you need more advice on this, if you have aim talk to me my sn is Devil Kitten 107 ill be happy to talk if youd like to. hope i helped, if you dont have aim then ask another question
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ok so i'm 15 and i really like this guy and he liked me too, for a while, then he changed his mind about me, i still like him though and i want to have a relationship with him. How can i get him to like me again? (link)
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heres what id do, id spend as much time with him as you can and be you. dont try to be anything else but you dont act any diff. thats what id do tho i cant garentee itll work but its worth the try.
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ill make it short..i like this guy and he likes me but i have a boyfriend and my bf NEVER talks to me should i dump my boyfriend?
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yeah! if he doesnt talk to you then hes not even trying to keep you, hes not making any effort and its not right. id dump him, but id wait a bit for the other guy dont go out with him on the same day you dump the other. hope i helped you
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me and mi boy frend were at the movies when he started 2 put his arm around me.he moved alittle closer and was about 2 kiss me. i went i have 2 go get some popcorn and a soda.i went home right away.i dont think im ready for that kind of relationship.do i tell him.im soooooooo confused please help. (link)
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yes tell him that your not ready for any of that and that your relationship needs to go slower and go by slow steps or something like that. just tell him "im not ready for this is a relationship yet" or something along those lines
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i was at my friends birthday party and she liked this guy and so i kind of forced him in the direction of asking her out. And i am not really sure that he wanted to. But then i have been talking to him online and a couple times on the phone and i have started to like him.I have hung out with him a couple times. Then the most recent one is when me, my friend and him just went to her room and watched a movie. I wasn't really watching the movie all that much because i was drawing but my friend said that he wasnt really watching the movie either cuz he was watching me.
Then later on in the movie he moved really close and started drawing with me and i dont know why but when he touched me it made my heart beat faster. But right after the movie was over he had to go because he was going somewhere with his girlfriend and some friends. Since then everytime i am online he isnt on and everytime i have an away message up he gets on and leaves me messages like hey or why are you always gone or come back.i don't know if he likes his girlfriend but i am too afraid to ask him. what should i do? i want to tell him that i like him but i am not sure if i should, what do you think? help me please. (link)
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i would just say it. just say something like i like you more than a friend and i hope that doesnt bother you. just ask him if hes happy with his girlfriend. thats what i would do
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HOw can I fix that (link)
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wtf????? youve lost me! what do you wanna fix about it? why do you wanna fix it?
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today me and my boyfriend were surpose to hangout...well his parents came home early from work so i was going to go to his house...but then he called me and he said he was going to go buy a game with his older brother real quick and hell be right back and hell call me when he got back...he left @ 2 30 today.....its now 4:20!! i called at 4 but his mom answered and said he still wasnt here...im giving him till 5 to call me....when he calls me later when he does get home and its past 5...what do i say? how do i handle this? its pretty rude what he did.... (link)
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tell him well took you long enough or something, ask him what he did that took how many hours to get, somethign like that, id say somethign along those lines but thats just me, you dont have to say anyting like that if you dont want to
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well i have a boyfriend i care for and weve been together for 9-10 months now and well we dident kiss until about our 4 month together and well now hes kinda starting to want more, see my boyfriend is usto doing stuff and well honstly i havent ever done anything! he tells me its fine but i know he really wants it and i dont want him to cheat on me or brake up with me because of it! hes actually my first kiss and everything... im scared to do more because i dont think ide be good at it lol as gay as that sounds... should i just try it... any advise? (link)
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do what your heart tells you. if you want to do what he wants with him then do it. no one is perfect, youll ge the hang of it. follow what your heart tells you to do. hope i helped
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its been 8 months for me and my bf.. he said he would call yesterday before he left for outta town.. he never did.. now today he hasnt called yet.. and he is suppose to be in town like a hour ago.. (link)
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well id call his house and if no one answers id leave a message. id check the news now and then to see if the roads are ok and if there are any car accedents to make sure hes fine.
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okay my boyfriend didnt get me ne thing for christmas and i feel kinda guilty for getting him something...and now i got a ring in the mail from someone and i dont kno who it was from...what should i tell my boyfriend when he asks...that is if he asks? (link)
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well dont feel guilty. you were just doing something good. wow you got a ring? just say i got it in the mail and i dont know who its from. ask him about it first, when you can just ask him if he sent you anything in the mail.
hope i helped
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okay.. me and this guy have been "talking.." like.. we like each other.. and me and his ex girlfriend DONT like each other.. well.. she IMed me last night.. and she was like.. " i just wanted to tell you im sorry and i dont hate you.. im just jelous of you because you have the one thing i want.. " and then she was being super nice.. well.. today.. he came over to my house.. and she called his cell and was telling him all these lies about me... ( she didnt know he was at my house ) okay.. so i got on the phone and i was like.. "um.. hes busy.. bye!" and then she wrote my advice column saying all this stuff about me.. and i dont know what should i do? should i end things with him? (link)
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dont end things with him because of her. tell her to stop. if she goes to your school tell them because theyll take it so serious. its like and is harrasment. tell him he needs to get to her to stop.
