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Hey There, im Deliliah. I am fourteen years old and i live in Delaware.


im a really nice, and understanding person so please, feel free to ask my any questions.


This isn't my first Advicenators account, ive had about three and i wasnt getting good feedback sooo,, after a while i made a new one =]


my friends are a big deal, i love them and i wouldnt be the person i am today with out them.


Im a one of a kind person, i dont try and copy any one else, and i do what i think is right, and belive in whatever i think is true.


thanks, and feel free to message me =]

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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost about a week. But the problem is, we could never have a decent convo on the phone. so my question is, i want some good topics to talk about on the phone. i already know all the basics about him...so please don't write that..

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ask him questions about his day, who he was with, what he was doingg, and suchh;; it lets him know that you care..ouh yes and when school starts ask about homework and school and stuff.


We'll, let's see I'll start off with my age and gender. I'm a seventeen year old female. I've had a rough time with this thing called "love". I thought I had loved two people within the past four years. The first was too controlling so I forced myself out of that relationship, got over her meaning I never really did "love" her. The second was abusive and controlling, this time I wasn't the one to end the relationship. I stuck around getting hurt for six months with this girl, I fell for her within the first week or so, and she broke up with me. I know that wasn't love because as much as she may ahve hurt me she taught me that love is a two way street. Each person has to return the favour. In my case she lost interests in me. Now I also believe that anyone can "fall in love" but it takes two to "be in love." Now I've got a new girlfriend. I've been with her for a month in a week from now. She's not abusive, she's sweet, adorable and actually treats me equally. My only problem here is, she has an ex girlfriend. Whom was the only girl she ever told she "loved" and meant it with all her being. They dated for about four months and the girl dumped her without any hints I'd suppose. Then was majorly harsh to her. Sadly, the girl isn't a threat, she passed away about two year's ago from an OD. But my current girlfriend still loves her. After just leaving my last relationship, and thinking I was in love has me confused about what love really is. With this newer girl I feel so comfortable around her, and sometimes just feel that I love her, and the feeling comes to just say it naturally. But of course, I don't, knowing for sure she doesn't share those feelings back. I'm worried I'll "fall in love" with this girl, and if I tell her she might leave me or something because of her past. I'm also afraid to get hurt again so close to just getting hurt. I'm not sure whether or not to tell the girl I'm with all of this, and wing it, at least then she'd know. Or sit around not telling her, and see if her feelings for me grow any stronger. (link)
you should stay with her;; it seems like she is really into you and you feel the same.. even though she has had a tough time, you should help her through it, and tell her that your there to talk if she needs anyone to talk to. maybe, you should talk to her about how you feel, and your concerns, if it will make you feel better




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