Hello there,
I'd like to thank whoever is gonna give me advice in advance.
Anyway, I've always had this problem:
I'm the president of the Student Council, and honestly I expected people, including my friends, to be happy for me.
However, two of my friends ( a boy and a girl), who are also on the Student council, started rumors about me being a show off and reminding the teachers about the homework, eventhough it's not true.
The boy's girlfriend is on the Student Council too, and I wanted to ask for her opinion about something. And as soon as I even opened my mouth, he cut me off! And stupid me didn't say anything! Not "Please man, I'm talking to her", nothing!
And on the same day, we had a "crazy dress up" competition and the Student Council members had to judge.
I was dressed as a gypsy, and was wearing a red shirt, red bandana, and red sandals. So from the beginning of the day, he keeps trying to provoke me: "Is it Valentine's day today or what?"
All I said was "What do you have against me?" and I walked away from him.
And in front of everyone, EVERYONE, he practically yells at me saying: "This crazy dress up must've been your idea!"
I just stared at him and walked away again.
And guess what? The crazy dress up day wasn't my idea! It was the other girl's idea and he would've known if he was even paying attention in the meetings! And guess what else? I didn't say that to him!
So my question is: How can I show this guy, whom I've known for almost 5 years, that he's being immature and is disrespecting me and hurting my feelings? :(
And how can I tell the other girl that I know what she's been saying about me?
I know how you feel. I've been through this too. Heres what you need to do aboutt he rumors. When someone comes up to you and asks "omg is it tru that ____blah__blah__blah" be like "who said that?" and then once they tell you be like "oh well i heard that(make up a rumor about whoever made the rumor up about you)" and then they'll go off telling everyone what you just told him. so now you turned the tables around and theres a rumor about her.And as for the guy-next time he says anything to you come up with a come back. Don't be scared to stand up for your self. If you never say anything then you won't change anything. So tell him something like "I feel sorry for you that you have to be so immature to get attention" or this is what i did to this one girl who made me really mad. get a dollar and bring it to school. When he comes up to and says something get out your dollar and be like "Heres a dollar go by a life" or just hit him. lol thats another option that usually works. most likely this guy is just jealous of you that is why he is making fun of you. so yea whatever you do i hope it turns out good.
good luck!
xoxoxo
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