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Q: how do get rumors to go away....i just had a huge ass rumor started about me...but the thing is its true...just not ne more...i don't want my entire scool to think shitty about me over a mistake a made a while back...wat do i do??i rate high
you cant really get rid of rumors, but like when someone brings it up tell them its not true and you would apprecate it if they would stop talking about you. also i just learned something you will be much happier when you learn to not care about what other people think of you. hope i helped **TINK**

Q: I've liked this guy for like, seriously, a REALLY long time, I mean we've been friends for longer than I can remember. A couple years ago my cousin was visiting from another state and I was takin her to hang out w. me and a few of my friends (including the guy i like). Now let me get this straight, I told her how much I liked him and how much he meant to me. Well, they meet each other and they decide that hey they like each other, so they start to go out (yea long distance n everything) and i'm like seriously, devastated, you don't understand how much i care for this guy. They broke up after awhile but i have never really been the same w. my cousin since. about a year after that happened, my guy started liking me, and he told me and so we dated for a few weeks and did some stuff n my cousin got soo pissed at me, and i think that i have a right to do what i please, considering she did like, almost hte exact same to me! even though i wasn't doing it to piss her off, i did it cause i really really like this boy. Well, me and my boy still talk alot, and he says that in a few years (i'm 14, he's 15) he thinks that we should get together again, but he doesnt want to right now, and i understand that. My cousins coming into town this weekend. I have plans to see a movie w. my guy and a bunch of my other firends and my mom told me i have to take my cousin, n i'm soo afraid that she and him will start likin each other again. what do i do.!??!
i dont think your cousin has a right to be mad i mean she had her chance and plus she went out with him knowing you liked him. i think you should talk to your mom about this one. hope i helped **tink**

Q: Well I like this guy lets call him "Shawn", well we have all the same classes except one and well I havent talked to him ever! Please tell me someways to get him to notice me a little more than the other girls in class? (like what do you guys like in girls and such)

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well sweets. most guys like to see a girl smile. so wear something eye catching. And talk to him and remember always smile. my guy friends tell me when they see a girl frown it makes them think that the girl dont like them. and it turns them off so keep your head up and smile. and just talk to him hope i helped let me know how it goes. **TINK**

Q: Hi! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this girl (Anna) and she was so sweet. She's been new before so she knows how it feels! But anyways, she came up and talked to me in 1st period and was like r u in journalism w/ me? and so she striked up a convo. Then the next day she asked me to go walk around w/ her before class so I wasn't in class all my myself. Then after that we started writting notes back and forth a lot! She even hooked me up w/ this guy I like a lot! I feel really close to her, we talk about stuff that normally I wouldn't feel comfy sharing and I think its the same w/ her! She has lots and lots of other friends but I'm not sure about 1 thing! I know she's my best friend but am I her's and how do I know if I am!?!?!
It sounds like you may be her best friend, but the best way to tell if you are her true best friend is ask her. Just tell her how you feel, tell her that she is your best friend and you wanna know if you are hers. tell me how it goes **Tink**

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Hi my name is Sasha Amber LeAnn Lawrence. I am 18 years old. I will try to give the best advice possible. I dont know everything in the world, but i will give the best advice i possibly can. I am going to be upfront with you and tell you what i really think im not going to candy coat it and tell you what you want to hear just because that is what you want to hear.

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