Q: Ok so my ex-boyfriend Matt was a sweetie and I really actually felt that I loved him and he said that he hasn't felt that way about any one before and we are both 13. The thing is tho that he dumped me for his ex-girl friend because he thought that I was cheating on him with his friend. But I wasnt and I was so upset that he broke up with me so I wanted to get back at him so I did by going out with his best frinend..but I braly like this guy you know I miss Matt very much even tho he put my heart though the worst I still love him with all of it! but I dont wanna love him cuz I know he will hurt me agian but its hurting not being with him! What do I do?? Plz help!

Q: im 14 there is this guy (i really like him) i talk to online and he was invited to a party where me n my friend n him were like the oldest and then the rest of the kids were our siblings n he didnt talk to me at all n all he did was talk to his lil bro also he like never talks to me at church and after the party we talked about the party and everything it was weird lol what does this mean?

Q: I love this boy, but my parents hate his parents and they don't want me to talk to him. We go to the same school and that makes it even harder not to talk to him. His parents didn't tell him anything and he is always trying to get close to me. What should i do?????
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Q: ok theres this guy that asked me out i met him BEFORE MYSPACE. now he asked me out on myspace and way before he said do you want to hang out sometime this week but that was like 2 monthes ago and i asked if he wanted to hang out again.
it said he read it but no reply. and i left a bulletin saying something about this guy and this other guy because i asumed we wernt going out. and he replyed to that saying..that boy you like better be me. and im like. yeah it is lol. WICH WAS A HUGE MISTAKE. so what do you guys think. is he playing me? i mean it seems like he dosnt want to do anything. if he asked me out why dosnt he talk to me? PLEASE HELP ME IM CONFUSED.

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Q: okay, i know this is gonna sound like all those other stupid guy questions, but i have to ask. I like two guys. One is my age, which is 13, and he is tall, cute, and athletic. The other is 16, he's not really that good-looking but i think he's really funny and cool. I'm a little afraid because he might expect me to go further than i feel comfortable. I don't know who to "go after". Could someone help? thanks in advance!

Q: 13/m. I have a sister who is 14. Where we live, stuff happens slowly. It's not like in NYC where everyone loses their virginity at, like 13. My sister finally got her first boyfriend. I'm not too worried about that. But, they're taking everything too fast: one week, they're dating. Another week, they're holding hands. This may not seem like much to you, but where I live it is. And now yesterday---they've been together 2 months, tops---they both had their first kiss.

I've been trying to get more info, but she's really private about this. I asked her if it was just a peck or if she made out, and she said that it was about 5 seconds. Is that long for a first kiss? And I asked her when, and she showed me a ring that she got from him. Unfortunately, I suck at taking hints, so I still don't get it.

She doesn't want to tell anyone about anything that happens. My other sister and my parents are still completely unaware that they've done so much as hold hands, and she doubts she'll tell them about kissing any time soon.

So, I was just wondering, is this too fast, am I worrying too much, will she be turning into a sex-obsessed slut any time soon, and how can I get her to communicate more? "Why do you need to know?" she asks. Well, I intend on getting a girlfriend this year, and I'm gonna have to learn somehow, right? No smartass answers. Thanks! =)

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