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E-mail: Ldiva223@tmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: queens new york
Occupation: I want to become a phycologist
Age: 16
AIM: Ldiva223
Member Since: September 27, 2009
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I could never trust anyone but my closest relatives.Everyone I knew would betray me.People would always make fun of me for reasons I wasn't familiar with.First there were the ones I went to elementary school with.I'm not exaggerating when I say I had almost no friends at all.Only a few out of hundreds of them could actually understand me.For 8 years it seemed like nothing would ever change.I thought they hated me because I was and still am a straight A's student who doesn't like going out at night and getting into trouble.But that's not all.I had a boyfriend who I was truly in love with.He was with me for 7 months,but then cheated on me with my best friend who ended up not caring about me and went for him.I was destroyed for months.He was my everything and I grew up with her.Luckily,my grades remained the same.The thing is I can't bring myself to trust anyone now.Especially boys.For some weird reason I always think they're kidding me.I'm in first year of high school now,and today a guy from my class who's apparently hitting on me came up to me and said I was the hottest girl in class,and instead of feeling good about it,I wanted to slap him! I did say thanks though,but I have major trust issues!I always think people hate me and make fun of me behind my back... I want to fix it but I'm lost and I don't know how.I hate when some people who are good to me,mostly girls tell me they wish they were me,because they have no idea how I feel and what emotional mess I am.What should I do about this? It's just too much for someone my age to handle.Thanks for taking your time to read this. (link)
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Welll you are to young for this. But I mean it does happen . I mean you can't trust everyone . But you have to really get to know people to call them your friend . I lost a lot of people in my life . And I thought they where my friend but they just use me . So now I am very careful with who I say is my friend . I look at how they treat other people how they treat themselves and etc . And to be honest I only have 3 real female friends. And now for the boys part . Not all boys are the same . You just have to keep looking . Look for the qualties thatb your ex boyfriend had but then try to find better. And try not to make sure your friends and boyfriend get to close . And explain to the new boy you meet. Tel him what your not interested in and tell him you have no time to play games and you have no time for your heart get broken . Try it . And be honest with people let them know from the beginning of what you do and don't like . So then they will make the decision if they wanna be with you or not . And it will cause less pain to you because you told them from the beginning . And there is notthinfg wrong with being smart sweety .
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Everyone in my school doesnt like me...I'm thinking its because of the vicious rumors that have been started by an old ex boyfriend of mine who doesnt know how to mind his own business. I try to be friendly to everyone but it just doesnt help. I feel like im the only person at this school who doesnt have friends. No one cares about me, and honestly, i dont care about me anymore either. i hate this school. help me. dont tell me to go to counseling either :/ (link)
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Maybe you should be nice to people and prove that whatever your boyfriend said about you is not true . And if people what t act fake and pretend to like you . Play the game they are playing as well . And talk to your ex tell him to stop doing what he is doing . If you be nice to people maybe you will get friends
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Well in school there is this guy. he is soo funny and all of the girls throw themselves at him. some say he's ugly but i don't. how do i get him to notice that im better than all of them?
I will give a 5 to the best answer.
thanks in advance!!
abbie x (link)
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Well maybe you should change da way you dress alittle bit . Put something nice on . Fix up ypu hair a little bit . And maybe you should make a complement on something he has on . And she if he will start a conversation with you . If he does maybe there is a chance .
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