You can't avoid it forever. You have to go to school. Everyone makes mistakes. Talk to the people who are mad at you. See what it will take for them to forgive you. Apologize to everyone who wants or needs an apology. Try to work on getting forgiveness. Until then, you have learned and are learning from your mistakes. It could have been a lot worse. You now besides it being illegal and dangerous, you have even more reasons not to drink again. By saying you are a mere freshman when saying it was a senior party, this shows how uncomfortable you felt going. Even if you decide to be sober at the next party, which I highly encourage, you still will not be comfortable with the older group. Use this experience to make better decisions in the future. It will take time but people should eventually get over it. Their anger will soon turn to someone else who messes up. I hope it all works out.

I agree with your best friend- I don't think it is gross that he saw you nude and now he is dating her. Good job for telling her about it. You feel it is gross because you regret doing it. It is better to do that when you are dating someone, but dating them for a while. If you're not, who knows what they will do with the picture- who they showed it to...etc. It is very violating. If you are with the person for a while, you will be able to trust them with something like that. If the relationship doesn't work out, I would think you would feel more comfortable knowing you shared something special and have that peace of mind that he wouldn't do anything with the picture to hurt you.

Friends should not tell you what you are ~allowed~ to do or who you can date; only your parents can tell you that and even then it sucks. Are the so-called friendships worth your time? They know you care about your boyfriend and that you only see him in school. They are making you choose and you should never be put into that position. They have no problem risking your relationship. This also isnt the only time they have treated you this way. If they walk away mad and you get that smile, that hug, that kiss that you can't get outside of school, isnt that worth it? They give you a hard time about other things as well. Life is full of people who can't be happy for you. Your group of friends should not be among them. It seems you can't please them no matter what you do. Its time to think about what would please you. I think you should take advantage of the time in school you have with your boyfriend and cherish that time. Try talking to your friends about the way they are treating you and the position they are putting you in or you can just give them the cold shoulder and see if they come to you. If they apologize or realize what they have been doing and are willing to change, then from there make a compromise: make time to spend with him and time for them. If they choose to continue to treat you the way they have been, it is clear these people will only continue to rain on your parade and bring you down. You'll need to find new friends. People who will accept you for you, be there and be happy for you. Until you find that connection with a group or select people, enjoy spending time with your boyfriend. I wish you the best. If you need anything else im here.

Well it makes sense to so when he calls, u know who it is and so if you want to talk to him, you don't have to wait for him to make a move.

My advice is based on my experiences, my morals, my values and what I would do if I were the advice seeker. I always put myself in your shoes and look at all sides of the story. I love updates, so please inbox me to let me know how everything turned out because I worry about you! Some lessons I hope to teach all include: *Always stand up for what you believe in *Never give up *Fight for those who would fight for you *Don't hold back your feelings because you're afraid of getting hurt; you wind up getting hurt anyway *Don't follow your dreams- chase them *Appreciate the things you have *Always put others before yourself *It's always ok to feel, but it's not always ok how you react to those feelings *Learn from yesterday live for today and hope for tomorrow

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