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my gf is always demanding me to do things if i don't she tells people about the things we do
and my family belives her evevn if its not true
and it makes me out to be the bad person
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That's really messed up, you deserve better than that. Tell her how you feel, and break up with her. She's manipulative and obviously has some issues. This is the beginning of a really bad relationship, and she will probably only get worse. Find someone who will treat you right.
♥ Taylor


Hello,I'm an over weight girl 13 years old, and I really would like to go out with a guy at my summer camp. But since I'm fat they only see that, and not the true me. I mean I've lost about six teen lbs total this summer. There are girls two - three times my size.... Does any one have a clue how to attract a guy to me, like flirting ideas, or just to get them to notice me???? Please I need tons of help for this????? (link)
Just be yourself.. Smile and let your true self shine through. Flirt and be totally confident in yourself, act friendly and stuff. good luck =)


how do you deal with rumors and gossip. i really don't care what ppl say i just have a hard time showing that i actually don't care, so how do i show people i really dont care? (link)
Ugh, I HATE gossip. Next time you hear that people are talking about you behind your back or anything, just IGN0RE it. they aren`t worth your time. If anyone mentions anything to you about it, say confidently, "I DON`T CARE." the message should come across lol.


theres this guy in my drama class who is really fat and is like 350 pounds and has a billion pimples all over his face that is not able to be cured. hes telling ppl that i'm his girlfriend and i'm not. plus he stalks me becasue he knows where my house is. today he went to my house and tried attacking me becuase i don't want to be with him. lately hes attacked 3 of my friends cuz hes really violent. one of them that hes had a crush on he stalked her by breaking into her house by breaking her window and bringing flowers and a boom box so he can sing to her. he tried kissing my other friend but then she refused and then he bruised her. he also ruined the birthday present that i spent alot of my time making for my best friend and so it got destroyed. he also started moving over on where i was sitting and tried to touch me and put his arm around me but then thank god before he was able to do that my friend susana yelled move outta my way!!! and i don't know what do becuse today i have to meet up with the drama group to finish a project and hes in my group and itz too late to kick him out of the group because the project is due tomorrow. and i'm just scared on what he'll do to me. hes nasty and doesn't even have a good personality. (link)
You need to tell your parents or another trusted adult about this. It`s really serious and he sounds dangerous.. Call the police and keep trying to get a restraining order on him. Talk to your drama teacher and maybe she could talk some sense into him. Don`t use violence because then you would be just as bad as him..


what are some good movies (playing right now) to watch on dates? i haven't seen much previews, someone tell about a movie?
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Scary movies are good, because you get to hold each other. I think Dark Water, Land of the Dead, War of the Worlds, House of Wax.
Funny movies are good also.. The Longest Yard, Monster in Law.


ill be 15 in 2 weeks. but i really want to get some money. i know everyone will prolly say babysitting! .. and i consider that, but like how do i get people to babysit for?..you know like find people to babysit for? .. thats where im stuck. so can someone give me some suggesions? please!? (link)
If you want to babysit- you can ask your mom to tell her friends, put flyers around your neighborhood advertising your services, or talk to your neighbors with children.


My BF and I have been going out for a month. And we kiss and W/E outside of school, but past couple of days we have been doing little kisses after 4th. we both feel kinda uncomfortable cause all my friends go AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW really loudly n obviously when we do and its really annoying! i've told them to stop but they dont! have can i make them?! i rate ^^ (link)
Wow, I can definitly relate to this. That`s really immature, and you need to sit down with your friends and tell them how much this bothers you. Explain how it makes you feel and how frustrating it is that they don`t stop. If they still don`t stop, try just finding another place to go with your boyfriend - away from your other friends.


i was just wondering if anyone had any good ideas for a birthday party :-/ nothing to extrodinary,it's just with a couple of friends.
thanx for any ideas :-D (link)
You can go out to dinner at a fancy restaurant, and get all dressed up, always fun. You could go to Six Flags or another amusement park and ride the roller coasters or something. Or, you could always just go with the old-fashioned sleepover party lol. =)


Sometimes I feel like I'm being really rude to people, but I never know. When I say hello, it's kind of under my breath but I smile and I wave to whoever said hello to me. Sometimes someone will say hello when I'm out biking and I'm not sure if someone said hello to me or to someone else on the street, so I only turn and smile. I realized this at the supermarket when someone I didn't like too much said hi to me, and I said hi under my breath and gave a little wave. They moved by quickly, so it looked like I was waving over my shoulder. I want to seem less rude, but how? Am I even being rude? (link)
It doesn`t mean you are rude, just shy. Next time you see someone, just look up and smile or wave and give a big "Hi!" just be really outgoing and start conversations with people that you see. Or even practice talking to yourself in the mirror, sounds crazy, but it works *lol*


latley i have been in a very bad mood. people have just been annoying me and doing things that make me mad latley - what can i do about this? i am not depressed at all - i have fun and i guess it's just when i'm alone i think about a bunch of underlying stuff. what is a way i can not think about all of this? (link)
First off.. you have to look inside yourself and find out what makes me mad/ annoyed.. Then once you find that.. spend 5-10 minutes thinking specifically about that one thing, and nothing else. Then take that negative energy and focus it all into something positive, like cleaning furiously or studying or something. Hope I helped =)


I didn't really know what to put this under, but oh well. Around my house there is NOTHING to do. I mean I have a ps2 and tvs and IMs. But it's all so boring. Does anyone know any good websites I can go to or anything I can do to make life more exciting? P.s. I live in a small area with like nothing in the town to do and I have no one til like 3 during the day to take me anywhere. (link)
www.bored.com

always works - really entertaining lol.


Okay I'm like really bored and passing the time by looking at pics but I need some other site to go to. Can someone please give me some websites?

I'll rate five if you give me at least three good sites! (link)
www.bored.com

www.seventeen.com (any magazine websites)

www.albinoblacksheep.com/flash/numa.php




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