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Hey! My name's Bowman. I'm 17 years old, and live in Wales (UK). I'm a really friendly person, and I'll try to answer your questions as honestly and helpfully as possible.

I'm a pretty independant person. I try to question everything; sometimes this even includes my own faith (I'm a Christian), but I believe that questioning your life is the only way to better it.

I'm at Sixth Form college at the moment, doing my AS levels in English, History, ICT and Philosophy.

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last night I went to the school carnival with my boyfriend. He always has his arms around me and the absolute perfect boyfriend for me and I LOVE him to death. he cares about me and everything. anyway we where out side sitting on the play ground and it was dark after the carnival was over and everyone already went home. and we where making out. I mean I want to go farther but were only 13 and I don't want to get us into trouble like no bjs or anything past that. I don't know what to do. like at the carnival he would stand behind me and he kissed my neck. I liked it but he never did that before. I kiss him all over his face and I kissed him on his neck 2 or 3 times after he did it to me. But I want to do more still. I we would sit there and make out for like a bit but then I would always have to pull away cuase I can't hold my breath for that long. also what can I do to hold my breath longer? please help

Don't worry about holding your breath. Just breathe through your nose. And this may sound harsh, but at 13, are you really sure you want to go further than making out? If you love him enough then it can't be wrong, but just be absolutely sure before you go for anything more.

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ok well me and my gf just broke up and i just really want to be sad right now every one is all like u need to get happyer or w/e but i just really want to lay down and listin to sad music


so dose any one know any sad songs i could get

for instanse
tonight i want to cry-keith urban

kinda stull like that

thanx

Hmm... I know what you mean. Sometimes you just need to go ahead with being sad, because if you just bottle it all up then you just feel worse later on...

Anyway, sad songs!
How about Snow Patrol's "Chasing Cars"? I listened to it on the radio today, and it made me feel really sad...

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