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I don't really know that my guy likes me or not but i think so that kind of he likes me ......... But sometimes he just shows that he hates to hell and sometimes he just turns back looks at me....... i seriously don't know what to do plz!!!!! I am from INDIA (link)
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Men have awful social skills, based on what you said there is no way of knowing? You should just ask him.
I assume if he is with you by choice, he likes you. You should just ask him. Say "I can't tell if you like me or not? Are you into me? Do you want to be in this relationship?"
Are you living in India now? I know that India is not the best country for womens rights. However, if you have a choice about your partner, you should choose someone that treats you good.
If he acts like he hates you and is violent or verbally abusive to you, GET OUT! If you have a choice, don't put up with abuse. Let him know you want to be with a man that is good to woman. If that man is not him, he should tell you so you can find someone else. End of story NO COMPROMISE, don't put up with men treating you badly.
I'm sorry this is happening. I'm sure it's very confusing. I hope you're able to talk about it with him.
Good Luck honey
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There is a tutor I worked with for math at my university. She's great and a wonderful person to be around with. I definitely developed a crush on her but now way would I pursue it or anything because she is already engaged. I guess I must show signs of liking her because she flat out asked me if I like her. I decided to be honest and say yes, and I said it in like a jokey type way making it clear I know she is engaged and nothing can happen, but despite that she now seems to be avoiding me and is somewhat cold to me. Why? Does she think I have no self control? I am not going to try anything. For fricks sake she is the one that asked me in the first place
also she is like 28 and I am 22
I never really made any flirty type of statements. If she could tell I liked her it was through anything I wasn't noticing
I would never try to get with an engaged woman. I am not that type of person. Even if she was single I wouldn't ask her because I would be too nervous
alos this like a walk in tutoring thing. It is her jobs to tutor students that come in
wanted to add more details to this that I didn't have in the first time (link)
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I don't think she thinks you have no self control. If she brought up the question to you it was probably because she also felt some type of flirtatious energy happening between you. Because it is her job to tutor students she wants to keep the relationship as professional as possible.
Maybe she thought she was being too "friendly," and leading you on. Before she could pull back to bring the relationship to a more professional place she had to verify that you do in fact have a crush on her. Once she got that verification she decided she needed to be less friendly in order to keep the relationship professional. She could loose her job if a student actually thinks she is "flirting," with them so she has to be careful and keep herself protected.
Don't take offense to it she is just trying to be a good tutor. It's hard being young and teaching young people. As a woman I can tell you it's very hard especially because many men confuse being friendly and polite with being into them. Your not that guy so you have nothing to be ashamed about. So you got a crush on a college tutor, I was hopelessly involve with one of my professors. Thats what happens in college, she is just being overly careful.
If anything take this as a compliment. I think it's a sign of good communication and chemistry with women.
When she avoids you or is cold, just be the normal fun loving, great guy that you are and brush it off.
Good luck honey
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