Hey im Kelley I love giving advice! I was born in California! I love Cheer Boys especially one in particular and I love Life!
Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
Member Since: October 13, 2005
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We have a school dance this week and i want to sneak my boyfriend in that goes to another school. But i dont know if he wants to go or if i will get into trouble. So should i try to sneak him in and risk going home or not even try?
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well you could try and if you get kicked out just hang with your bf its not like he would get in trouble if he doesnt go to your school. ♥
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ive only had two boiyfriends in my life and they have always ended bad..how do i get the right guys to notice me...
im 14 and a female (link)
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same situation is happening right now to me and if you want some tips...
if you like a guy just try talking to him, i thought it would be the scariest thing in the world but there actually really nice.
also ask if they have an sn and get to know them better on aim.
be yourself around guys because if your fake then there not being friends with the real you. dont try to do anything stupid like dumb your self down or dress differently trust me it doesnt work.
i hope i helped! ♥ Kelley
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i like this one guy named tyler. ive never actually really talked to him but i think he is really cute and i really want to get to know him. i have 2 classes with tyler and i dont sit near him in any of them. any ideas on how to talk to him without going too far out of my way?? thanx (link)
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just causlly ask if he has a screen name (if you have aim) and then talk to him there if not ask one of his friends if he does. if your really really nervouse have one of YOUR friends go up to him and be like _______ wants to know if you have a screen name or number. its a great way to get to know him online because its easier then talking in person. ♥ Kelley ♥
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What do you do if you want to kiss your girlfriend. But you dont know if you are ready (link)
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you only know when you are ready if you really want to then go with your gut feeling if you feel like omg i cant do this then your not ready make sure you really trust your girlfriend and hey its really cool when a guy is nervous becuase coming from a girl its usually stress mania for us so if you make the first move your girlfriend and you wont be nervous hope i helped ♥ Kelley ♥
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ok thers this boy i like, hes rele nice, and he knows i like him and i sorta asked today of he liked me through a note and here are some things i noticed:
1. he anwered the note quickly, like he knew exactly what he was gonna say
2. when he was leaning in his chair, he said that if he fell he would hold onto me (it sounded so romantic when he said it)
3.when the bell rang, he waited for me in the stairwell
4. when we were walking down the stairs, he was wlaking close to me, even though there was plenty of room
5. in last period, he offered to switch seats with the person next to me and kept touching my hand the whole period, he kept saying it was an accident but i dont think it was.
does it seem like he like me? i have a really strong feeling he does but i need it to be confirmed. will rate! nellie (link)
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read those 5 things you just said again to yourself you dont need 10000 advice columnists to tell you that he likes you ;) you know its ture so just make your move girl! ♥ Kelley ♥
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Ok well there's this guy at my skool who acts like a total retard...like all the time..he's mature looking but he acts immature. Well he likes me...and he's always going out of his way to get in my face and act retarded...literally..im not just usin retarded as a way to say actin like an idiot! Like I never even noticed him until he started appraochin me and,,at first I was like ewww...but now im so0o confused..it's like i cant wait till I get out of my class to "run into" him in the hallway....idk if I like him or what..like it's so wierd...i think about if he were to ask me out..nd my first reaction would be no..but then why do i think about him and want to see him??? I'm really confused and I'll rate 5's if you even try to answer my question! thx! (link)
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your probably like him inside but usually you act like, "omg hes such a retard" because at first instinct you wouldnt want people to be like eww shes likes him! you get what im saying?? well anyway if you actually talk to him and be like your imatturatly level isnt there yet and if you matured a ton more then a ton of more people would like you" sort of thing.. well i hope i helped if you have any more ?'s feel free to drop me one in my box ♥ Kelley ♥
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Ok, so I have a friend, Trevor. He's everything that anyone would want in a guy.. Curly blonde hair, big blue eyes, a 6 pack, smart as poindexter, nice, funny, and he plays any sport under the sun: Tennis, Basketball, Football, Badminton, Cross Country, and Surfing. I used to have a crush on him a couple months ago, and he had a crush on me, too, but at the time he had a girlfriend. Then about a month later it seemed as though our feelings for eachother totally went away. Then one day we were talking on the internet, and he recently found out that I asked out a person from our tennis team, Marshall. He asked me, "Are you going out with Marshall?" and I go, "No, but I asked him out" and he totally freaked out about it and seemed mad at me because I did it..
