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I have known this girl since kindergarden right. Now we are in 8th grade and for some reason, this year i really seem to like her. I mean she is nice, funny, smart, and very beautiful. How can i not like her. But the problem is, i have trouble finding the courage to ask her out. I am good with girls in the sense of friendship, but when it comes to love life, im a mess. I am 14 and she is 13. i am 11 months older than her but i really dont see that as an issue. But i always get nervous when i tcomes to askig a girl out nd i did it once, she said ye, than rejeted me the next day. (that was a different girl). Is it normal to be that nervous? Oh and one more thing, what do you ask when you want to ask her out. I really am not good with "pick-up" line. Thanks

You don't need a pick-up line. In fact, pick-up lines are cheesy and unnecessary. Just be yourself, engage her in some idle conversation and ask her out at the appropriate moment. Don't worry about being nervous, by the way. EVERYBODY goes through the same experience, regardless of whether it's a guy or girl involved.

Oh, and rejection is not something to be feared. You'll have to deal with it in life from time to time and you need to steel your nerves somehow, right?

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