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Hey my name is Debby you can talk to me because im a cool person&&im very understanding.if you have any questions or ever need advice you can IM, email me or write me the question. Im always here and i ALWAYS respond to everyone.


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so theres this guy that i've liked sence september and he was dating my best friend (she didnt know i like him) and she broke up with him yesterday and that was right after she found out that i liked him and now i think she dumped him because of me. but earlier he said i was pretty and i told him i thought he was cute but hes totally in love with my best friend i want to go out with him really bad but i dont know if he likes me and im thinking my best friend dumped him because of me. i dont know what to do. does he like me? did my best friend dump him because of me? please help. (link)
I dont think your friend dumped him because you liked him.. because i ddont think any gurl wud ever do that.. but i have the same situation i liked tha guy since september(but except he didnt go out with my friend)he sends me mixed messages all the time i cant even figure it out.. but i thin khe could like you.. you have to test the waters and take a chance with him...try and flirt with him..unless your friend has a problem with it.. u shouldnt ever lose a friendship with a best friend or friend...
hopefully I helped!

xoxDebby


ok im 16 years old and like most girls these days i've already lost my virginity. All the guys around my school know it. And thats all they want from me. Im not the kind of person to do that. I've always had a good rep. i have alot of friends and i make pretty good grades and a cheerleader and a nice person but boys around school dont believe that. They hear one thing and they wont give me the chance to prove them wrong. Now im starting to lose some friends over this. Ppl talk about me bein a hoe and stuff at school and im not REALLY im not. Ive had sex with only one guy and they think im a slut and everything else. How can i get my rep back to the person they knew b4? (link)
ok..im gunna b honest i dont kno this is a really tough one..one time this gurl told eveyone at my school that i gave oral to this guy and every tried to get with me...but im not down with that... so now at my skool im tha bitch with the attitude and a head giving hoe... but the way i got my rep bac to clean was jus ignorin tha people who ask me to do stuff with them and my fake friends who dropped me because they are suppose to stick with you through thick and thin...you shouldn't let thme ruin your rep. if you've only had sex wit one guy.. i never knew that meant you were a hoe.. i guess tha bitches who had sex with 2 guys are whores and sluts! lol

hope this helped xoxDebby Muahsz


well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
My ideas are just to hang out next to a beach if you can at sun down that would be really romantic for you guys it just might rekindle you guy's relationship!


What do you do when you've been dissed by the one guy you really really like? You tell him something and your happy and he wants you to stop being happy because he's annoyed. Is that being dissed or is he just stating his mind?
Need to know,
Rose Masaki (link)
Well that basiclly happened to me when i was in love with this guy. Don't waste your time on him he just a loser and needs to get a life. Sooon you'll find someone who is heead over heels with you.


I have a boyfriend, David. His ex-girlfriend is my best friend. I made the mistake of allowing him to come over while she was over. I know that he has no feelings for her what-so-ever, but she likes him. She was hanging all over him. I couldn't get her to stop.Now she is saying how she wants him back, she won't get him, but how do I get her to leave us alone without being mean? (link)
Well not to be mean to her just tell her that he's yours and he likes you. And talk to him and ask him if he still has feelings for her.


My boyfriend will not be getting me a chritmas gift this Christmas. I have already purchased his gift and given it to him because he needed it early (an expensive snowboarding coat). I am trying not to be upset. Times are tough, money's tight, the problem is he spent $200 on his mom's CD player, and bought his dad a forutne in hunting gear and we went out all weekend and he had no money problems then. Sunday we went shopping and he mentioned that he looked at his account and he's going to have to write a bad check so that he get his sister a gift. I told him not to worry about me, he says he's really sorry (he's really beating himself up over it) and that he'll get me something great the next paycheck, which won't be until January 5th. Am I being stupid and girly because my feelings are hurt? (link)
Well don't get mad. he's your boyfriend give him some time to get things together; If you give him time I think he'll do something really specal for you.


Hears the deal. I am into musical theatre, and once doing a show i met this guy. But, i really miss him , and obviously i really liked him. I've tried to see him a couple times but it hasn't worked out. HELP!

~A sad one~ (link)
Maybe he doesn't feel the same way you feel. Try backing off and see what happens.




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