But my question for you is: Does he still like me? Does he still have feelings for me? When we talk to eachother its normal - we're friends. But when I have a crush on someone, its a whole different story.
Thanks to anyone who read this long entry. :)
Please help me..
W0RLDWiDE SiGNALS (link)
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well he probably just gets jelous because if he had a crush on you he probably wont let you know and jelousy is sort of his way of letting you know. ask him straight up if he still likes you if so then thats cool cause if you still like him! if not then just ask him why he gets mad when you tell him that your going out with someone. it will all unfold in the end. hope i helped (if not its because its like 12 at night and im really tired lol) ♥ Kelley ♥
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okay so there is this guy that i met at the beginning of the school year and i liked him. well at least i thought so. well on fall break we went to the movies and other dates. this past week i thought alot about him and if i really liked him or not and i realized the only reason i liked him is because of all the attention that he gave me and i just really wanted someone to care about me. but i cant keep leading him on like this and play some stupid game. so how do i tell him without really hurting him? (link)
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say hey well thanks for all the fun this week your an awesome FRIEND and we should hang out more. be like, im so glad you care about me so much! Im so glad i found a friend like you! just some tips so that he thinks you think your just friends if he says i thought we were more then friends or something like it be like well i dont really think of you that way... hope i helped ♥ Kelley ♥
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i think im pushing people away but i dont know why. ive only liked a couple of guys in my lifetime (im 17/f) and what happens is i really really like them, but then when they start to like me back, i begin to find them repulsive. for no reason at all. i dont understand. nothing about them changes at all, i just decide that i hate them. why do i do this?? (link)
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yeah i have the same problem i dont know about your previous relationships but if you have had a relationship where the guy dumped you then that might be the problem when you like them then they start to like you, you automaticlly think there going to let me down and break up with me i dunno if thats your case but thats usually whats the problem is when you push them away. next time you like a guy dont completly let your guard down but dont shut your self out from them and give them a chance because you never know if that one you pushed away could really be the "one" well i hope i helped if not dont be afriad to rate bad if you have any other questions drop by my column sometime! ♥ Kelley ♥
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okay im a really pretty girl and some guys like me but the ones i want i cant get the attention i want from them can anyone help me w. this? (link)
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just be outgoing and flirt like crazy it will work if your pretty then they must notice you so anyway just try your best to talk to them and ask for their screen name or something or there number and just get in conversations with them
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Ok, so theres this boy in my class, michael. We were going out, and you kno, all that bf/gf stuff. We were really close and great together, we never fought, but of course there was a lil argument here and there. Well, one day he just broke up with me. He didnt tell me why, he just said we cant go out anymore and left. The next day, my best friend was wearing a shirt that said I love my bf. I asked her who her bf was and she said michael. She ddint even try to hide it or anything. I got really mad at her, and stopped talking to her. Now there are rumors going around that they had sex. I am really mad at my friend and i dont know what to do. I mean, i like her, but im really mad at her for stealing michael from him. What should i do??? (link)
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ok that definatly sucks but you have to get over the fact that there going out and move on to someone new maybe even go out with micheals friends to make him jelous? just a thought but anyway talk to your friend about it and say im really hert that you and micheal are going out and it was the day after our break up....just dont make it akward hope i helped ♥ Kelley ♥
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This question has probably been asked a million times.. it's one of those "do you think he likes me" questions. lol. There's this guy in my math class & I think he might like me but I'm not sure. He gives me a hug almost everyday & he's very sweet to me. He calls me babe and doll. He gave me his phone number and also said he wanted to take me out sometime. And one day he took one of my ponytail holders from my wrist & told me he was going to wear it that night during the game (he plays football) & he did. He also told me he saw me at the game. He also just looks at me for no reason & tries to make me laugh. He's sending all the right signals it seems like but I don't know.. I went though some of this with the last guy I liked and it turned out he didn't like me. So I really don't know what to think & I needed someone else's opinion. Thanks. =) (link)
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same situiation is happening to me i would say to just go for it and just flirt. also it wouldnt hurt if you asked to "hang out" or catch a movie or something ♥ Kelley ♥
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