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Okay, so at the beginning of the year, I liked this guy. He was always checking me out and such and I knew it. So we both liked each other and he'd start sitting closer to me in class, then I would get closer to him until he moved to the other side of the room with his friends. About 5 or 6 months later he got a girlfriend. I didn't really care because I was totally over him. The day she asked him out I caught him staring at me-AGAIN! But after that there was hardly any eye-contact what-so-ever that I noticed. Until about a few weeks ago. He was putting on his sweatshirt and watched me across the hall, and he checked me out. (While he has a girlfriend) I walked by him in the hall while he was at his locker- and caught him staring. (And... they're still going out) Then he caught me staring in home-room. But that was only once. Then the next day in french class, we were walking in the hall together and he actually talked to me. Normally when I drop things, he'll be like "smooth..." sarcastically and not even spare a passing glance. Is that teasing? Is switching from nasty to nice his way of getting over me? Anyways, when he was talking to me he's like "Why'd she shut the door on us? What's wrong with her?" in a really funny way because we were late for class and neither of us liked the teacher very much. So anyways, we both take different buses and when I got off mine, I walked past his on the way home while his was driving by and you probably know what happens next. I caught him staring-- AGAIN!!! Now, don't get me wrong. I actually like it when he stares, 'cause he's a hot, funny guy, and I like the attention. But he's got a girlfriend. Does he like me? Because I'm 100% that he does at this point. But then I saw his AIM profile and on it, it said "(His girlfriend's name), I know we've been through some tough times but we're back and better than ever. You're the most amazing girl I've ever met and you're so funny. Love ya lots."
They've gone to the movies while he's been giving me attention at the same time too. I'm not saying he has cheating potential or anything... I just want to know if there's a possibility he might like me back.
Sorry it was so long.
Thanks for reading it and for answering!
Have a nice day!

Yes it is possible that he is just a starer becasue even if he does like you he doesn't like you enough for you to carry baout it becasue he is still with this girl.

You should understand thatI was saying he doesn't want you and that is the main point i was trying to make honey

Can you understand that

P.S No Offense

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I have a interview for an assistant manager. What are the most popular questions someone will ask you during your interview?

Why do you want this job. Why should i hire you?
Tell me about your self. How would you handle this situation?(Any bad situation that will come up in the area of that job) Why did you leave your last job? What experience do yo have in this area?

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we've have been dating for a few months and im a bit confused. we live really far away, around 3 and 1/2 hours away and i always told him that if it became too much, just to let me know and we'll be friends. he always said "no no its fine i love you blah blah" and that was that. ive been trying to fly out a few times but something goes wrong. the last time i broke my rib and i couldn't go see him. he was really angry because he wanted to see me, but i broke something! he always gets pissed off and i dont know what to say. im the one who gets blamed. on vday he said happy vday and thats it. basically he ignored me. i tried talking to him and then he kept asking "why are you in a bad mood". i told him that he was completely ignoring it and he said "well we arent even together so why celebrate it its stupid". i just thought he can at least talk to me or be nice. again, i said well if you have any problems tell me and we wont date but then he goes into no no i dont want that. is he being a jerk or what?? does he just not really like me like he says??

First of all if he wants to see you that bad he should get on a plane and come see you especially when you had a broken bone. He should have came to see you. Honey he is childish he just doesn't understand plain logic. You should break up with him maybe not because of how he feels about you but becasue he iosn't man enough to deal with a long distance relationship. He could have sent you roses, and candy or whatever. What kind of bull**** is that why celebrate it since we're not together he could have came to you and you'l could have been together on his part if he was a G. That relationship is too stressful unecesarily why be in a realationship that is long distance if you are always arguing and you basically don't have good realtionship communication. It is not worth it all that negative energy could be going into a new man close to home. You deserve better You should tell him to change his ways or it is over.

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There's this girl, Rayna. She's so mean. And anyway, I was talking to this guy on facebook whos really great, and she comments him and tells him that he should stop talking to me and that shell "explain later." and ive never even talked to her, so shes just doing it to spite me. So anyway, would it be a bad idea to message her saying "what did rayna say about me?" And should i say something else?

If it is that important to you than ask but I don't think that it should be that important because she is an immature little girl. You know who you are and what you are about you shouldn'r have to worry about what anyone else has to say. If he were to treat you differently or ask you any strange questions then I would get around to asking about whatever acusations she made. But, usually honestly what we don't know won't hurt us in these situtations and finding out details only make things worse. to actually get to a bottom of a problem like this I feel the best way to "nip it in the bud" would be to act mature step to the girl and find out what the problem is. You could simply in a nice way ask her " Do you have a problem with me?" and let the chips fall fro there. But if you don't want to go there and you know if you are prepared for something like that just ignore it because she is not worth it that is too childish to worry about; let it go.

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I really like my guy friend (lets call him Sam). He and I are always together in school and everyone guessed that I like him but i never admit it. Sam and I flirt alot, we talk, we make eye contact, we trust eachother, hes there for me, he defends me, he'll try to talk to me if he sees me cry, he smiles at me when we see eachother in the hall, and hes so sweet. Now, one of my guy friends got really depressed and I tried to help him through it. It didn't work so well and Sam could tell I was getting upset over something. He once overheard me telling my best friend how I couldn't take knowing about this and how in the end I told his parents. Sam overheard when I said I had cried the night before and as soon as class ended he came to the door and asked me what was wrong. I couldn't tell him the secret but I told him a bit. Now he is bugging me to tell him more and the othe guy is really mad I told even a little bit. What should I do?

You were just wrong for letting it slip both of them are probably upset becaause i hate back stabbing and i hate when people start things they can't finish but people make mistakes and that is how you learn tobe a better person so. If you really trust him and that is only 100% and he is your best friend finish telling him make sure he doesn't repeat it and never make that mistake again be a trust worthy friend. Otherwise make up a simple non incriminating, harmless lie to tell him to finish it off. And apoligize to the other friend for telling his secret and tell him you'll never do it again and how and why you did it and mean it. Always be a dependable frined don't tell other friends secrets and never put other friends in a position where they feel like you don't trust them .

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Ok I am 17 and I am a really hardworker in school and usually at whatever I do, I try to do my best and work hard. Well I guess since the summer I have put in 15 applications to different places and I gotten like 2 interviews and nothing else after that. I need help. How can I make the managers want to hire me and how can I show them that even though I do not have any work experience that I can still do a really good job?

also try anywhere where it says now hiring especially fast food restauraunts because they are most likely to hire on a regular places and call around or do whatever you have to do to make sure that you speak directly to the manager even when asking for and turning in your application. Always ask to speak with the general manager and ask questions so you know what to expect because other workers don't know exactly what is going on and don't care.

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