Well Im a 13 year old gal who is madly in love with Jeffrey Molina and loves to help people out with friendship or relationship problems. I've been through a lot in the relationship field so don't be shy to ask me a question.
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OK well i was invited to Cedar point with my boy friend, and i really wanted to go, but i was going to be up North, and had to say no. So instead he invited his best friend who so happens to be my best friend as well. Well it so happens that about a year ago he really liked my best friend, and asked her out several time, but she always declined. I'm a little worried that by spending a day with my best friend might ,ake him realize again that he still likes her, even tho she has a boyfriend that she loves. Should i be worried? We've only been going out for about a week, and i don't know if i should worry. Am i being stupid by worring? (link)
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It's completly normal to be worried about what might happen. But if you know you can trust him then everything should be fine. And if you know that he really truely loves you then you have absolutly nothing to worry about
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ok, well i have had a HUGE crush on this girl thats one of my friends and shes a year older than me. well when she went into high school i didnt talk to her much, but now im goin into high school shes talkin to me more. well ive had this chrush on her for over a year and a half, but i never had the courage to ask her out. well i found out she has a boyfired now and idk what to do. im 14 btw and shes 15 if that helps. please help me. (link)
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Tell her how you feel about her. You never know she might feel the same way she just hasn't realized it. The same thing happened to me. I was friends woth this guy for 3 years and he told me he liked me when I had a boyfriend and I realized I liked him too... The same might happen to you
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Alright, so im 15, a female, and i think i might be gay. im still 'exploring' my options, if that makes any sense. but i want to let my friends know that there is a possibility that i could be, but everytime i get close to tellin them, ill start out with something about one of my gay friends, and they are automatically grossed out. how could i hint to them that i could be, without losing their friendship, yet not being to revealing? (link)
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If they really are your true friends they should respect your decision to be gay and wont think anything different of you, because if you really think about it youre they same person.
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my boyfriend and i have known eachother for a year but we have only been dating for 4 months...we liked eachother longer than that but its a long story but anyways, almsot every girl i know likes him and i get really jealous which starts fights because i am so scared he is going to leave me, but i dont know how to stop being so jealous..i love him and he says he loves me but i feel like one day he is going to realize he can do better and i will be left by myself. i also have really bad trust issues because while i was at the beach about a month ago he went over to his ex's house and he said they didnt do anything but after i asked him if he went he lied and said he didnt which makes me wonder if he lies about other stuff so i just dont know when i can trust him, i have started trusting him morebut its just really hard whenso many girls like him...so how can i start trusting him and get over my jealousy? (link)
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Personally I think you are alittle insecure about yourself. You shouldn't be. If he chose you over everyone else. That must mean something right. For the trust issue: He's going to have to earn your trust. Sit down and talk to him about it. Set some guidelines. If he really loves you like he says he does then he will understand where you are coming for and respect your decision.
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