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Hey y'all! Im Erica. I'm a varsity baskettball cheerleader for Chattahoochee High. (Go Cougars!) I like starbucks, rain (acually just water in general), shopping, going to movies, hanging out with friends, strawberries, the wind, summer vacation, and traveling! :D
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for a little under a year. i love him so much and care about him and i found out that he's been doing something i dont really approve of. but its not what hes doing that upsets and worries me, its that he's been lying to me about it, and then said he's never lied to me. i dont know if i can trust him anymore. i dont want him doing what hes doing, but if he's going to i want to know about it because i dont like being lied to. i want to talk to him but i have no idea what to say? any ideas? i really care about him and love him and don't want anything to happen to him. :-\ (link)
tell him you don't like what he's doing, and if he care about you and loves you too, he should respect that. the trust thing is hard because you trusted him and he lied to you and betrayed that trust and he will probably get mad at you if you tell him you're having a hard time trusting him, if you tell him. If y'all can talk and work this out, the trust will have to be reestablished and that could take time but if you really love and care about each other you will take the time to do that. :)


Cristmas is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get my gf so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas? (link)
if y'all have been going out for a while, or if y'all really love it each other than something im sure would make her so happy would be a promise ring.
if y'all aren't really serious though then, if y'all have build-a-bear factories, it would be cute to make one and put a sound clip in there with you saying something sweet to her.
another thing you could do is make her a no-sew blankett. just buy 2 pieces of felt, lay them on top of each other and make a cut every inch and then tie the top and bottom together.
:)


ok iv been going out w/ this guy for a month and a few weeks ill call him jim well my neighbor ill call him bob comes over sometimes not very much now that im going out w/ jim bob comes over like 1 or twice a month me and bob have done stuff in the past cuz he kept on preasuring me until i say yes i make up excuses but they never work we had like a no strings attatched thing going on though and im afraid im gonna cheat on jim w/ bob cuz like its hard for me to say no and bob is always preasuring me to do stuff w/ him what r some good ways to say no to bob!! (link)
The best way is to stay out of situations where you may feel pressure to hook up with "bob" like if he askes if you want to hang out, tell him you have other plans, but then try to make other plans with a friend or with "jim" and also don't do anything that would make him think you like him, or like hooking up with him. :)




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