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me & my boyfriend had just broken up, he said because he doesn't want me anymore.. which really hurt me, i started crying for 2 hours straight. then.. later on, he wanted to get back together with me.. but i told him it was kind of too late. and then i said if he wanted to, then i think it's best to be single for a while first. and he asked if we can still have the "no talking to opposite sex promise".. because he's scared he'll loose me to another guy. and i told him that i think it's best if we can talk to the opposite sex to be able to trust each other. and he said "forget it, we're not gonna get back together then." and it's very frustrating, because i need some time to think it over if i should or not, and he rushes me. and then, he got mad at me because i added guys on myspace, when we went single.. because i first saw myself off of his, and had a girl comment him. so i thought he added all the girls back, then i added all the guys back. and he got mad at me when we were single.. and he told me that he was gonna delete me out of his life and burn everything and etc. and then he said all of these harsh things to me and stuff. and then he called me so i had to pick up, and he was crying.. and he said "why'd you do this to me?" and he also said "i hate my life because of you" and all this stuff, which made me cry because he was crying really hard. and he asked to start over with me, but i told him i needed some time to think about things, and he finally gave me time to think it all through. and he said it was his fault for breaking up with me in the first place.
and yesss.. we did have alot of difficulties in our relationship, that's why i said we should be single for a while till we're ready to start over.. and to talk to the opposite sex while we wait, but he doesn't wanna do the opposite sex.
so what should i do? i don't know what to do anymore.. i'm very confused. PLEASE HELP ME! i'm stuck in between. i wanna be with him, but yet.. yeahh.. (link)
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Well you see, he's very controlling and protective of you and your life. Which isin't right because as I said before, YOUR life and YOU. Not him. You should be able to talk to the opposite sex. I think that if you really like him that much, give him another chance. But only if he agrees to certain circumstances. Make a list of the things that went wrong in your relationship and write down how they can be fixed. Include the not talking to the opposite sex thing because that is waayy out of line. I mean its ridiculous. If you two really like eachother that much, you should be able to trust eachother. It's not like your going to jump this guy while saying hi to him. Honestly lol.
So make a list of everything that went wrong and sit down with your boyfriend/ex-boyfriend and fix the issues. Tell him that you will only be with him again if he agrees to fix the problems that were in your last relationship. If he refuses then he isin't good enough for you. Don't let it bother you and don't let yourself break down. Just grab a couple of girlfriends and go to a party or club. Meet someone that will treat you how you deserve to be treated and that you actually enjoy being with all the time. Though if he agrees to the circumstances (like he should) go for it. Be his girlfriend again. But if he starts getting all up-tight again, break it off. That means it just wasn't meant to be.
Hope this helps :)
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