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Im Cassie.
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Okay.. Well i am 14 years old. And my boyfriend oh 3 years just broke up with me. I have been so sad over all of this... and i dont know what to do. Some people have said he broke up with me because im not pretty enough. others say im sexie some say he broke up with me because i like to cuddle with him. But that made no sence to me. but i just need help. If any guy's read this and you think you can help please comment me i would love to talk to you. ang girl's please help. you know whta this is like (link)
I dont get how a 14 year old can have a 3 year relationship with a boy..but..

You need to have communication with him. Ask him why he broke up with you. Since you both are so young..this might be hard.


well i am dating this guy we have nothing in common but i am attracted to him and i find myself flirting with other guys and not telling guys i am taken when i should be what is wrong with me and what should i do? (link)
It sounds like you are in the relationship for more of the lust than the love, and thats wrong.

You need to find someone you are not only attracted too, but feel like their your other half. Relationships last longer when you know how to communicate and be honest with your significant other.

-cass


ok so theres this guy who likes me and i like him (i think). Hes 3 years older than me but both our moms agreed for us to date. I just got out of a realtionship that my mom didnt exactly know about and i still like the guy but i dont think he likes me anymore. I have a tendacy to like guys only if they like me. Should I just forget about my ex and move on and take a chance with this new guy? or should I just keep crushing my ex since i dont know if i like the new guy? im so confused. (link)
Im these type of situations..it seems like you need to just go with the flow. Dont take any sudden action yet intill youre absolutly sure about the decition you make.

If you still like your ex and you find out he doesnt have feelings for you anymore..its time to move on.

Talk to the new guy some more. Get to know him. Youre feelings will start to develop and youll tell if you like him as a friend or more.


-cass


i'm a freshman guy and i really like this girl but shes a sophomore and shes so nice and she's really friendly, but she kind of treats me like the brother type and i really like with her and i flirt with her all the time but she doesn't really realize that she flirts back a little because she's just like that to everyone, what should i do? (link)
The hardest thing to do in this situation is to tell her how you feel but, thats what has to be done.
You never know, she might like you.
You only have one life to live. Take a chance and see what happens. Its not like she'll stop talking to you (inless shes a bitch) and if she does, then why waste your time with her..

Best of luck!


ok so i'm 15, and i give advise here, but in this case, on myself i'm confused on what exactally to do... so my friend (Brian) likes me but my other friend(Becky) likes him. you can see the problem right there! haha
but Brian asked me out and i said yes, and now Becky is saying that she doesn't like Brian(she doesn't know about him liking me). i am not really sure if i like him or not, and i'm totally confused. i have also never been kissed and he knows that, and he asked me to kiss him. i'm afraid to kiss him, because of my inexperience, and because i'm not sure i like him.
i'm so confused on what to do... should i go out with him even though i'm not sure of my feelings for him?, and should i kiss him? i really want to kiss someone, but i'm so very afraid to. i don't know if i'm ready for a relationship. i'm a huge flirt, i cant stop flirting, and i hate being tied down to someone unless i really like them... like my sister, or my best friend. please help me!
i know some of you will think that i'm too young for all this, but the truth is, i'm more mature than anyone i know, sometimes even more so than my 22 year old sister.
please help!

thanks a bunch!(in advance)

xoxo
Maya
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If you are confused about your feeling about him, spend a little more time with him. Your feelings will soon grow and youll know if you like him or not. Don't just kiss him because he wants to kiss you. If he likes you enough he will wait.
Think about it..if you go into the pressure of kissing him, you may fall into alot of other pressure. Do what You want.




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