I am 18 years old and about to start college. I know that the world can be tough and that people can be cruel. I started this advice column to help all people. Age, sex or nationality does not matter to me. I just want to help people through their problems and be a shoulder to lean on when no one else is there. Whatever the topic is, I am certain I will have some great advice for you. Love, school, boys/girls, family, friends, work, PARENTS!!!, anything you want advice about. I have been through a lot and have had friends who have been through a lot. I know how things work. When you need a shoulder to cry on or hair advice for your big date tonight. I have it. All you need to do is ASKAMANDA!!!
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Ok, there's this guy who I met through my friend. She had a sweet 16th B-day party, and this guy was invited. I think he is her cousin's best friend. Anyway, I haven't seen him since the party, but lately, we started IMing on the computer. I got the screename from my friend. And he sent me all these emails telling me that he likes me. I like him back and we both wanna be in a relationship. The only problem is, my friend likes him to. He's told her that he only likes her as a friend and she knows this. I told her about everything and she says she doesn't mind and she thinks it's cute that we like each other and everything. I just don't know if it's right. Should I go out with him? I'm sooooooooooo confused. Lol. Thanx a bunch.
Btw, I'm a 15 y/o female. (link)
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No, dating a guy that your friend likes will only cause problems between the two of you. Now you can talk to your friend and tell her that you have feeling for this guy and see what she thinks. If she seems upset then it is definately a BAD idea. If she doesn't seem upset then she may be hiding her feelings from you. Wait a while and see how she acts towards you. hope i helped you. If your frienship doesn't mean that much to you guys, then go for it, but don't try to hurt her.
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hey okay im 14 and ive never really made out with a guy bc ive always been scared that im going to do it wrong...but like this coming weekend *tonights sunday and next saturday* im going to my bfs house and were going to be alone so i was wondering if you could tell me what ways to move my tonuge! please help!!! (link)
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when u are kissing a guy just follow his lead if u are unsure of what to do. there is no right way to kiss a person. if he is experienced at kissing he will lead. all guys kiss differently, so just relax and don't push. the secret is rolling your tongue lightly around his in a gentle motion. hope i helped. let me know.
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wow! this friday i lost my cell phone..and i went a lil crazi..i was at a teennight place (which is a place where u met ppl and dance and shyt like that) and i was askin every1 if they saw my phone and i asked this one realli hot guy and i was like heyyy do u have my phone..and he was like no and i was like are u sure???...and he was like u can check me and i was like ok so i lifted up his shirt..OMG He has a 6pac.. (link)
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No you are not a slut. Maybe a little wild, but not slutty. If you really feel that bad about it tell your boyfriend about it and see what he says. It is only fair that you let him know what happened. You know that if he secretly did the same thing, you would want to know about. Loved ones don't keep secrets from other loved ones. The worst thing he can do is tell you that it is over. But if you are deeply and passionatly in love, things will work themselves out naturally. It's not like you slept with this random guy, you just made out with him. Flings are totally natural. Kissing is not sex. A person is only a slut when they repeatedly have sex with random guys. Tell your man, he deserves to know the truth. Hope it works out.
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ok im 14 and going to be a freshman. i really like this guy still that i went out w/ for 4 months (which is a loooong time for me) at the beging of last year. i broke up w/ him cause i found this other guy who i thought i loved he ended up screwing me over, but anyway i hurt this guy a lot when i broke up w/ him. we couldnt even talk to each other for like 3 months. now we r really close friends and we have recently admitted we like each other still. but i dont know if i should go out w/ him because... well... im afraid im going to hurt him again. i have a problem w/ comitment i guess. (link)
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Honey I am 18 and I have the same problem. COMMITMENT!!! Guys just seem to demand answers from us all the time. If you like him tell him how you are feeling, but let him know the situation at hand. Tell him that you are afraid of commitment. If he is really into you he will understand how you feel, and together you both can work through the problem. If he doesn't understand and just wants to be persistant, then you don't need that. You are only 14 years old. There are plenty of guys in the world. Some will break your heart, others will stick around until you break their heart. Love is blind. It hurts but at the same time it feels good because you have someone there with you who cares and holds you. If this guy wants to be with you he will wait until the time is right. If you guys aren't meant to be together, the power of love will break you apart. Take it slow. Things will work out okay for you and your friend.
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