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This guy and I switch on and off on going out. I really, really like him. I hav known him for a little more than a year, and i hav never stopped liking him. We just broke up bcuz he likes another girl. He told me that he wanted to go out again, just not right now. But im just sick of gettin heart broken. What should i do?
ok Hun I kno you like him, but normally when a guy tells you "he wants to go out later just not now" It means you guys most likely wont get bac together for awhile. And pluse he likes someone else. I kno you like him but come on, there are other guys. And that pretty low when someone dumps you for another girl or guy ok? Hes most likely not worth your time. and you need to realize that. And since ur past relationships hav been on and off if u go bac out with him its probably not going to last long. ok? And if ur tried of getting heart broken... so find someone else. Your a really special person dont let a guy like him bring you down. Try some other ppl, if its still not working for you, tell me ill help you. Cuz trust me I've been in ur place a bunch of times. >>Jennifer
wt ell see i lyke ur ex boyfriend-->jt! but idk what to do becuz he was bein really mean and stuff? should i keep goin at it or give up sad and broken hearted? please help me jen i need yo0!
Hmm ok well I understand why u like him lol. He can be mean though. I mean if he is totally mean that he is putting you down all the time dont like him he isnt worth ur time otherwise. But then again he could just be messin with u, you never kno. just talk to him about it tell Jt how you feel. He likes it better when ur honest with him. If he doesnt like you back thats his problem i bet ur a great person. But if he does then great. But hint hint i kno he has his eye on an older chick at the moment. But he is a great guy just if u go out with him... dont let him tell u, that u guys will be together forever. cuz it never happens he has done it with every grl he has been with so far. Dont worry just tell him. the truth,the full truth!
cuz he doesnt like when u lie lol.
good luck -Jennifer
My boyfriend wants to make out with me, and i dont know how. How do you make out?
Thnx!
theres really no specific way, just go for it, I did it was great. If he knos just follow his lead. im sure things will work out. -Jennifer
there is this guy that i do cheerleading with. and i really like him..should i tell him i like him? and we flirt a lot but i dont know if he likes me. i want to hang out with him when we go to kings island. will it be really wierd if we hook up since we will see eachother like everyweek? and i really want him to kiss me but i dont know if he will even want to hang out with me. i am pretty sure he likes me because he told someone that he would dump his girlfriend and go out with me anyday. What should i do?
*confused*
Just tell him how u feel, i think it would be fine if u guys saw each other every week. Just go out with him... just let him kno u like him. im sure things will work out. -Jenn
Hi, I like a girl that I have gone out with 2 times. She broke up with me last time, but we hang out and talk all the time. I still like her, but I dont know if she likes me too. I want to go out with her, but its embarrasing to get declined. What should I do, and if I should give hints or something, what would be a good hint. Thanks. Im in 7th grade and so is she.
Well ur a guy so im sry but i dont kno very many hints. Just tell her how u feel maybe do a flirting. Im sure if u dont act like a jerk or w/e she mite go out with u, Depending on wut happened last time she dumped u. So just try flirting with her, tell her u still like her. Im sure things will work out after awhile. -Jennifer
i like this guy but idk if he likes me. he's really punk and i'm preppy. all the guys that i've went out with before i changed my whole look & stuff for them, but they wound up liking me anyway. but the one i like now i dont wanna try and impress! how do i get him to notice me!?!
Just talk to him. Be urself, not something u arnt. He would probably like that better than a fake. -Jenn
Hey Im 13 years old and im going into 8th grade in 3 weeks and im friends with this guy who is 12 and he wants me to give him a blow job. I think I want to but i really dont no how to go about doing it I really need some advice !!!!!
You guys are way to young to be doing that, i dont really care if u want to thats terrible. Ok im guessing if ur 13 and u wanna do this u dont kno wut Ural Sex is... well its just like a blow job. Thats terrible. dont do it u can get STDs by giving a blow job as well. -Jennifer
a lot of my friends have bf and there around them all the time but i dont have one, ive nvr had one but i really want one cuz it makes me feel left out wut should i do?
You shouldnt feel left out, I mean if u like a guy throw out some hint to let him kno that. If u dont like anyone and enjoy being single stay that way, just because ur friends hav boyfriends doesnt me u should have one too. If u want a boyfriend that bad go for it, im sure u'll find someone. But heres a hint ((be careful with the guy u choose, some guys go out with girls for he wrong reason, and they will play u bad.Just be careful i dont want u getting hurt.)) -Jennifer
Ok lets start with this i have been dating my boy friend for a year and a half. But for some reason i want to hurt him. I dont know why though I write weird stuff about him then the next morning i dont even remember writeing that. Or being mad at him. When he asks me to call him i say no he asks why i say i dont know, When he asks for a kiss i push him away. Me and him have kids together and im ingaged to him. And im happy very happy with my choice but latley iv been wanting to be mad at him and wanting to hurt him. He is a very nice smart kind funny sweet guy and he wont do anything wrong to diserve it. But iv just wanted to. What triggers it most the time is when he is with his friends hanging out talking about other girls and stuff and he doesnt mention me. And that he will pick on my favorite bands and movies and stuff. But i also say that this other guy is cute to so it gives him rights to say that about other girls. If you can help me please please help!!
Maybe u guys need a break. Not like breaking up or anything, just take some time to be by urself away from him. Go and hang with just ur friends. C if anything happens. Tell him about ur relationship. If u dont like how he talks about other girls tell him. In relationships u should always be truthful to each other. communication is everything in a relationship. *Jennifer*
if you dont want to tell someone something important but they really want you to tell it to them should you? lol
Well if u want to tell them, tell them. Who cares wut they think. It doesnt matter. Just tell them. Im sure things will be ok. *Jennifer*
hey ive got a question. if you really like someone, i mean like your not obbsessed with them but you would like for them, and your not quite sure if they like you back what should you do? i mean saying like youve already gone out with this person twice but both times they were really really short, should you keep liking this person? i mean there goin out with someone else and im pretty sure that theyre gonna last for a while. should i give up on her? i mean shes the most amazing girl ive ever met and i really dont want to lose her.
Well if u really like her, hold on to her. Dont let her fly by to someone else. When shes single ask her out, theres never harm in trying that. And this person she is with... u say they will last a long time. Nothing lasts forever. Im sure they wont be together for a very long time. But still just ask her when u get the chance, if she says no its not going to be the end of the world. And if u choose to still like her thats ur choice. Just tell her how u feel im sure everything is gonna be ok. *Jennifer*
i have gotten really close to my guy friend mike and we talk all the time. i have strong feelings for him and i DID tell him that i do like him. i think i put him in an akward position. did i do the right thing by telling him how i feel?
hmm... well thats very strange. cuz thats the same at my church. I like this guy name Mike and this other girl liked him as well. And i would get very jealous. Well one of Mike's friends Jeff knew that i liked him and he wanted me to go out with him, so he told Mike. So mike finally knew about it and i was so embarress. but nothing changed between us. he still acted the same around me. Well then one day with our church we went to Kings Island. he asked me to go on the rides with him. I was so excited. So i went on all of them and he held my hand everytime. But still nothing happened. Then the next week the fish fry came. I worked with him at every game. Then that Saturday I found out he liked me. Then Sunday nite at Bible Study he asked me out. And we hav been together 4 a month now. See, if u kno any of his friends... and ur friends with them too. tell them how u feel. and maybe they can get something to happen with u and this mike.