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ok im 14/f and ill just get to the point...
i was going out wit this one boy, who is like really shy by the way, and not good with girls and yay for him he finally got a bf...
and me also is not good with boy other than friends...and i finally got a rep as really nice girl ...but i broke up with him cuz he kissed me and stuff and i wasnt ready for serious relationship and still am not because he was my first bf...
but when i broke up with him people were all nagging on me why in the world i broke up with him but it was kinda hard to explain and way long so i just told them ...because i have my reasons...and i thought i told my ex why i broke up with him but guess he didnt get it because when people ask him whats wrong with him (cuz he's been really depressed) that i broke up with him and he didnt kno why...
so all of his friend is like talking about me and stuff ...
so what should i do? i mean i am going to tell him again why i did but still this rep is really bothering me... i used to be one of the nicest person in school but now people think i am such a bitch and stuff...
please no funny stuff about making crack about it and stuff... this is really serious to me...
thanks in advance though... (link)
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hey whatsup,
well at 14 gossip is the common enemy, while you can't change the current gossip you can change what people think of you in the future. and one thing to learn is that reps come and go.
right now there's really nothing you can do you just need to ride it out and then next week everyone will have forgotten it.
good luck
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