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So there is this guy and he likes me, like he tries to kiss me and pinches my butt, and hugs me, but i only think of him as a friend. however, every time i try to tell him off...he just flirts more...what should i do?!?!?

tell him to back off and if he doesnt.. threaten to bite his dick

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There is this girl I like, Im 16 and she is also 16. I like her alot and i dont know if she likes me and i want her to. the only time we get to hang out is when she has one of my friends over cuz she wont come over without him here. She is every thing that i want in a girl. i guess what im asking is how do i know if this girl likes me and how would i go about to get her to date me.

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Guy without Girl

well guy without girl,
i think you need to tell her exactly how you feal. girls are weird and sometimes they need to know if you like them first b4 they tell you how they feal.maybe she only comes over when your friend is there because she is (for the time being) uncomfortable with it being the 2 of you. she may ghet nervous around you. but the only way this one can work out is for you to be honest with her and yourself and tell her how you feal.
i hope i helped a lil' bit.
xoxo ~ Dana

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ok well me and this guy went out for bout a month and i i just felt like i needed to break up with him so i did and that was two days ago. well ever since i broke up with him he has to know everythin bout me... who i'm talkin to... what i'm talkin to people bout and it is gettin on my last nevers. like i was talkin to one of my friends (that is a guy) and my ex was standdin beside me trytin to see what i was tellin my friend that i was talkin to. and every time i talk to one of my friends that's a guy he like butts in and is all like what is she tellin you (he says that to the people i'm talkin to) but they don't ever tell him and luckily i have alot of guy friends so they all stick up for me but he is startin to get on my last nerve and i really don't know what to do... so someone PLEASE halp me!!

i think that you should tell him to back off and be honest with him abotu how you think he needs to let you go. i know i know i know... easier said than done. it will take a while for you tog et the nerve to di that but you need to tell him "hey, you and i broke up and i think that we need to move on. by breaking up, it gives us both freedom and your not giving me any!" just see what he says back! i hope i helped more than that shake guy! gee wizz!!
-luv Dana

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me and this girl i really liked have been hanging out and stuff for a couple months now and i think she might be cheating on me or has cheated, she says she loves me and all but i dont really believe its true and since i started to think this ive started to like another girl that is alot more mature and fun and were good friends, what should i do, or how do i know shes cheating without asking?

well anonomous guy, not to sound rude or anything but do you and this girl have a staedy realtionship like are yall dating or actually bf and gf? if no, then shes not really cheating on you. if yes, then confront her about it. If you REALLY like this other girl, then you should talk to "the immiture" girl about yall breaking it off for a while and you go and see how this other girl would be. I bet you are goign to miss "the imiture" one though because sometimes those people can be fun. i dont know... follow your heart and do what you think is right. On another note though, she could be trying to give you hints that she wants to move on with other guys just like yu want to move on wiht other girls. you need to confess to her that you like this other girl and then she will most def. come ot in the open about her wanting the same thing. I hope i helped alittle.

luv, Dana

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ive known kev since elementrty school and now we are in 10th grade and we started hooking up in january and we could talk about anything and he was the first guy ive ever been with and sexualy active with and he agreed to take it slow. but now he just thinks that because i love him im willing to do stuff all the time. i know this is gunna sound wrong but you need to help me with sumthin other then breakin up, i lovee him. well a few weeks ago his parents went away for the whole weekend, so i went over friday and i was gunna go home at 1 am (my parents were ok with it) and we were hookin up and did more than usualy, but in his bed and he ate me out , when i was gunna leave he told me no and held my hands on my bed and told me to tell my mom i was stayin at my friends, so i did (he looked angry and got mad when i was gunna) so i gave him head and everything that night and he was saying her loved me and stuff and wouldnt really let me go. the weekend after his friend georgie drove us around with his gf and they went in burger king to eat but we stayed in the car and we were kissing and he pushed my head to give him head but i was like isnt this weird and he said just do it, its not a big deal and i kind of cried doin it and he felt bad so he walked me home and held me close the whole time and kissed my forhead..now yesterday we went to his friends hotel party and we could stay there cuz everyone left and he kind of embarrsed me by sayin i give the best head and stuff.. but we had to sleep on the floor and the whole time he kept his hand on my ass or down my pants.. but today he was fine and we just madeout and stuff.. wut shood i say

i think that you should tell him that you are uncomftorable with it and to slow things back down. u should try it... just be honest with him.

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