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Q: ok so theres this one guy at school and my best friend likes him but i like him to and he knows that she likes him but he donn't know that i like him and he flirts with me and my friend told me that if he starts going out with someone else she would get really pissed and if he goes out with me she is going to be pissed at me and she is my best friend... What should i do...
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Well. Your friend seems to be jelous that he's flirting with you obviously if she told u she would be mad at you. But If you really like this guy you need to tell your friend to take a hike and get over it. that you still wanna be her friend, but you like this guy too. Then you need to tell this guy that u like him and if your confrtable ask him out or even see how he reacts and then maybey he'll ask you out.
But if you friend is a TRUE friend she may be "pissed" but she'll get over it sooner or later!
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Q: I know people get sad, its going to happen, but for at least a month, ive been feeling really sad. I thought about cutting myself, and did it once but not too deep, not enough to kill me, but deep enough. And people at school have just been so...mean and guys have been rude and arrogant, and my parents are fighting and may be getting a divorce and my sister verbally abuses me,i've been doing worse in school and idk, im just DONE. How do i get out of this sadness? I just cant have fun or be happy anymore, and what can i do? I need help and dont want to ask my parents for a therapist, and i try to talk to my friends, but gossip makes it too hard in my school, so i just need some advice on how to get happy again! Thanks
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Dear deppressed,
I get depressed all the time, guys, school, friends, anger, death. It's all common for alot of people. But you've gotta get it through your head that it's called LIFE, and you can turn it around. If I was in your shoes here is what I would do:
. Listen to music, lol always helps me feel like I can do anything, such as: Whatever it takes; lifehouse
. Ask if you can make appointments with the school guidence counsler. Check with your mom about the therapist.
.As for you parents I would ask to meet with both of them then say this to them, " Mom dad, STOP fighting. Your wrecking my life and yours.If your going to argue then get a divorse and move on with it. I CAN'T stand it any longer. Sure you may ground me after this, but I don't care! I've got a life too, and maybey you should consider it every once in a while" But that's just me.
. Try just telling your sister that you love her. lol This may be weird but it will freak her out. then tell her to quit, of course this may not work, but it may take time.
. LAST of all remember your worth it, or you wouldn't be here now would you? I'm a christian so I pray alot. So if your a christian pray or read the bible it'll help you, but if your not then good luck, and remember there's someone out there that loves you, example: parents friends, sisters even if they don't show it.
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Hey what's up It's me ... ASK me anything, cause I wanna help. Even if it's the most stupidist thing i'll ever hear then ask anyways.
Call me Ashley if you would like
Ask Ash. Lol Love it. So
ASK. :) no preasure
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: KY Occupation: School, School, oh & I forgot SCHOOL :(!!! MSN: meg641@live.com Member Since: May 7, 2008 Answers: 48 Last Update: November 18, 2008 Visitors: 4183
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