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Q: ok here is the second boy. well the second boy i have known forever just like (S). We were always just friends intill last year when we dated and i loved it and we were so close but then i got scared. I am a loner by nature and so it was hard for me to open up to someone except him. he is the only ione that can read me completly. Well i got scared because of how close he got to me and how alive the feelings rose. I also had the problem where it would take time for me to do anything(like we never kissed although he was used to that in all his relationships) so i was worried he would get tired of waiting. Well so i caled it of while i was stil madly in love with him but because of how long we had been friends(7 years)we stayed friends. Well he got closer still so i gave him to my best friend then pushed him out and that about kiled me and him. Well when schol started back we started talking and come to find out he was dating one of my old friends. well i fell for him in no time and i think he did the same. He is close to breaking up with my old friend and i am woried if he will want to date again. I wouldnt mind it cause i still like him. the only thing is that if we did i would realy be woried about kising or anything cause he has been all over two of my past friends( it was my fault for the first one and he didnt even know that me and the new one used to be friends) Well also i want him now but idk it is just dificult help me.
Well i think you guys need some time to definitely make sure your feelings are true. If you dont REALLY REALLY REALLY love each other then there is no point in going out again if you are just going to break up agAIN

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Q: 15/f. i have 5/6 class with a really popular guy named Nick. He is popular, hot, nice, and shy. i reallly like him because he doesn't act like he's popular (he just is) and he's really hot. i don't have a big crush on him, just a little one (kind've like most girls do with him). well i've never really talked to him much or anything, so we don't know each other that well. but since i have so many classes with him, i've noticed him looking at me alot. especially in social studies. i don't know if this means anything, but can someone tell me if it does? he tends to look at me at semi-quick glances, and sometimes we make eye contact.

what should i do about this? because i kinda like him looking beause i kind've like him.

what does all of this mean?
All of these signs like looking at u and eye contact it could all mean something. If he does like you then he will figure out a right time to ask you...just dont rush it

AdViCe LaDy

Q: ok last year i was a complete dork. i mean it. i did the stupedist things and was a complete nerd. i embarrassed myself when i didnt even know it. this year, i am totally different and im not like that anymore. i dont want people to see me as that way anymore. how can i change peoples opinion of me?

and dont tell me i should be happy with who i am because that wont help me at all.
dont worry i am not going to tell you to be happy with who you are and dont change for other people but i will tell you that you need to more energetic and not so dorky wear different clothes wear makeup and show people ur not afraid k?

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