Well I'm a guy and I've been referred to as the High School Hitch by some of my classmates. I'm 16 years old. Ask me anything about your relationships or problems and I will do my best to answer them to the best of my ability.
E-mail: rangerrod1231@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: houston
Age: 16
Member Since: January 17, 2008
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ok so i like this guy his name is jeremiah
well he has a girlfriend and i hang out with both
of them a lot.Jeremiah even rides my bus but lately ive sorta gotten a crush on jeremiah i know its wrong to like hime b/c he has a girlfriend but he's so sweet , and the last time he had a girlfriend i sorta ruined it because
his old girlfriend was using him bc if she didn't
stay with him her mom wouldn't let her date til she was 18.i messed it up cuz i told him i couldn't help it i wasn't goingto tell him until
i looked at his innoscent face and it made me break down and spill everything. I mean he's like the sweetest guy ive ever known and he doesn't desirve what the girls he's went out this year have done to him.Also me and my friends have been tinking that his current girlfriend the one he's going out with right now is just going out with him because she just wants someone she can call her boyfriend.So my question is what am i supposed to do to not feel this way i mean i don't want to break them up like i did the girlfriend befor . I'm so confused about him . Help !!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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It's not wrong to like him, it's just normal and you dont have to break them up..if you feel that you're gonna break them up then dont say anything to him. Try talking to her and seeing what else she's about. If the only reason she's wants to have someone to call b/f, then she has a slight problem within herself. She must be in a group of some kind, that she needs to have a b/f to be accepted. She needs someone to validate her being and her being wouldn't be validated w/o a b/f. Then talk to Jeremiah. Now wouldn't it be better to break them up and spare his feelings earlier rather than waiting around while she leads him on and he gets very hurt later?
Cliche Time: If it wasnt meant to be, then it wasnt meant to be.
Hope that helps...
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so ive been going to a private school my entire life, ever since i was 3. and its been the same school too. ive also known the kids in my grade for about 11 years and weve gotten really close. but this school only goes up to 8th grade. last year was my last year at that school and graduating it was the saddest thing ever. ive never cried so much. so this year, [in september] i switched over to a public highschool, which is completely different by the way. only two of my friends from my old school came with me, but there not in any of my classes. so i had to learn the hard way and make completely new friends from scratch. it also sucks because these kids have known eachother since middle school and they already have their own groups. well the first month of school i thought id fit it in good and make a lot of new friends, but i thought wrong. its been about 5 months now and so far ive gotten 2 close friends, and about 5 friends i just talk to but were not close..and there not really the coolest of the bunch..[there not losers, but idk.] and sure i have those people i smile at in the hall, but thats nothing. i hardly talk to them. its just been really hard for me and i dont think anyone seems to understand. in all of my classes ive got one person to talk to, but still..there not my friends, really..only some of them. its complicated but sometimes i get embarssed when people see me talking to those people, since im new i dont want to be put into the loser catagory. and u know i dont think im a loser. this may sound conceited a little..but i should be talking to people that are better than that..you know. its hard to explain really but right now life is just ughh im not that happy with it right now. i havent been in a good mood for a really long time. i cant remember the last time..somethings wrong with me why arent i able to make more friends as easily as all of my other old school friends? all of them have their own group now..im litterly the only one. it really upsets me. i hope you understand how i feel (link)
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Ohhhhhh, yes i understand how you feel. I've been left out a number of times and over time i've found that all this group stuff makes no sense and is stupid. You know what i did? I formed a group of one. I made a group of myself called The Me Group (well not really but its just an illustration.) The groups in your school are full of people that need other people to validate their being and social status. When youre by yourself then you might set a trend or something for at least one person. Your other friends probably made friends faster b/c they needed someone to validate their being. They weren't sure of who they were. If you stand alone then people will see that you know who you are and you can stand for yourself. You dont need a label.
Cliche Time: Just be yourself
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Hello, all.
A few years ago I tried contacts, but had a hard time getting them out.
Now, three years later, I feel like I want to try them again, but I feel kinda iffy because this year I've gotten A LOT of compliments on how I look (over the summer I resolved to swallow my shyness and be outgoing so I could show people who I really am instead of hiding it away).
I know if I get contacts, I'm going to look weird, because people aren't used to me without glasses. Also, my crush has seemed to be showing more interest in me (I've been hanging out with him more lately, a rarity this school year because of our busy schedules...I've been so happy!)
I've asked some friends whether or not I should get contacts, and some of them say I look adorable in my glasses. Basically I'm afraid of losing my compliments and possibly my friend's increased interest in me if I get contacts...so any advice would be WONDERFUL!
Thanks so much, and sorry it's so long! (link)
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well i have a sight problem and I (emphasis on I) decided that i looked better with my glasses on.
Cliche Time: Be who you choose to be, not who others choose to see.
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13/f
Well I like this guy && he likes me too.
But he hardly goes on msn, he used to but hes grounded. I'm really scared we're going to loose our relationship, cause hes also in a different class then me. He only talks to me at like Break/recess & Lunch. But I'm in his Math class, I cant sit near him since his friend always sit there, and then one day, I finally found a spot that is KINDA near him... Something like this.
F= his friends BF = my friends K= always hated this girl H= Him M=Me
F H K BF
f f BF M
Sorry if that was confuesing. Anyways. It was like that, and then I dont really see him talking to me in math. But when "K" was talking to him since he was kinda right beside her, he started to laugh. I can't really find any other time to talk to him. && the valentine dance is coming up. But our school rule isnt ask people before the dance. Its actually you ask the person AT the dance. I want to dance with him, but I'm afraid of the relationship ending. =\
Any advice would do! Thanks. (: (link)
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This is a typical movie storyline. A girl that you hate is trying to steal a guy that you like. The key is to get to him before "K" does so that way you can dance and at the same time talk to him about stuff.
Cliche Time: If it wasnt meant to be then it wasnt meant to be.
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15/f
when a guy asks for your number, after you give it to them are u supposed to ask them what their number is also?? (link)
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well im a guy and i will tell you that you can ask for the number back. if they get your number but they never call u can call them and you can be the aggressive one....hope that helps...
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