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well I have been talking to this guy and he asked if I wanted to be his gilfriend. But he has only seen pics of me that are like old and crap and dont even look like me but im nervous to meet him what do I do?

it depends on how old you are..if your a teenager i certainly wouldnt go meet some guy you just met online..he could be some 50 year old physco guy...soooo ummm if your older i would maybe call him first?

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okay so here it is. i wanna break up with my boyfriend and its Friday and we go back to school Tuesday. Hes suppose to give me my christmas present at school. Should i break up with him on the phone tonight or tomorrow that way he doesnt have to give me my present or should i break up with him on Tuesday. i need major help my mind is going crazy.

break up with him before you go back, otherwise your just using him for the gift. and it is really embarassing to get dumped in school. give him a couple of days to get over the whole thing.

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Ok there's this girl she's my old girlfriend and i still like her but i don't know if she likes me and i like love her should i ask her back out or just let it go

if you like the girl GO FOR IT. the worst that could happen is her say no. i think you should ask the girl out.

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I know this is a dumb question, but I've never kissed a guy and I don't know how. It always freaks me out cause I think I'm gonna gonna mess up. Help?

its not a dumb question to ask...no question asked is dumb your dumb when you dont ask. i cant really tell you how to do it. but i was scared about my first kiss to, though if you really love the guy and he loves you it wont matter. just give it a try, who knows you could be the best kisser ever LOL
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How do i know if my bf is just using me?
We went out last year for like almost 9 months but i broke it off because i started at a new school and i couldnt handle the relationship too. He begged me to take him back and after 3 months of getting settled and really missing him...i did. But it just doesnt seem the same anymore. Now when we do see each other all he wants to do is make out, feel me up, get down my pants. Ya know. Its not like we're hanging out. Its like i'm just there for sexual stuff. What should i do? Is he using me?
female, 16.

if you feel that there is no real love in the relationship then maybe you should talk to me. sadly it sounds to me like he is using you....try to have a long talk with him and look deep in your heart.

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OK, I said yes to this guy when he asked me out. Now, I don't want to go out with him.. so I'm going to, well not exactly dump him cuz we didn't go out by tell him I don't want to go out with him. I still want to be really really good friends with him. How do I say that I don't want to go out with him?

thats a really hard thing, you never should of said yes cause now hes gonna be hurt. try to explain that you dont want to ruin a great friendship ive done that lots and its not a fun thing. if this friendship dont go over well or hes to hurt try to wait a bit then talk to him one on one.
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Hey! ok i have a crush on my friends Cousin. I dont know if he likes me though. We went out before and i broke up with him. i haven't seen him in a while but when i did see him i liked him again. i dont want to go back out with him but yet i do. i dont want things to get weird between me and my friend if i do date him and we break up. do you know what i mean? What should i do?

well maybe you should ask your friend how they would feel if you two went out. then go to the cousin and try to become good friends and connect a bit before you move into anything more. BUT check with your friend first. friends are more important!

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HI, I thought that my bf and me were over, but recently my friend lets call her "sushi" said that he missed me and wanted me to call him. I still sorta like him but it's a long distance relationship, he goes to a different school and he's never online. Should I go along with this reltionship or actually tell him it's over. And no u can't tell him for me. (like at the begining of the year i wanted to break up with him for me)What should i do? ~Bam Margera Lover~

dear Bam Margera Lover,

your question is not a very common question. but ive gone through long distance relationships and i find out the guy has been cheating on me the whole 3 years we dated. in my opinion personally i dont link long distance relationships. especially if you haven't talked in a while. i think its best that you move on, unless you really love him. then you need to find a way to talk to him one on one not throught he sushi person.
hope this helps!
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What if you are really shy and you cant go up and talk to the boy you like? How could you over come that fear? i can never talk to the boys i like with out getting nervous or scared.

my best advice on this kind of topic is just to try the best you can to go talk to the boy. maybe try to have a little more self confidence in yourself. find somethings you have in common and maybe eventually the connection will happen.
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hey...ok i like this boy and half my friends say he likes me and half dont. then sometimes i get the feeling he does and then sometimes i dont. I dont know what to believe. What do you think i should believe? My closests friends say he likes me but then other people say he doesn't.

If you like someone and half of the people are telling you that he likes you and half the opposite. Especially if you have the occasional feeling that he likes you. Maybe before you decide what to belive you should, step up and say "hello" to him. The worst that will happen is maybe him not liking you...but you won't know until you try..right?
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