Hey I'm Anjela I'm from CA livin it up...started the site so I can give some advice to people. I've been to peer counceling classes so I know how to handle the "hard" questions about mostly anything...so ask away.
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I don't usually confront boys about how they feel about me. i've known this one boy for about 3 weeks, and we've talked every single day and before it used to be like we were rushing to talk to each other. we had amazing conversations.
this week, there has been a decline. i can tell that we both don't really put our all into conversations, that there are bigger priorities in terms of people to talk to. so i called him, and asked him what he thought we were, just friends?
he told me "yeah.. we're just friends.. but whatever happens..happens.." "of course we'll be friends, but down the line, i don't know."
what is that supposed to mean? can you break it down for me, because when it happens to me i have such a hard time understanding exactly what he means by that! (link)
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It's really self explanatory...whatever happens down the line...happens. It means wait it out don't rush into anything. He obviously doesn't know what to do yet...if you rush into things, your relationship is most likely goin to turn out bad...like you said there will be a decline after a few weeks
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I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?
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No, the I Love You is enough I think.
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I have this guy friend who i never EVER thought as a boyfriend but i also have a boyfriend that i love very much well today my guy friend wrote me a note and gave it to me between classes it said " Would you go out wit me and if the answer is no keep it between us 2" I don no what to tell him and i need some help NOW!!!!
Yours truly, confused (link)
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well if you have a boyfriend and you never though of this guy as one...then tell him "id prefer if we remain friends...besides i have a bf"
~Anjela
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How can you advice me if i have a steady single boyfriend and still have a relationship with a married man. Please i need advice! (link)
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Advice about what? Thats a very general question...figure out who treats you better and end it with the other person.
~Anjela
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The guy i like never talks to me and he said he likes me. Last year V-day he gave my a care bear and he still likes my really good friend. And now i think i ishould give him back the care bear, he only gave it to me because of cameron made him and i told him he shouldn't give me a care bear. what should i do? (link)
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You need to confront him about it..youve got nothing to lose. If he supposedly likes you than you'll know that there's time for advancement..if he doesn't than oh well it's not like he's the only guy you'll ever meet. Getting him hooked on you should be the least of your concerns. As for the carebare..whatever you feel like..if you feel that you really don't want to hold on to it than just give it back..i think it'll stir something up in his mind.
~Anjela
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well heres the deal i dont know what 2 get my boyfriend and i dont want him to get me something and me not get him something. So what should i get for him for Valentines day????????
oxoxoxox,
Confused (link)
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depends on what he likes...CD's? Jewelry? Clothes?
~Anjela
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I really like this guy that i have known sence i wuz 3 i havn't seen him in like 5 yrs. now we go to the same school. i see him every once in a while but never get the chance to talk. What should i do? tlk to him? or what just tell me wut i should do or how i should feel
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No one can tell you how to feel..if you think you like him so much than go ahead and talk to him..pull him aside or something..and if nothing happens than oh well atleast you know now.
~Anjela
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is true high school love possible? i was just wondering b/c it seems like for so many ppl it never works... (link)
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It doesn't matter wether you're in high school or wherever..it's all based on how you and your "partner" handle things. It's true that while you're in high school you're not gonna be mature about things especially your love life but same thing happens even when you're out of high school...all I can tell you is you've got PLENTY of time and high school love should be your least concern.
~Anjela
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