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im 13 and i really like this kid and he is 15 i told him how i feel and he said he likes me to but we live a hour away we could neva go out [ so he said ], but sometimes he seems like he really likes me then other times it seems like he is to busy that he has no time for me but then i know he has alot of girls as friends and i don't know if he likes them and i know is jealously but it tru and i don't know wat to do u think i should just try to get him off my mined[ it would be so hard if i did but i could try ].. or wat ? .. PLEASE HELP !
I think you should hold out until you can find someone who really seems to like you all the time. Someone who will never seem too busy for you. I know you probably don't want to hear this but you are young and this crush will pass soon someone will be jealous about you and want your attention. It almost seems like he just wants you to crush on him and likes that he has controol over that. Also and hour away is along time for a 13 year old because you can't drive and probably don't have many friends that will be able to take you. So maybe wait about 2 or 3 year (I know it sound like a life time) and then try to rekindle how you feel. In about that time you both will know exactly what you want out of a relationship and each other so it should be better; but untill then try not to think about him because he obviously isn't worth your cruching otherwise he would be trying as hard for you as you are for him. Any help?
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i like this guy...but i have a bf n everytime i talk to this dude i feel so guilty...im so confused on what to do..should i tell this guy to go away...or what? cuz i love mah bf so much yet this guy gives me the attention i need at times when my bf dont? PLZ HELP!
Any attention is soooo flattering but don't do anything you wouldn't want your partner to do. I don’t think talking to another guy is so bad but if you feel guilty then maybe its best to stop. If you truly love your boyfriend then this problem shouldn't be so terribly confusing. Just remain plutonic with the new guy and you will soon see he isn’t as exciting and stimulating as he may seem. Once you see him as a regular guy (not just the guy you last after) it will be easier to comprehend your feelings for each guy. Like you love your boyfriend but would never cheat and the new guy is just and ego booster and fun to hang around, but not worth the risk. I mean you may find you later that you want a change but wait on it because the new guy still probably has the mysterious factor going on and that needs to wear off first. Ok, back to the beginning again; don’t do anything you feel guilty about! Talk but not about things you wouldn’t want your boyfriend taking about with another girl. You will talk to plenty of people through out your relationship how YOU handle it decides how you relationship will continue. If you crush on another guy it means you are not devoting all your admiration on your boyfriend, which leaves him open to crush on other too. Be sure not to neglect him!
Make sense? I don’t know.
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