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hey i am a normal person like you and every other i go through day to day issues and well i feel like i can dish out some decent advice if needed and would like to help others a wont be harsh il tell you exactly what you need to here but in the way a would myself deal with the problem if i was in the same situation and hopefully this advice may help you i am new to this so just getting into the swing of things and well i hope to recieve your feedback and ratings on my advice and i hope resolve your issues with the advice you recieve on here .
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i like this guy and he likes me but he's really talkative and hyper all the time and im usually talkative around people im comfortable with but around people i havent been around for a while i get shy. for some reason i dont feel comfortable around him so im really quiet and shy around him... what should i do to start talking more and feeling more comfortable around him? a lot of the times i also don't know how to respond to him so theres an awkward silence... what should i do then?
just relax and take it one step at a time i wouldnt force yourself to talk more if your just not comfy with it say to him you like him lots and stuff just that it takes time to settle in with new people and explain how sometimes you dont know what to say to him cause you like him so much and your just a little shy am sure he will understand honesty is the best policy if your wanna get a relationship with this guy just be yourself dont change who you are hope this helps.
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Sometimes It feels like I'm the only one trying in my relationship with my boyfriend. He lacks in calling me & texting me & he often forgets about everything. He says he cares about me , that he wants to make sure I'm happy but instead of being happy I'm upset almost every day & I getting sick of bitting my tounge and prettending like everythings fine when in reality it isn't. He's in college & I understand college is diffrent from highschool but it feels like I'm his sidechick . I know he loves me and I'm certain he's not cheating on me he's just really busy. I've had these conversations with him & have often tried telling him how I feel. But sometimes he makes me feel like he seriously does not care..I just don't know what to do anymore I really don't want to look at leaving him as an option I care a lot for him and I really want to see us work out..how can I express myself more to him in a way that will get him to listen?
take him out of his comfort zone where you would usually comfront him go out make a night of it and then at the end gently break the ice and speak to him and let him know how you feel and explain how you know hes busy and stuff but let him realise hw its affecting you and how much you care for him and tell him hw much little fings like fone calls and stuff make you feel loved and hw you miss them and even if he doesnt do it all the time once and a while would be nice because you love him so dearly and just like to know he s around for you and how he shoodnt forget the little stuff cause it means so much hope this helps.
so i like this boy in the year above me in school an he knows i like him but he doesnt no that i love him because i do love him. i really wont to tell him how i feel about him but im scared that he will just laugh an tell all his friends an they will just laugh at me as well. i thiguh about maybe tellin him on msn because i could mever do it face to face, but i just really dont no what to do im scared. please hellp me :'(
well i get what you mean its hard to express feelings but under no circumstances should you do it by msn or any other messaging network as he can save conversations and show others and you fear may become a reality and he would laugh it up with his mates if he doesnt like you back best thing to is get him on his own and speak to him and let him no that you like him a lot but do not mention the word love as that makes some guys run a mile and it would maybe freak him out best possible move is face to face comfrontation and avoid having an audience that way he has no proof what so ever you said a word to him . :)
at parties how do i get guys to want to dance with me? yuh know like when they want to get a girl to dance with them they just go behind her and start dancing .. well they dont do that to me and then there dancing with my friends and im dancing alone how do i change that
there is nothing wrong with dancing your self you just need to pluck up the courage and say wanna dance and then the more confident you get you will notice the more people will dance with you i cant dance a stitch myself and well that doesnt stop me you go girl and you dance with who ever you wanna dance with and if they say no well the loss is theres cause am sure there losing out on a good dance partner .