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i have two best friends. one i've known since middle school...so that's about 4 yrs now. and now i also have a new best friend...whom i met in high shcool. they're both wonderful and i'm so glad i have them but there's one problem. they can't stand each other for anything! when i'm with one, she's talking shit about the other. and when i'm with the other one, she's talking shit about her. they both want me to take their own sides and be more loyal to one then the other. ahhhh! what do i do!?!??! HELP! (link)
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Don't take sides. Stay on the anonymous side. If you side with one person, it'll only make the other one mad. If you don't side with either one of them, they will eventually stop asking you to intervene.
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I'm a very quiet girl with social anxiety disorder...and I am going into the 9th grade...only two of my friends from middle school are going to the same high school as me...and Im even shy around them. I've known them for two years and I hate this...what do I do to make more friends easily..I know only a few other people from my middle school thatare going too but I was never really friends with them...I just don't know what to do and I'm starting school this Wednesday (It's Saturday now) and the nerves are really starting to get to me...
Not just as far as making friends go...but I also really really hate presenting projects or reports in front of the class and I'm just so scared. I can't help it at all...
And what do I need for high school? Not just socially, but what do teachers look for and stuff...
TY so much..
I appreciate it..
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Just sit down with someone in lunch or walk up to someone, introduce yourself, and start talking to them about their interests or something. It will come. You will make plenty of friends, I promise you. I started out with no friends at all and ended up with so many that I couldn't even keep in contact with them all.
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My first day of school is soon and I'm going to be a sophmore in HS. Some freshman boys, that I know are coming to my school, are very mean to me and start rumors. One of them is my ex boyfriend and he always says spreads mean things about me. I don't know what to do, because the things they say about me are embarrasing and horrible. I'm so scared that the whole school is going to be making fun of me when they come. How do I stay calm and make sure they don't start on me this year? (link)
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The best thing to do in this situation is to stay calm, act normal, and ignore them. They are jerks anyway and need a lot of prayer if they are goig to be doing that. You will find a new group of friends that will help you through the hard times and pretty soon, these guys will see that it doesn't bother you and stop doing these cruel things. If you let them know it bothers you, they will just keep on getting worse and worse. Trust me, I've had that very same problem and that's the same advice they gave me. Hope it works for you like it worked for me!!
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Does anyone know any websites for diary's? (Anything besides xanga or live journal) (link)
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I know how you can find one on the internet. Just to to http://www.ask.com. Type in the question, "Where can I find an internet diary" (or something on that order, just play around with the words until it comes up with what you are looking for), and hit enter. It should answer your question for you.
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MODS PLEASE POST THIS
has anyone actually lost belly fat from their stomachs by doing crunches or does it just make u look like u have a 6 pack or w/e (link)
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I don't do crunches. I do sit-ups. I do what you call ladder sit-ups: 10 on Monday, 20 on Tuesday, 30 on Wednesday, 40 on Thursday, and 50 on Friday. I also run throughout the week. On Saturday, I would add a couple of miles extra, take a break on Sunday. I have had success in losing weight in the stomach and all over, and also getting that muscular look in the stomach. Keep working at it. It takes patience.
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i like this guy alot and hes my best friend well i got someone to give me advice and i think it will help i mean i dont know if he likes me but he said if we go out then it will ruin our relationship and i dont think that cause all most every best friend hes nad he went out with before (link)
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I would say go for it. If he says no, then you can stay friends. That's the worst that can happen. I just asked a guy out and we are still best friends. He just told me that he hadn't had a girlfriend in five years and wasn't sure if he was confident enough anymore. I'm just letting him have his time, and when he's ready, if it's God's will, we will one day be together.
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OK , its been one week sinc school started. im a freshman . well i hav bout 3000 ppl at my school and i really wana get a b/f this yr cuz ive nevr had one . im afraid i'd nevr b able to him during school cuz its realllly big school . i havnt evn seen my friends cuz were seperated so much in that school . any tips . please help!! (link)
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I would just live a normal life and make friends. Maybe one of the guys that you make friends with will eventually come to like you in that way. There's no reason to rush. God is making your prince for you and he won't come to you until you both are ready for a commitment. Right now, you need to focus more on school and keeping the grades because your future depends on it. I know you have probably heard that speech a million times, but believe me, I know from experience. Not really in my own personal life but in many of my friends lives. I just graduated this year and I see many of my classmates that just graduated with me that has focused too much on relationships, lost their grades, and couldn't get into the school that they wanted, and therefore, can't follow their dreams and become what the want to be.
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im in 8th grade and ive never had a boyfriend or been kissed. im really pretty (every1 sez so atleast) and idk whats wrong with me! im always smiling and happy and im really funny and goofy..whats wrong with this picture? (link)
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You have plenty of time on your hands. Maybe the one that God made special for you hasn't been created or come along yet. Just wait. Your time will come. There is no use rushing into a relationship at this time. It is a chore to keep up with and when you are ready and your meant to be partner is ready, he will come along. I am sure you are a very pretty, wonderful person. Just go along with your normal life and someday, your prince will come. If anything, run to God's arms and He will be your guiding light.
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