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TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name:Zoe Bateman
Birthday:March 2nd, 1990
Birthplace:Southwest General, Middleburg Heights, Ohio
Current Location:Berea, Ohio
Eye Color:Brown
Hair Color:Brown/ dyed burgundy
Right Handed or Left Handed:Right
Your Heritage:Lebanese, Slovak, Russian, Native American, Wales, and American
The Shoes You Wore Today:Etnies
Your Weakness:My neck being bit (ehe)
Your Fears:Spiders, and losing my girlfriend Brittney
Your Perfect Pizza:Little sauce, lots of cheese, pepperoni's
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year:Pass this year at school
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger:O.M.G.
Thoughts First Waking Up:Brittney
Your Best Physical Feature:Umm, I dont know, ask Brittney and other people, they'll tell you.
Your Bedtime:Anytime I want it to be
Your Most Missed Memory:When I went and visited Brittney for a week
Pepsi or Coke:Coke
MacDonalds or Burger King:I dont know...
Single or Group Dates:Single
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea:I dont know...
Chocolate or Vanilla:Chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee:Cappuccino
Do you Smoke:No
Do you Swear:Yes
Do you Sing:Yes
Do you Shower Daily:Yes
Have you Been in Love:Yes
Do you want to go to College:Yes
Do you want to get Married:Yes
Do you belive in yourself:Sometimes
Do you get Motion Sickness:No
Do you think you are Attractive:No
Are you a Health Freak:I dont know...
Do you get along with your Parents:Sometimes
Do you like Thunderstorms:Yes
Do you play an Instrument:Yes, the keyboard
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol:No
In the past month have you Smoked:No
In the past month have you been on Drugs:No
In the past month have you gone on a Date:No
In the past month have you gone to a Mall:Yes
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos:Not a whole box...
In the past month have you eaten Sushi:Yes
In the past month have you been on Stage:No
In the past month have you been Dumped:No
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping:No
In the past month have you Stolen Anything:Yes
Ever been Drunk:Yes
Ever been called a Tease:Yes
Ever been Beaten up:No
Ever Shoplifted:Yes
How do you want to Die:peacefully, unless I'm really upset and in a suicidal, then it has to be slow and painful
What do you want to be when you Grow Up:Anesthesiologist
What country would you most like to Visit:Germany and or France
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color:Doesnt matter (girls)
Favourite Hair Color:Brown/Blonde (girls)
Short or Long Hair:Doesnt matter (girls)
Height:Not too tall and not too short (girls)
Weight:100-160 (girls)
Best Clothing Style:I dont care
Number of Drugs I have taken:NONE
Number of CDs I own:I donk know
Number of Piercings:I dont know
Number of Tattoos:None
Number of things in my Past I Regret:2

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Location: Ohio
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
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are you gay? i'm guessing you are... (link)
Yes, I am a lesbian. Who are you and why do you ask that? I don't care that you asked.


ok so theres this guy. lets say his name is Ryan. Well i met Ryan about 5 months ago, at the mall. you know how it is; you see a hott guy at the mall, and you just wanna stalk him. So i decided to make an effort to go and talk to him, and i did. i ended up getting his sn and phonenumber. he told me thing. SWEET things. i really liked it. i like the way he made me feel. and i like HIM a lot too. i really wanted to be with him. he gave me hints that he really wanted to be with me. but he never asked me out. and i remember that one day in specific, he told me he wanted to be with me. 2 days later, he asked out one of my best friends; lets call her Tori. Me and tori lost touch after that. we always had this weird vibe everytime we looked at eachother. i wasnt mad. but i was dissapointed in myself for beliving him. they eventually broke up, but it seemed like they were going out forever. they went out for 5 months in specific. They still remained friends, and flirted with eachother now and then. well anyways, this previous summer, Tori called me one day because she was bored. and we ended up going to the mall. after that day, we hung out everyday for the rest of the summer. and we're best friends again. Ryan claimed that he still like Tori sometimes. but 2 weeks ago, i was at a football game with my Tori and my other friend ashley. and Ryan was there. so we introduced ashley to ryan, and she started liking him, and he starting liking her too. and today, i was on the phone with ashley, but i put her on hold for a sec and i totally forgot about her. so when i got back on, ashley didnt answer, but ray did and he told me that ashley got bored so she called him. me and ray ended up talking for a longggg time about stuff, and ray kept asking me if i liked him as more than a friend. and he told me that he liked me, and that i was way prettier than ashley. and ashley got mad. so about an hour later, ashley called ray again, and asked him if he liked me. turns out that his exact words were "idk, i mean shes cool and everything but i dont know yet." and he told her that he liked her. i hate it. but im falling for him again. i just LOVE the way he makes me feel. and i wanna be with him. but i cant help myself. im trying to build a brick around my heart, but im too easy. PLEASE HELP?? (link)
I think he's player and just wants to get with every chick. I say don't fall for him! He's using you to get to your friends! *gasp* I think he's low. And if you ever leave that guy, he will leave you for another girl and then he will say he still likes you when he doesnt just make you want him more and your heart is just going to get broken. If you look at the concept isnt that what he is doing now? So yeah, You like him, he says he likes you, he goes out with your friend, then he breaks up with your friend, he meets your other friend, he starts liking her, he says he likes you still, then he says he doesnt know if he likes you. I say he likes every girl he meets just so he can get with all of them and so on.