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Well lets c where to start...I met this girl at camp and we became friends kinda talked time to time..she ended up going to the same school as my best friend and she like(d) him.. and he liked her but my best friend alrdy ahs a g/f so he is chaeting anways...he brought her over to my house and shit and Like I have liekd her and my friend likes her...well she stayed the nite and so now he thinks she likes me becuz when she stayed the night we went for 2 walks and she like constantly kissed me and then took me into someone elses yard to make out 3 different times for like 10 minutes...so he starts to get mad cuz she is hangin out with me and me nd her were layin in the same bed and held hands and rubbed on each other and shit while my friend was on the computer in the next room over, well he kinda saw us hold hands and then he whispered to me that he wants to dump his g/f and go out with Taylor so I was like wow as soon as im getting somewhere he wants to go out with her so I told him to go ahead cuz he was kinda going for her 1st and then he went upstairs while we were makin out then he came abck down and told me to help hmi think up of a reason to break up with his g/f..he knows I like her but he told me he wants her over his g/f so he is gunna go for her..any advice? (link)
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ok frist off, you like her right? if you do then tell your friend cuze this is so wrong. he cant go out with a chick you like, to be honist hes not a good friend, and tell him you like her and get to her frist.
~jourdan
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Hey, I'm 13, and my bf wants to take it to the next level. I'm not sure what to say, I want to, but my parents would kill me. Pleaz help.... (link)
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first off your 13 i think your too younge but thats me. im almost 15 and i still wont do anything past kissing. its up to you on what you want to do right now. if you dont want to say no its up to you. just know this, know the conseqences that youll have later, like regreting and all so think it over well before you do anything your not sure about
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On tuesday, my boyfriend broke up with me. I was really upset and then today I met up with some friends and he was there. We all decided to go back to my house and my ex and I were flirting quite alot. Then, one of our friends said: "Look, you both obviously fancy each other, go back out." So my ex asked me out and I said yes. The thing is, do you think it is worth giving it another try? The reason he broke up with me was because we didn't really talk enough or anything but can that be fixed? Should I bother trying again? (link)
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its always worth trying again. after like the 3rd or 2nd time of trying id stop. but try it again
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Hey everyone. I have my own column, but I can't answer my own question. I met a guy online back in May or around that time. We didn't talk much until now, and we've gotten soooo much closer. We both think we're soulmates and meant for each other. Even though I haven't met him, I feel this connection, and it's really cool. I just don't know what to think though, because I hear all those stories on the news and everything, and it really scares me. What if he's a rapist or a serial killer or something?! I really don't think he is, because of some of the conversations we've have, but there's always that chance. I just want to know you're opinions on this, and what I should do about it. Is there anyway I can find out he's really 16 w/o actually meeting him? Thx in advance, sorry about the length. Happy Holidays 2 everyone!
Shortie8959 (link)
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maybe he has a friend you can talk to. im not really sure about it. if theirs a friend online he has talk to him and ask him and stuff. hope i helped
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im moving to south carolina in 5 months. im 15 my boyfriend is 16 and we been together for 10 months. we love each other...hez been to jail for 4 months though and i met this boy and we started chillin and had se n everythin n i fell in love with him. but my ma made me crush my feelings for that guy because she didn`t trust him. i loved him. then when my boyfriend got out, i forgot about the other guy. that`s not the point. i wuznt in love with my boyfriend while i wuhz cheating with him. Now that he'z out i wanna be with him a lot. I missed him ya know? Well last night on the phone, we were talking for a very long time. I was soo open to him. i told him about the other guy but i didn`t tell him when and that i wuhz cheating on him. All of the sudden, he started crying and was like "I have to ask you a question!" i kept asking him-"ok what? tell me" but he didn`t because he was 'scared i wouldnt tell the truth'. Then i hung up with him and he called back like-i need to talk to you. when i asked him if it wuz bad he said "yes" and then i asked if he was gonna break up with me. he hung up. i don`t wanna break up with him. I already lost one boy i loved more than life...now him...what should i say to make him come out with it!! sorry so long =((((((( (link)
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maybe you can email him if he has a email address. give him a note. you just have to say tell me now, if i need to know then tell me. sorry if i dont help
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i have a boyfriend who i love VERY much. we (his name is corey) went out for 4 months and then we broke up. when we broke up he went out with my best friend and then they broke up. then he went out with my other best friend to try to get over me and things led to other things.... she was moving really fast and he didnt want to get made fun of so he just went along with everything. well she gave him a blowjob. he broke up with her right after because he found out i still liked him. he regretted the whole thing. i was have a really tough time dealing with everything. then i went off to highschool before him *hes a year younger than me* and i got a new boyfriend. i went out with him for 7 and a half months but i didnt want to be with him. we were kinda off and on for a long time. things happened between me and him that i didnt want to happen, but i didnt know how to say no. i never did anythng to him... he did things to me sexually. and then i finally got the courage to break up with him. all my self esteem was gone by now, as u could probably imagine. i still liked corey a LOT and so we started talking again and we got back together. weve been together for over 3 months and i keep thinking about what happened between him and my ex-best friend. i just cant seem to get past it. he regrets ever doing it and he knows how bad it hurt me. we have talked about it, we have cried about it. i just dont know what to do to get over the past. i keep picturing what happened. and corey cant get over it either, he gets upset about it all the time. how do we get over it and what do we do about it? thanks for any advice you can give me. (link)
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you just need to forget it. dont do this if you dont want to but maybe you have to do the same in order to forget it. DONT DO IT IF YOU DONT WANT TO. or if you think your not ready or something but just forget what happend. sorry if i dont help
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