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I am a teenage college student and I have gone through a lot of stuff in my life. I am here to give advice to anyone who needs it, from small things to big things. I am a great listener and hope people put their full trust in me.

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ok so i've liked this guy for like 2 years off and on. my best friend said that during the summer he liked me 2. well i guess i finally got over him by the end of ther summer and then he turned up in my math class, sitting right next to me. i find myself liking him again, and he always finds time to talk to me during p.e. , and for the stupidist reasons, does he like me?? (sorry about the length ) thanx

It is usually really hard to get into the mind of males, so no one knows. If you guys share friends, try to get friends to share his feelings to them and then have them tell you. It's sneaky but it works. If you like him, but you dont know if he likes you, you should pursue him anyways.. it couldnt hurt.

Good Luck
College Girl NH

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Please help me with my relationship problem, my boyfriend is like absessed with tickling me, he thinks it's funny and cute. It's fun, but it gets annoying. When I tell him to stop, he just keeps doing it. I can't get away. What do I do?? No matter how much I ask, he won't stop.

I am in this exact same problem as you, My boyfriend constantly tickles me and I have become more immune to it, but he still does it. What I do, is I use force and push him away and tell him to stop and that I don't like it. He does get the point of it. Sometimes you need to use a little force upon men to get to their brains, because alot of them think women are just play things. If he keeps doing it, it could be harmful to your emotional health, so talk to him about it and push him away if you need to.

Good Luck and Hallelujah (ha ha sorry im listening to that song)

College Girl NH

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last night was my first time getting fingered. i was wondering...what are like the bad things that could happen from that? are there any consquences?!

There are not any huge consequences that come out of this sexual act, unless you have an STD. Since you said this is your first time, I am assuming you do not. You have nothing to worry about, Just make sure you dont run into anything too fast that you will regret later on.
If you need any more, professional advice, I would recommend this site-->
http://www.sex-project.com/fingering.shtml

Good luck, and I am gladf you asked me for advice. VIVA ADVICENATORS!

College Girl NH

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me and my boyfriend broke up but we still love each other and hopefully might get back together. but im having second thoughts what does that mean?

You probably arent willing to take the risk of getting your heart broken again. This past year I went out with a guy and he broke my heart, then this guy I have known for almost 5 years, decided to pursue me, but I wasnt ready for that, and was afraid to get my heart broken again. I think that you need time to yourself to rejuvinate and think about everything that has gone on in your life and to think if you are ready for the risk again.

Good Luck and Lots of Love
College Girl NH

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ok well my bf and i have been dating for about 3 months and valentines day is around the cornor and i don't know wat to get him! i don't want to get him something really stupid that hes not gonna like but i want to get him something that shows i really love him! so if u have any ideas! let me know! thanks a bunch

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Think of something that would mean something to both of you, and would advantage to you both.
A suggestion that I was going to do for my boyfriend is start making a scrapbook.. make the first page or two with pictures of you two and you can write a little note in there fo him, and when you present it to him, tell him you want the two of you to fill the rest out together. It will make a great project for when you two hang out, and you have a place to keep all your pictures an memories.

Good Luck and God Bless
College Girl NH

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i like this kid but the thing is that i have never talked to him and hes a year younger than me and i just think that he is nice and all that but i really like him..what should i do?please dont say go up to him and talk to him because im really shy around new people..

I was in this same situation last year. I liked a guy, but I was a senior and he was a freshman, but It just felt so right. I knew I wanted to ask him to prom (just to state fact, I was not yet 18, so it was legal).. so anyways, I had a friend ask him if he were to be asked by a girl to prom would he say yes. Of course he knew it was me, because I always got so nervous around him. It ended up we went to prom and ended up going out. We are not together now but it was worth it. I think mainly, you should talk to him and I know you dont want to hear that. But babe, trust me it will be worth it in the end. So to get over your nerves with talking to new people, be with a bunch of friends when you talk to him the first time. With my ex, he and i always ate lunch together, but all my friends were there too... it eased the tension so much more. But I have a question for you, if he is so new to you, why do you want to go out with him? You should get to know the person well enough before you start going out. That is a mistake a lot of people make in High school. I met the guy I am with now, my freshman year of high school, and I am now a freshman in college and we just started going out this summer, andit has been a good happy relationship.
So basically down to it, if you want to approach him, bring good friends along for support.

Lots of Love and good luck!

College Girl in NH

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