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so there's this boy that i like. He knows I like him. Im confused though because he always looking at me and stuff. On myspace he don't wanna add me or talk 2 me. I know its just myspace but that bothers me. We do track together and when i talk 2 somebody he wants to know what im talking about. Like for example one time we were at a track meet and i asked this girl where the concession stands were and she told me and the boy i like was walking behind me and he asked her what i asked her. i know this because the girl said to him real loud no she just asked where the
concession stands! i didnt know he was behind me until i looked back because i thought the girl was talking to me but she wasnt she was talking 2 the boy i like. he's quiet and im shy so i dont really talk 2 him. but im confused so plz it would be helpful if u could help me out

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I've been with my boyfriend 3 years in June. We recently even won the "Cutest Couple" category in Senior Superlatives. A while back, maybe January, we had quite a large fight. It started when we were planning our senior trip to the beach, and I asked if he minded that we slept together in a bed (because we don't have sex, but we do everything else). He said he'd rather not, which was fine, so I simply asked why. He said it didn't "feel right" and that he wasn't ready to share a bed with my overnight, even though we take naps on our couches sometimes. So I said that, and it eventually lead to "I've had a confusing week, I don't want to hurt you", even "I'm not in love with you anymore". We both cried, almost broke up, etc. But I told him to give me another chance, and for a week, we were weird. But after that, things kept getting back to normal, and now, we're happier than we've ever been.

Now, here's the thing.. a few couples that have been dating around the same amount of years we have have been breaking up because they've gotten "bored", and so I tell him often that I don't want that to happen. His answer most of the time is "Yeah, a lot of people don't". Yeah, what the heck? I would think his answer would be "Me either, it won't happen to us" or something along those lines. When I tell him this, he says that should be "implied." Many of his answers to other questions are long these lines, and he tells me they are "implied" too. And another thing- I feel like I always have to say "i love you" first so he will say it back.

I need reassurance a lot, because of the fight we had. I love him more than anything, and he feels the same. Just the way he says those things makes me feel like he doesn't want to say what I think he should at this point in our relationship. Don't get me wrong- we are very much in love and we even talk about getting married every now and then. I just need to be reassured every now and then. I'm sorry if this is confusing. I just need advice- am I worrying way too much, or should these things be something to worry about?

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okays well im 14/f. i have been in alot of guy drama lately. i just got over this one guy i liked alot but hes a huge jerk. and then i met this other guy, but i found out hes a huge flirt and goes out with every girl he can get. so theres two guys in a row. then i stared talkin to this new guy. hes really nice and sweet. we talk alot, i just started hanging out with him not to long ago. hes not that cute, like the other two guys i dated before. they were really cute but both jerks. i dont think i have feelings for either of them anymore. im thinkin aobut likeing this new guy, i think he likes me back, but idkk what to do???? help please.

any advice plz and thank you :)

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