Well..i am dating this Guy and i really like him and he really likes me and we have kissed a couple of times.. just today he asked me when we would move up and freanch kiss! But the truth is i dont know how..what do i do? sense he already knows i dont know how. he still wants to freanch me..do i go along with him and let him freanch me and dont freach back? or what? plz help..
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First of all it's "French" not "freanch". Second of all it's not a hard thing to do. Just follow his lead.

And another thing is, are you ready? Do you really want to do french kiss him?

I learned this in Operation Keepsake last year, even though it didn't apply to me really, since they came too late haha. Anyway...

1. Holding hands leads to hugging.
2. Hugging leads to kissing.
3. Kissing leads to french kissing.
4. French kissing leads to the touching over clothes.
5. Touch over clothes leads to touching without the clothes. (or just some parts without clothes)
6. Touching without the clothes obviously leads to sex.

How far do you want to go? (Oh and all this stuff is mostly accurate unless those people are horny and all that stuff and skip a few of those things. haha)

Anyway hope this helped. People say I'm a great kisser, and my first time french kissing I just went along with it and I was better than the person. How funny is that. But yeah, it's funny how just kissing can lead to losing your virginity after a while or so.


ok i liked this guy in 7th grade... and now i'm in 8th grade and he asked me out... i don't like him anymore and (to tell the truth) he's kinda a geek! i know i shouldn't not go out w/him b/c he's a geek... it's b/c i don't like him... i was talking to my friends and they think that it must've taken a lot of courage to ask me that... and it'll probably break his heart if i turn him down... so would this be a good and easy way to let him down?

-right now i don't think i can handle a boyfriend w/volleyball, orchestra, and school because it'd be too hectic. i like you as my friend and i want to stay friends.. but nothing more-
would that be too harsh? (link)
No that wouldnt be too harsh at all. That's a perfect thing to say to him, I'm sure he will be just as happy to have you as a friend instead of nothing


I have a problem, I get feeelings for girls more then i do guys. No body knows because i've never told anyone. I just need to know am i a lesbian?
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Okay, you just can't ask someone "Am I a lesbian?" Okay, I'm a lesbian, and no one can really tell you if you are or not. If you are then you will know soon enough. And if you arent then well you arent. It's not a thing that anyone can tell you, only you can tell yourself if you are or not. Just because you have an attraction towards girls doesnt mean you are a lesbian. It could mean you're bisexual, or that you're straight and you just think girls are pretty. And just because you think girls are pretty and judge girls doesnt mean youre bi or a lesbian. So you cant just automatically think youre a lesbian. You have to experiment also. Have you been with a guy? Have you done anything with that guy? Have you been with a girl? Have you done anything with that girl? Did you like being with that guy/girl? Which would you rather prefer after that? Have you always been attracted to girls/guys?

Can you answer any of those questions..?
I'm not saying that your answer will tell you your sexuality, it will just help a little. Like I said before, you will know what you are at the right time and everything. But you should experiment...

Hope this helped.

~Zoe~


I'm 13/f and I just had my first kiss. Well... Sorta. Anyways we were at the mall and he pulled me aside and said "I love you, I think your beautiful" and he started making out with me. It was the best moment of my life but after about three seconds I got really nervous and I didn't know what to do so I sort of pushed him off a little and I hugged him and he said it's still okay and he loves me. I know he isnt upset but I feel bad because I really wanted to kiss him and I probably made him feel bad although he won't admit it and he says its fine we'll try again another time. He's coming over Saturday. Is there anything I can do to not be so nervous? Or advice on your first kiss? Thanks a bunch. =) (link)
Just go with it. You know? relax and just let it happen. It's very simple, nothing special you have to do. But if you're not ready then don't force it upon yourself because that's not a good thing to do. So just go for it if you're ready, and if not, then tell him. He should understand.



Ok, well I really like this guy..I mean REALLY! and I`m a freshmen..But anyways, ok he always tells me he loves me and all that, and that I'm the only one that makes him happy..etc, so like yeah, him and this girl that was SUPPOSEDLY my friend are "talking", ermm just like us. We like eachother, and tonight we went to a football game and she was all over him but I never saw him all over her, but now he's at her house watching movies and it's 12:20 AM! =(..Anyways, she ALWAYS bitches at him when we talk, or hug..etc, and well tonight he went to the game for her, but he came to me first, called her and said he was on her way, but never told her he was with me, Anyways, he went to hang out with her and I was fine with that because he said that he wasn't going to ditch me if I didn't want him to, but I said ok it's fine.. =/..And so yeah, I don't know what his problem is..Who he's going to pick, etc..And he's just so freggin cute and i love his personality, i can talk to him about anything and i love him to death and i always will..But anyways, should I give up on him? Or just keep liking him? But right now Im crying because I dont know what him and the other girl are doing and they left the football game early and have been alone for ahwile..IM SO CONFUSED! please help... :( :( :(

i`ll give MAJOR points if it's a good response... (link)
Don't give up on him if you love him. If he know's what's best for him, he will choose you. Just wait a little longer and see what happens. It seems to me that you would be a great girl for him. Maybe he is having a hard time trying to find a way to get with you and away from the other girl. You never really know. But all you can really do is wait. If you and him are meant to be then you will be with him.

Hope this helped a little.

*~Zoe~*




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