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hello, my name is nina. i am 21yrs old, and i have lots to share with you. i have been through most of what people ask here, and what i haven't been through, i have enough compassion and understanding to help you with your problems. i love to volenteer, and i love to help people. my modo is "love finds those who take their time in searching." i also am a believer in God, but i do have a balence, i am very open and understanding to all situations, and i never judge. if you would like to get to know me more, just email me. enjoy life, forgive others, and keep smiling.
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Im 16/f and my cousin has cancer. He is 8 years old and has only 10% chance of living. The cancer started in his legs and now is in his back. He has tumors in his legs and one by his heart. His back bones are disinagrating(spelling) and today we found out that the cancer ate his leg bone away and now his leg is broke.
This is so hard for me. But im a cheerleader and was thinking about having a carwash for him, giving his parents all the money, even if its only 100$. Do you think thats a good idea? And does anyone have any ideas to raise money. We are doing a poker run and a golf thing. And almost all the money for those thigns are going to him. Any ideas that I can do? Please help. thank you!
you are all ready doing a wanderful job, and i'm sure he is very greatful. just try to keep his spirits up. get the town to pray for him, and to let him know that they are praying and thinking of him. when you are terminaly ill, the most hardest thing to face isn't death, it is the fear of dying alone and leaving the people you love behind. he can all ready see that you love him very much, so just tell him everyday, and if you wanna raise more money for his family, keep doing what your doing. get it in the news paper if you haven't all ready. set up donation slots all over towns for people to donate, and just remember that when he is gone, he is gonna know how much compassion he left in the word, and it all started because of you, and he will know his family is in good hands, and so is he. i will pray for him and for you and your family, and i wish you the best in raising money, and if you could possibly post on here or my coloumn any places i could donate and if there is any way i could help you riase money, let me know. i will be happy to. Good luck, and God bless. and remember to keep on smiling!
nina :)
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So earlier today i spent the day with my boyfriend and we messed around a bit and we took a shower together.we were in there for about 10 mins maybe? and I started to get light headed and started seeing lights and couldn't hear well.So I told him I needed to sit down.I felt like throwing up So I sat down by the toilet.It was really weird.Before I passed out while my sisters friend was cutting my hair.It was weird.I eventually threw up.Can anyone tell me why this happened.I'm so concerned now.Any ideas on what could have caused this?
i would definitly go see a doctor. it could be a number of things. it could just be the heat, or it could be the excersion from sex, it could be your blood pressure is too high, or is too low. or your dehydrated. it could be anemic dissorder, or some kind of other dissorder. i'm not a doctor, but i looked it up and these are some of the possibilities i found that are linked to passing out. your best bet is to start drinking more water and kinda taking an easy, until you go to the doctors, and make sure you do. i hope everything is fine, and comes back normal. Good luck, and keep smiling.
nina :)
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So i am 17 male(not that it matters)
At the start of grade 11 i got sick for a long time 2 years to be exact. I could not go to school or anything and it really screwed my life. It is a genetic back disorder called spondylothesis and the on set of IBS( irritable bowel syndrome) separately they would have been annoying but manageable but together they slowed my healing. during this time i got really bored. But now to the problem after 2 years i wore a brace, did physiotherapy and changed my life style and i am better( or at least the best i will get). I am now back at school kind of. But i have lost my motivation during the 2 years of not doing anything at school all my friends have graduated and i lost contact with people outside of school (not that there were many). So basically i am having trouble getting up to go in the morning and have no idea where my life is going. Sitting in pain for 2 years stuff stops mattering Money,House,Great Job that stuff is pointless. I know i am a little depressed so don't say go to a therapist because i am of clear mind and body(well i guess crazy people say that too). I don't expect a answer that will magically change everything but another point of view couldn't hurt.
Thanks for reading DJCODE6
honestly, being sick does set you back form the world. i have been sick all my life and it keeps me from being able to do alot of things. and i get really descouraged also. but the trick to help give you motivation is that all though your illness did set you back a bit, now is your chance to prove to everyone in your life that nothing holds you back from doing the things in life that matter most. don't let your illness unable you to be successful, let that be the reason why you try harder. because when you were sick, you were pretty week, and tired. but now is your chance to be strong. not just physicly, but spiritaully more so. use this problem and tell yourself that those two yrs of healing gave you more straighth to accomplish your dreams. now is the chance to find something you enjoy, and hold on to it. My advice to you, is to go out there and live your life, like nothing ever held you back in the first place. I wish you all the happiness in the world, and remember to keep on smiling!
nina :)
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Ok I have anemia to be more specific iron deficency but I take this pill and whatever but I feel so weak and tired during the day and dizzy should i go on a different pill? also I don't eat that much meat is that the reason? what foods should I eat?
it is possible that the pill you are on is not strong enough for the type of anemia you have. you might consider asking your doctor for another prescripton or possibly if b twelve or other anemic shots would be best. or possibly reconsider your diet. and yes, meat is a very important factor in keeping your iron level up. it is a very good source of iron. also, drnk plenty of water. well, i will pray that your anemia gets straightened up. take care of your self, get plenty of sleep, and remember to keep smiling.
nina :)
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