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I have a talent show coming up and I don't know what to do have any ideas
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Do what you do best/you are most confident doing.
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Okay, I'm a 15 year old girl who has been depressed for the past few months.
So there's this teacher who I have got on really well with over the past year. I've known for some time now that he was going to be leaving but I don't think it ever really sunk it. Until today that is, because it's been his last day.
He's been there so much for me at school and has been really helpful and supportive. It got to the point where I would go and see him every day for advice because he was literally the only person I could talk to.
Now he's gone I don't know what to do. I have no way of contacting him (his school email was deleted today) and he's moving to the other end of the country so there's no chance of seeing him at all.
I just don't know what to do because he was everything and now I have nothing. (link)
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Stop thinking like this-that you have nothing. You have to understand that life goes on and you have to move on. It might be difficult but it's not the end of the world. Look on it from a good perspective. If he's leaving then maybe there is something greater awaiting you. I know it's hard but trust me you will only feel depressed if you make yourself feel depressed. Remember you're the one in control-try to find someone else who understands you. Things will get better with time.
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We have been in a relationship for eight mounth now and i'm a virgin but my girl friend she's not and we are both 18, i want sex with her but i'm scared to tell b'coz i felt shy,i think she can reject so what should i do! (link)
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Talk to her about it.If she really loves you, she shouldn't have a problem with it.
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what does it mean when guy tell they guy friend that I was riding her? (link)
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I was riding her means that I had sex with her.
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Hi guys . I am 13 and in 8th grade. Okay first off, I have a big friend problem. I have been friends with these two girls, lets just call them Alice and Nicole, roe five yrs. in 6th grade I started hanging out with these two other girls, lets call them Eva and Lauren, and it was fun. In 7 grade something happened with my older sis and I told Alice and Nicole. Nicole told one girl and she told well EVERYONE. I had a breakdown, started going to the school counsels office during lunch and hadn't touched my phone for two weeks when lauren and Eva approached me again(but this time they werent pushing for details) ( they wanted me to keep on hanging out with them but i wanted to stay away from everyone)They said if I didn't want to talk about it it's fine and we bonded. Nicole had apologized a zillion time in that two weeks, and said that some girls saw us talking in hushed voices and said they would tell her crush she liked if she did not spill. I forgave her eventually, but it was never the same. Okay also with Eva and lauren is a girl named Mary. She was new last year and we became friends. This year it seems like lauren has made friends with this mean nasty girl named Sophie. So I want to know who should I be friends with. I know this sounds like middle school drama, BUTNIT IS NOT.I was thinking about killing myself this year cause I felt so alone. Nicole and Alice don't get me anymore and I think Mary would be a good friend but I don't really know her and my parents are always off on buisness trips. Lauren just makes me jealous so that would not work and Eva would not either cause i do not think she thinks of me as a bff. I feel SOOO alone. I am dwelling up all my problems in myself. It is like no one loves you. No one understands you. I wonder if I kill myself people will finally notice me. (link)
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By reading your story I have realized that I once was exactly the same. I thought that I was alone and that I was rejected by my friends (lack of friends). And yes I did try to commit suicide many times but it never worked. Suicide isn't the answer to your problem-it isn't an answer to any problem.
About your friends. If you feel like you cannot be friends with them anymore then find yourself new friends. I know it sounds a bit harsh but the truth is that true friends will always be with you no matter what. Or you could try to know that Mary girl a bit better. You never know, you two might just click. Give it a go.
About your parents. Most parents these days are busy. You should try to understand them because they do it for you so that you will have a better future. If you feel alone then talk to them. Maybe they'll find some time just for you. Or you could go and visit other relatives, they'll definitely be happy to see you.
Hope that this helped you somehow but please whatever you do don't commit suicide as life is too precious. Also try to think more optimistically-turn the negatives into positives.
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