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ok so i like this guy ALOT we hold hands at school and are togteher all the time. he likes me alot too. hes so sweet. but we BOTH jsut got out of long relationships and don't want a relationship right now. but its practically like we are going out. and EVERYONE is asking BOTH of us.. "do you like her??" "do you like him??" "i heard u like him..are you going out!?" like seriously soo much people...people i barely even KNOW..its getting soo annoying. i usualy just say yea i do...but its getting super annoying. how can this stop..i dont want to be rude or make it seem like i dont like him but people need to mind their own freaking business!

if you both like eachother alot then what's stopping you, what, are you gunna go around flirting with other guys just to be free or something? i dont get it just go out with him, forget the past. that way people know you like eachother and you are going out, no more questions asked.

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Last year I was on the track team on the four by 100 meter relay. It was awesome and I loved it. This year was not the same. I was absent for a few days and missed my chance to be on the relay team. Another girl, who I happen to not really like, got on the team. This is her first year to be in sports and she honestly thinks she's better than everyone. She's one of those girl's whose egos are bigger than their wardrobe. I was upset, yes, because I wanted to be on the team not her. I was mad and her and I got in a little fight. I got over it quickly because I realized that it was stupid of me to be upset, but she got her "BFF" involved. A few days after the last track meet her BFF posted this in her xanga hope  you did great at the track  meet w/ YOUR relay team..and showed kristin whos relay team that really is..! (because we ALL know its not hers)... I'm upset, but I don't know what to do? Am i right to be upset?

dang, ya go ahead and be mad you couldnt be on the team, but since your not then just leave it alone if you know your better then the girl then thats fine but you dont need to start a fight when truth is there is nothing you can do about it! so just sit back and move on. Wait until next year then you can show her that she isnt all that when your on the team too. you get wat im saying? sorry girl i know it sucks to have to sit back and grit your teeth, but i hope you can stick through it.

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