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i think i MIGHT like one of my teachers. there is only a 6-7 year difference.. i mean its weird but i don't know, is that totally wrong?
no, its not wrong to like one of your teachers. just do not act upon it. during high school there were always the good looking teachers all of the girls took his class.. their nice to look at but TROUBLE! :]
admire from afar.. and get good grades, so you can take another class taught by him!
i am a 16 year old teenage girl .. my parents are divorced and my dad is verbally abusive, like he says he doesnt love me and i dont have a relationship with him. im EXTREMELY involved in my parish and have gotten close with my pastor over the past 3 years, hes like a father figure. but i dont like it because i get so jealous when he even TALKS to another kid or asks for their help and not mine, im afraid he wont like me anymore. i hate this feeling of jealousy its like controlling my life. ive never had good self esteem but im afraid he will stop liking me and like someone else better. how can i make this stop and not feel jealous anymore?
it sounds like you have attached yourself to a male figure who will listen and cares. just because he is speaking to other children does not mean he does not care about you and your problems.
a pastor is there as a helper to god, god loves all of his children, and has to listen to every persons prayers. do you think god should only listen to yours? that isnt quite fair, now is it.
you really should talk to your mother about this, if you feel comfortable enough with her. and express how you feel. also, school counselors are amazing. i know it sounds lame, but they have a degree in this stuff and are great to talk to. they dont judge you because of what you say, and plus they help you get into college.
feel free to talk to an adult figure, but dont get jelious that he is helping others. that is what he is here for. :}
kay well i'm liek realy popular (im not trying to brag) n i have these friends that are like not so popular.. and i still wanna be friends with them but the popular pplz were like u cant be friends with them if u wanna be friends with us. but the pplz that rnt so popular r like really nice and so r the popular pplz.
what do i do
plz help
stop talking like that! stop saying the word 'like' and learn how to type and maybe people will like you better! geeze em!
anyways - other then the fact this is kinda a retarded question, try to hang out with both of them. so called 'popular' people arent always the nicest people, its nice to have friends outside of one group. so try to hang out with both. if the 'populars' dont like it then its their loss. dont loose nice, and close friends just to become popular. its not worth it.
hey can someone help me think of a good screen name for instant message? i can't think of one. please help! i'm a so if you can think of any with in it also that would help! thx! i rate high!
uh... okay this is for advice? i guess this is kinda advice
what kind of things do you like. you cant just say give me a screen name! haha
I've been dating my boifriend for 5 months now and he just moved to tennesse a month ago. And i dont really like this whole long distance relationship thing....but i really love him alot....But i dont know whats going to happen when he starts school down there. (like who hes going to meet) so can you please give me advice on this? thanks
break it off. even though you really love him. love can last - wait till your older or when he is able to come down and visit you. stay really good friends and talk everyday and tell eachother everything but dont hold the committment of 'boyfriend, girlfriend' because there will be alot of temptions along the way if you do so. good luck :)
I have a friend, David, and i like him more than a friend. Well, in design and technology, i asked my other friend Laura, why guys like me, and she said, ask a guy. So i asked David and he goes "Ummm...you wouldnt want to know...you will get embarrassed". But i kept asking him to tell me and he goes "No". Then he told one of my friends about what I asked him, and she said "Are you sure theyre looking at your face?" and David goes "Yeah, are you sure theyre looking at your face?" and he keeps using my friend as an excuse. But i know that there is something else. Is it possible that he likes me more than a friend?
wow..sounds like they dont like you for your face... they like you for your body or boobs! guys are pigs.
consider that before you consider him liking you more than a friend.
Well, I'm not fat and that's what my friends tell me. Last year I lost a load of weight but the dress I have for the Spring Fling looks absolutely adorable on me when others and I look at it. It's just when I took a picture in it yesterday (not at the Spring Fling), I looked fat. My face was fat. My friend told me that the camera always adds a extra pound or so to you, but when I take other photo's with the camera's, I find that I don't like how huge my head is. Is it that huge. I want my pictures to be pretty . I don't want to look like a pig. So do I need to drop down to another ten pounds or do I not need to just loosen up. Is it the camera or is it me? Please, help me.
uMm.. okay that was WICKED confussing.
stop asking questions about the spring fling! its annoying.
-if you feel fat then loose a few pounds. but be happy with who you are.
ok i have a problem i wrote this embarssing email to my friend and i told him stuff lik i lik him and really ambarissin stuff lik that and i wanted to kiss him i fell lik he doesnt lik and he read and he didnt care but he sent it to his step brother and his step brother sent it to everybody in my class and i said some stuff bout a couple of them and i didnt want them to no how much i acctually liked him and i dotn no wat to do i really wanna cry im so upset plzz help
well theres not that much you can do. it was your decision to send this email to this guy and him being a jerk ((so you shouldnt like him after this)) sends it to his bro then to the class.. not cool at all. seek some kind of revenge ;-) haha
hi danielle! its liss again! haha! where do you shop! your clothes are so friggen cute!
jeans?
shirts?
bathing suit (its so cute!)
your soccer stuff?
thanks!
hey liss! uMm..
for jeans most of them came from weathervane..but they closed. so i bought mine this year from pac-sun!
for shirts: pac-sun, weathervane, rave, rue21, uMm..aeropostale..everywhere!
my bathing suit: thanks! i love it! i got it in florida at a bathing suit shop for 80 bucks! ouch! haha..its super adorable tho! haha its by CK
soccer stuff: cleats-eurosport (www.soccer.com) shinguards a local place called sports stop. socks..uMm.olympia
jerseys: my team supplies em
anything else? where else do i shop! haha! wal*mart! loL! best store! haha! MAKEUP HEAVEN!
x0x-dani
i wear jeans to school and my mom said i cant wear thongs soo u can see my underwear line what should i do?
uMm..wear boy beifs..or be wise and ask her if you can wear g-strings! haha!
x0x-dani
How do i put my advice colum in my aim profile?
on the left hand side it says Welcome, (your user name) then 3 down it says your advice column..it will bring u to your page..copy the http and paste it into your aim profile. if you want it to say something specific like mine says .*advice*. then click on someones name..(like you were goign to chat with them!) there is a blue thing underlined saying link click on that it will bring up a diffrent box , in the hyperlink url put the http you copied. then in the next one it says hyperlink text. you can put anything you want there. afterwards its gunna show in the box where u type your message..cut it and paste it into your profile!!
(hope this wasnt too confussing!)
x0x-dani!
((dont forget to rate n' leave ah comment if you want!))
okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do?
uHh.well i alreadie gave you my opinion ((you know who u are!)) and i personally dont think its right..im not gunna go on and on about it tho
Im really depressed right now..and i dunno why..its weird. How do i cope with it?
depressed..wow i know alot about this topic! when i was depressed i listened to music that just got me jumping..like retarded music, Backstreet Boys, N*sync..stuff that I listened to when I was younger..it brought back memories of when I was a dumb..dumb kid! haha! Just Kidding! ;-) but..think about positive things..take a nap and dream away the hurt:)
There's this boy who i've know in 6th and 7th grade but then he moved and went to another school, but we still talk on aol and aim. I don't really know if were friends or going out. Should i personally ask him on aim or what?
online there is so much contriversy..ask him to call you! or ask if you can call him, so then you can talk one on one:) then bring it up and if he says you two are just friends dont push anything. guys dont like it when girls try and push something to happen. but definitally ask him about it though:)
x0x-dani