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Hi, i had sex for the first time with my friends ex boyfriend. I am 14 years old, and now she doesn't talk to me anymore. (if she would find out about the sex shed probably kill me.) We used protection, but he doesn't seem to love me but i think I'm falling for him. What should i do to get him to like me (BTW he isn't my boyfriend) I am Female and 14 years old. I am from America (link)
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Well you betrayed your friend. You need to own up to her before someone else tells her because inevitably, nothing ever stays a secret for long. If you tell her first then she can't say you lied or tried to hide it.
You can't make him like you. Sex is a thing you do. Love is a state of mind that happens. There really isn't any correlation between the two unless you only have sex with someone you love and you missed that boat, girly.
I hope you were safe and let this be a lesson to you. Also you might find it helpful to know that when you have sex your brain releases chemicals that cause you to feel more euphoric and even "in love." This is why it is often recommended that people in failing marriages boost their sex life. The next time you have sex (because you will if you want to, no matter what anyone says) go into it clearheaded and think about the consequences.
I also feel the need to tell you to always use protection and that abstinence is the only 100% guarantee.
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So basically I hooked up with this guy the first time we hung out. He was someone I've always had my eye on but thought I would never be good enough for. So when he initiated that he wanted to hookup I had no hesitation to do it. I'm friends with alot of people that know him and say he's a really good guy and not a player or anything like that. We've talked only once since then (it's been about a month). But I'm feeling myself actually wanting to date him. I'll see him during spring break but I'm not really the kinda girl to ask a guy out. I know you can't make someone like you, but I don't want to be remembered as easy because i hooked up with him so fast. I don't think he wants anything serious but me neither. I just want to get to know him better. Like a date.. What should i do? (link)
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Flirt with him, but don't just flirt, be friendly as well. You need to come off like you're truly interested in him while also displaying that you're worth interest as well. If it doesn't work don't assume you failed, he may just truly not be interested. Don't overdo it. If you give him time to get to know you then he may grow to be as interested in you as you are in him.
Good luck!
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I know it sounds ridiculous but all I can think about at the moment is getting married. I haven't even got a boyfriend and I'm only 19 but it's got to the point where I am actually researching venues and dresses and planning it in my head.
I'm planning the next few years of my life based around when I want to meet my future husband, get engaged and get married. I'm putting far too much pressure on myself and it's starting to bother me. My friends have started to find it weird too and don't think it's a good idea to be so set on one thing but the idea of not getting married in the near future terrifies me.
How can I stop obsessing over this and stop worrying about it? (link)
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It's completely normal and it's okay to plan and figure out what you want now because trust me, when the time comes you'll want to be sure and you'll still change your mind a whole lot. It's good to look forward to the future and plan. I suggest you stop obsessing by making flexible plans. Consider the changes life could throw at you and consider the possibilities and plan based on that. It's great to have a "dream wedding" planned out because often the male in the situation doesn't care so much about the tiny details and would rather leave it all up to you. Instead of obsessing and trying to plan life so rigidly, be flexible. Have ideas and general preferences but not plans that are written in stone. Welcome spontaneity.
If you keep looking for things to pan out the way you plan them, you may miss an opportunity that was staring you in the face.
Good luck!
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I'm not sure what to do here.......2 great guys that I really like and are good friends that I can't live without. Guy A and I can have conversations and we have a lot in common. He makes me laugh and feel really happy whenever I'm around him - he is one of my best friends. Guy B and I can have conversations as well, along with teasing and laughter as well.
The problem I have is that I don't know who to choose, as well as which of them like me. Both of them flirt a little bit with me, but I think they are just messing around. Help?! (link)
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Get to know them even better than you already do and decide based on that but also realize that by trying to forge a relationship with one of them you may be risking the friendship of one or both of them.
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Hi ! I'm a sri Lankan who is in 20's. I would like to know as how to become a successful Christian writer? What are the serious matters I can write about and is it alright to imagine romance if I'm single?
Thanks.
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Put a pencil to paper or your fingers to the keys and let all your thoughts and feelings out. It doesn't matter if other people like it, what matters is that it means something to you. That makes it art.
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Okay, so I'm a 17f, and my guyfriend is coming over tomorrow (hes the same age). The thing is, I've never had a guy come over before and it will be awkward for me to bring home a guy to meet my mom for the first time. We are kinda dating and it just seems strange having a guy around her, cuz she kind of bugs me about dating every guy I know, which I don't do. Anyhow.. how can I have him come over and feel comfortable? Thanks! (link)
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Just let it happen. The more you worry and prepare the more of a climax your stress will come to when he actually does come over. Just tell your mother you're very nervous and explain why and she'll understand (thought it might not seem so).
It's always a little uncomfortable the first time.
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hey how can me and my dude do doggy style without me queefing? (link)
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That's a question you have to explore, experiment with, and answer for yourself. There's nothing wrong with it, but if you want to try and find a position where it's less likely try using different methods of being propped up with pillows, the edge of surfaces like beds and tables, or even sex equipment if it's available to you.
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